Why don t boys nowadays want to find a partner and get married?

With the development of society and the progress of mankind, it is normal for boys to be reluctant to get married, so why do you want girls? I don't think it's like boys don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married, because they are now under more pressure from studying or working, so they don't have too much time, and they are not too anxious about this kind of marriage and finding a partner.

Not all boys are like that. There are such, but they are not representative of the majority.

Most boys still want to find a partner, start a family, and get married.

Some people don't want to get married because life is stressful or the conditions don't allow them to find the right person. Once the conditions are ripe and there is a suitable person, he will also choose to get married, have children, and live a normal life.

I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and I wish you health and happiness!

May engage in objects. It's too expensive! So I won't do it. This is also normal. Because of falling in love. It takes time and money.

According to your description, I don't think it's like boys don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married, because they are under a lot of pressure in study or work, so they don't have much time, and they are not too anxious about finding a partner for this kind of marriage.

This should be an isolated phenomenon!

There's no one who doesn't want to have a perfect partner, and neither do men, and so do women.

It's just that as they get older, they slowly see through and look down, and their requirements are getting higher and higher, and they don't want to settle for ......

Only the love in the student period is simple, and there are no other interest conditions, and it is indeed not easy to maintain it for a long time.

Why don't boys nowadays want to find a partner? If you don't get married, because today's boys want to be free, why don't today's boys want to find a partner? If you don't get married, because today's boys want to be too strong as liberals, they all want to play, their hearts are too big, and they don't have autonomy when they get married, and they are liberal.

Most men still want to find a partner, but because the pressure is too great, or the requirements of women are too high, many people can't find a partner, and the pressure of marriage is even greater, so many people have to give up.

It's too much pressure.

Once you've found a partner, you'll have a variety of expenses you can't imagine. And what about income? It's hard to increase.

This is not necessarily a common phenomenon, because it is still common for boys nowadays, well, do you want to find a partner there? Because China is still a traditional country, but there are some boys who are still uh-huh. Fear or don't want to find a partner because life is more stressful.

This kind of thinking is not a common phenomenon, and generally people who have this kind of thinking are people who are under more pressure in life and work and have no confidence.

That's not true. It's just that boys haven't met their true love yet. Once they meet the person they like, they will be desperate to pursue their true love and find their happiness.

Who wants to get married when they're stressed? Can't you feel it?

It is very common for boys and girls to have this kind of thought, which may be related to the high pressure of today's life.

I haven't met the right one yet, or the guy is not ready to get married, and he still wants to continue playing.

Because those who have money don't need it, they are willing to spend the world, and those who have no money have no woman to look up to, and if they don't get up, it's also painful to get married. All day long for firewood, rice, oil, and salt.

Nowadays, there are many reasons why more and more boys do not find a partner and do not get married, mainly in the following aspects.

The main reason is not that you can't find a partner to marry, but that you can't find a partner and can't get married. Especially for so many leftover male singles in the countryside, many of them are unable to cope with the bride price because they have no house, no car, and no enough savings.

In big cities, there are many boys who are avant-garde and don't want to get married, they just want to be single, and their own conditions are very superior in all aspects, so they simply don't find a partner and don't get married, they are free and comfortable, and they live their lives without worries.

There are also many boys who have too high mate selection conditions and too high expectations for marriage, and after n failures, they lose their confidence in marriage and love, and they don't want to find a partner anymore, or they choose not to get married.

That's because it's more difficult to make money now, so there is no money, and fate hasn't arrived yet.

It's the same for girls, more and more women just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, but they really change themselves too much for a marriage, and it's not cost-effective, so they won't get married.

Nowadays, the reason why more and more men do not want to find a marriage partner should be explained by my cousin's experience.

My cousin is now 39 years old, and she will soon be forty years old, but she is still single, and although the family is very anxious about her marital status, she herself enjoys her current life. In his words, he is now in a state where he can feed the whole family alone, but she is not the kind of passive response, but has a special love for life.

At first, I didn't fall in love or get married, because I was really busy when I entered the society after struggling for my career, and even during the Spring Festival, I would go to the company to work overtime. The advantage of devoting himself to work wholeheartedly is that he is promoted and raised quickly, so he quickly earned the first pot of gold in his life and bought a house in our small county. In her 20s, owning a house of her own is still very attractive in the marriage market, so she also tried to go on a blind date a few times.

But it may not have met him in the eye, so it didn't work out. So he continued to put all his enthusiasm into his work, and when he had a little money, he sold his house in the county town and had his own home in the city. His current situation is that he has a car and a house, and he has some surplus food.

Now the cost of raising a family or raising a child is too high, so when he doesn't have these pressures, he can use all the funds for himself.

He is a person who is good at planning, so he arranges his life in all aspects, and now his work is not so busy, and he will go to the gym to travel after work, and every time I see the life situation she shares, I am really envious. His efforts are all based on his own expectations, not pressure, and life is also his own decision, so he has more autonomy over his own life. I think more and more men don't want to find a partner, and marriage should be one of the important factors.

In my opinion,Nowadays, some men are in a natural attitude towards falling in love or getting marriedI suddenly remembered a friend close to me, who also had this situation.

My friend Xiaobai is a relatively high-income boy, he has a decent job and a good personality, and there are always people who like him. Family and friends are asking Xiaobai why he didn't hurry up and find a partner, and Xiaobai said that he was not in a hurry, and he would talk about it when there was a suitable one.

