Problems with parents and children Frequently asked questions about the relationship between parents

You should communicate with your parents seriously, everyone's parents want their children to be successful, that's why they restrain you so harshly! I'm a freshman now, and I'm already here! My mom and dad were also against me playing, so I restrained myself at home in order not to disappoint them!

In fact, there really isn't that much time to play in high school, and if you're really studying hard, even if you're a freshman in high school, you shouldn't have much time to play! However, it is not enough to study blindly, it is necessary to play appropriately. My parents are very open-minded about this!

You can make a three-chapter agreement with your mom and dad, for example, during the holidays, you study seven hours a day, and the rest of the time is at your own disposal! Of course, you must be efficient during these seven hours, especially at the beginning, you must let your parents see the results, so that they can rest assured that they will be able to make appointments with you in the future! You can't sneak out to play, so your credit will be lowered in the minds of your parents, making them even more uneasy about you and even more afraid to let you go out to play!

And you have to control yourself properly, and you can't let the time you play more than the time you study! After all, learning is the most important thing at this time, and it is not right to indulge in fun! If you can't afford to communicate with your parents, let them see this question of yours!

Let them see us too, and trust your parents to understand you! But only if you want to be a good boy!!

In fact, I think the main thing is the lack of communication. Or maybe you have communication, but it's always your parents' talk and it's not your turn to talk, and even if you do, they will reprimand you. Parents always think that it is for the good of their children, but they often ignore the feelings of their children, whether they need this kind of care, maybe parents should change the way maybe the child can accept it.

Parents and children should communicate frequently to know what their children think, avoid the appearance of **, and some should support him more, instead of blindly criticizing him and scolding him.

The solution to this problem must be solved by observing, understanding and thinking about the bits and pieces of daily life of both parties. Of course, it is more important to look at the problem from the other party's position and perspective, know and understand the shortcomings and advantages of the other party's methods, try to learn from each other, and communicate and communicate more.

Tolerate each other and learn to be tolerant.

Summary. Disagreement, you control him, children do not listen, common problems in the relationship between parents and children.

The relationship between parents is the earliest interpersonal relationship that children come into contact with, and children will involuntarily learn and apply it to get along with others. 1.Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2.Also use civilized language at home with children, "good morning, please, thank you, good night" and so on. Stupid Pin Rock 3

Let children develop good habits of hygiene. 4.Listen to your child's voice!

With patience, with love, with happiness, the heart has eyes! 5.Don't take the child to reveal the child's scars in order to remind the child to fight sleepy.

Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize back then, and want your children to realize them. 10.Care for the child, but the punishment of the appropriate time and the appropriate nuclear liquid celebration is also needed, do not bury the shortcomings of the child.

11.Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some tough measures. 12.

Based on your child's performance, think about at least one question about your child's development every day. 13.It is very beneficial to carry out art education for children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guide and enrich children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

Legal analysis: There is a legal relationship between parents and children for support, maintenance and inheritance.

1) In terms of personal aspects, there are rights and obligations to raise children, rights and obligations to manage education, and statutory **.

2) In terms of property, it is mainly manifested in the management of children's property, and the minors cause losses to others, and the parents must bear the liability for compensation.

1.Children who are minors or who are unable to live independently have the right to demand maintenance from their parents when they fail to fulfill their maintenance obligations.

2.Children have an obligation to support their parents. When the parents are unable to work or have difficulties in life, the children of the laughing model are obliged to pay alimony, and the marriage relationship of the parents is not terminated due to the change of the parents' marital relationship.

3.Children have the obligation to respect the marital rights of their parents and not interfere with their parents' remarriage and their life after marriage.

Parents and children have the right to inherit from each other.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 26 Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children. Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

From this point of view, I am reminded of an ancient story. It is said that Bao Zheng of the Song Dynasty is also a person who loves to preach, and his son is rebellious, you say the east and I say the west, you beat the dog and I scold the chicken, Bao Zheng is helpless, only sighing. Later, when Bao Zheng was dying, he asked his son to bury him in an iron coffin, thinking that his son would do the opposite.

The prodigal son who knew that his son turned back, did not listen to his father all his life, and finally decided to listen to it once. As a result, Bao Zheng miscalculated, and was buried in an iron coffin, and he could not turn over forever, and it was difficult to see the blue sky after that.

Many of our elders are also the same as Bao Zheng, they have no complicated motives for the preaching of the younger generations, it is nothing more than a love word, hoping that the younger generations will thrive in the sun like green seedlings.

We have come all the way from the elders to preach, and in turn we have preached to our children. Witnessing a car accident, turn around and let your children walk well. Seeing his children playing with their mobile phones for a long time, they tirelessly discipline them, fearing physical harm.

When it's cold, I tell my children to wear more clothes for fear of catching a cold. And so on.

Most of the children don't buy it. Can't I walk? That's always nagging. Who doesn't play with their phones? Always say that it hurts the body, why not mention the convenience it brings to people's lives? Isn't it hot to wear too much? Wait a minute.

Most of the younger generations really understand their elders when they become elders. The elders should understand their own good intentions, learn more, keep pace with the times, innovate their own concepts, and communicate more with their children.

Communication is also an art.

Legal basis: Article 27 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Parents are the guardians of minor children.

Where a minor's parents are deceased or have no capacity for guardianship, the following persons with the ability to carry care are to serve as guardians in order:

1) Grandparents or maternal grandparents (2) brothers and sisters (3) other individuals or organizations willing to serve as guardians, but with the consent of the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the minor's residence.