This is also the case with XiaobaiA more common state of modern people, the living conditions are better, people's income is higher, and the fast pace of work makes the slow-paced love an indifferent attitude.

My neighbor Xiao Liang, he is a boy who likes sports. When he is not working, he goes to exercise, and climbing and running are his norms. Xiao Liang has never been in a hurry to find a partner, thinking that it will disturb the rhythm of his life.

For Xiaoliang's state, he may feel that it will take longer to find a partner to fall in love, unless he will meet a girlfriend who also loves it.

Why now more and more men don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married, it's not that they don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married. The second is because of the pressure from all sides, and there is that I can't find the right person, I have talked to two people before, and the two relationship experiences have made me a little disheartened and stressful. Hard work, getting up early and making some money, it's not enough to eat, drink and have fun with your girlfriend, you have to enjoy the best everything, and you have to pay for everything.

From time to time, I have to satisfy my girlfriend's vanity, no matter what I want, let myself pay for it, and I won't fight for it through my own efforts at all.

will also compare with the friends around him, and when he sees what his boyfriend has sent, he immediately demands himself by this standard, otherwise he doesn't love and cares.

Without a certain economic strength, love is really a luxury, and when it comes to a certain amount of helplessness, it will naturally choose to be single, and it will naturally choose not to want to find a partner.

Why are more and more boys reluctant to get married?

Nowadays, more and more men don't want to get married and don't want to find their own happiness, mainly because their lives are unstable and they often work outside.

There are too many responsibilities and obligations to bear that the economy cannot bear. Too much emotion is spent, and the spirit can't afford it.

Because the burden is too great. Now it takes money and experience to find a partner, and there will be many setbacks, and after all kinds of experiences, there will be even greater pain, and there are other issues to consider, in short, there are too many things.

A man has a wife and children at home, and then he goes to find a partner who is unfaithful to his wife, and marrying another woman constitutes the crime of bigamy, so more and more men follow the current monogamy and no longer think about polygamy. If it is an unmarried boy, it is not as comfortable as being alone because the only daughter is not easy to serve.

The cost of survival for men is much higher than that for women, and a man must have a good job and then be able to afford a house before he can find a partner. And now the post-90s and post-00s are very individual, like a carefree life, and don't like to be tied down, so many men no longer look for girlfriends, but like to do what they like.

Because the pressure of getting married is too great, you have to buy a house and a car when you get married, and the general loan is a loan, and you have to bear it for twenty or thirty years when you get married, and the pressure is too great.

Because today's men are working outside, there are too many chicken women outside, and they are tired of doing that thing outside, they get married, they have children, and the girls have grown up and run away, and the sons have grown up and married, and they are not filial to the elderly. So he didn't want to get married.

Now the pressure of life is too great, in addition to having a house and a car and savings, if these goals are not achieved by parents, it is estimated that it will be difficult to achieve most of the life, and now it is really difficult for men, so most men do not want to get married, and they choose not to find a partner.

To be honest, men still want to get married, but because of their own reasons and the current economic pressure, they are discouraged

In China, there are still many ordinary people, and most of them maintain a worry-free food and clothing, but the reality is that the economic pressure on the man when he gets married is too great, not only the man alone, but even the man's parents will be dragged down, and the economic conditions are the most important factor.

Because now men are under more and more pressure from work and life, and they don't have the energy and time to find a partner, and over time, they don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married.

Because the current social and economic pressure is very high, especially for men. Fall in love, get married, and have children. The economic pressure of buying a house and a car is increasing, so many men don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married. It's really because the pressure of reality is too much.

Nowadays, more and more men don't want to find a partner and don't want to get married because the pressure of life is too great now.

Because now women are looking for a partner with higher and higher requirements for men, they not only require men to have a house and a car, but also need to give a lot of bride price when they get married, which makes men feel a lot of pressure, and some men who can't earn money can only sigh and choose not to find a partner and not get married.

Nowadays, the pace of life is relatively fast, and life is more stressful. Many people think that falling in love will waste a lot of time and will cost a lot of money.

Now boys must marry a must be required to have a house and a car, I believe that everyone is from an ordinary family, even if they are very promising, there is a good school degree certificate, but as soon as they graduate, they have to be about 24, just started to work as an intern, the salary will not be too high, pointing to these salaries to buy a house and a car, it is impossible, with the help of parents, you will feel that your parents have worked hard all your life, and when you graduate, you have to work, and you have to let your parents help, not very embarrassed.

First of all, today's married women all ask for bride price. According to the differences in various places, the lowest is 50,000 or 60,000 yuan, we have just graduated and just entered the company, the salary is not very high, what do we use to make up this money, or count on our parents. Think about it, our parents want to help us with the bride price, as well as the house and car, and the parents' life's hard work is gone, so they are directly squeezed out.

So now some boys will not consider getting married too early, because if they get married early, they have no money in their hands, and their lives are not guaranteed at all.

Because there is a lot of pressure to find a partner to marry now, the woman is looking for a partner and requires the man to have a house and a car, and some girls also require the man to pay a high bride price, which is really stressful for a migrant worker with a low salary, so more and more men are unwilling to find a partner and are unwilling to get married, and I think the number of men who do not marry will gradually increase in the future.