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If you don't get in the way, don't pay attention to them, society is really discordant at some times, you have to work harder if you don't have the ability, let yourself have the ability to change this phenomenon as soon as possible, those people have nothing to do all day, they will be pitiful in the future, you have to look at them with sympathetic eyes, hehe, isn't it a lot cooler, relax, put yourself into studying, you will find that it is a waste of time to pay attention to them, haha, the mood is much better.
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If you think about it, if the school does not revoke the files of the problem students, then these files do not clearly say that the students taught by their school are not good, isn't this a slap in the face? Schools certainly don't do that, which affects their reputation and enrollment.
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As long as you think like this, they have low moral character, even if they escape the punishment of the school, they will not be happy when they enter the society, there will be many people who teach them, you don't have to worry, there are such people in our school, I am also very angry, which of them did not cheat in the exam, why can't we compare to them when we study seriously? Only superficial work!
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If you can't accept such a fact.
The interests are to be maintained by ourselves, and we expect the school to help you maintain them, is it possible?
Tell you, even the society may not be able to maintain you!
Otherwise, how can there be so many resentful things such as bullying by the children of officials and eunuchs.
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...Maybe your school cares more about itself, and all they can do is teach you a lesson when you make mistakes, and if it is really written in the file, I think the school itself will be damaged, and the school is very selfish. Bear with me, take a step back and open the sky.
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Truth be told, the school also needs to save face, and you can't say that the students who walk out of your school are punished.
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Teaching and educating students is the responsibility of teachers, and criticism and praise are one of the forms of encouragement.
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There is no concentration on the current students, sometimes do not study seriously, do not pay attention to listening, half-heartedly look around, which affects the attention of students and will not concentrate on learning, so the teacher finds that it is necessary to criticize students, because the teacher has a sense of responsibility, he has to take on everything for students, do not pay attention to the phenomenon, at any time urge students to pay attention to concentration, put the chicken fir on learning, so that the grades can be improved, but also positive energy, the teacher both teaches and educates, wants to teach the child well, If he wants to raise a child to be a useful person in society, he must criticize and correct the students.
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Parents and teachers are both leaders on the path of children's growth, and the two have the same goals, and they need to cooperate and echo each other. It is the duty of the teacher to criticize and educate the students as necessary if they have deficiencies or mistakes, and it is a good thing for the students. Only in this way can students recognize their own shortcomings, correct their shortcomings and mistakes, and grow and progress faster.
However, it is not enough to rely on the unilateral work of the school, and it requires the close cooperation, supplementation and improvement of parents. Without the cooperation of parents, or on the one hand to do work, on the other hand, to dismantle the stage, can only be counterproductive, children not only can not correct the faults and mistakes, but will become more and more serious. In the same way, children have shortcomings and problems, and parents alone educate their children, which often does not work well, and children listen to teachers very much, and need the teacher's cooperation and improvement.
Only when schools and families work together can children truly realize their own faults and mistakes and achieve the purpose of education.
1. Adults can't get over face.
They think that teachers criticizing children are criticizing parents, and not saving face for children is equivalent to not saving face for adults. If the teacher has something to say, why can't he tell the child behind his back? Or to put it mildly, in a more euphemistic way, in front of the whole class?
Is it that we are not doing a good job as parents and offending teachers? Or is he not enthusiastic enough about the teacher and does not express it to the teacher, so he deliberately comes to talk about the child? Otherwise, why can't the forty or fifty students in the class get along with my children?
Some parents even regard their children as their own private property, thinking that the child is my child, and others can't touch it, and if you want to criticize it, you have to let me say it, and others have no right to make irresponsible comments.
2. Doting on children too much.
They can't look at their children objectively and comprehensively, they always think that their children are the best, and they don't believe that their children will be so bad, to the extent that they don't criticize them by name. Isn't there a worse student in the class than him? Why doesn't the teacher criticize them, but my child?
Speaking of which, it's not the children's problem, it's still a prejudice against us parents.
Parents and teachers often come to different conclusions from different angles and positions. Parents face a child in their own family, plus doting, can not see the child's faults and deficiencies, as a teacher specializing in education work, every day to face dozens of students in the class, which student has shortcomings, problems, at a glance. This can just make up for the shortcomings of parents and play their irreplaceable role.
There are also parents who adopt a laissez-faire attitude towards their children, ignore their children, beat and punish them, let the school teachers deal with them, and put all the responsibility on the school, which is also not right. As mentioned above, for a child's education, both the school and the family need to be completed, and the family has a more important responsibility. Without the cooperation of the family, no matter how hard the school teachers tried, they had little effect.
Targeted advice for parents of children:
1. Determine the education method according to the child's attitude.
When a child is criticized by a teacher at school, parents do:
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This cannot be refuted, it is a fact. It's just that there are too few good students in bad schools, which is not what the society wants, and the society hopes that every graduate is a worker with all-round moral, intellectual and physical development, and bad schools cannot complete this task, and only a small number of people in bad schools can develop morally, intellectually and physically in an all-round way.
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1: It's not that they don't listen, it's just that they don't recognize what form they're dealing with.
2: Some of them can be persuaded, but they can't persevere in their hearts, they are not confused by temporary ease, and they need the teacher's patient help;
3: Part of it is because of fear in the heart and evasion of responsibility.
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If you are important to him/her, then you have to ask him to take care of himself, and as for how that is his (his) business What do you say?
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In fact, it is his own thinking that is inconsistent with other people's opinions, and other people's actions feel wrong.
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What is bad?
It's really wrong to be a "bad student".
But they have a problem with the definition of "bad student", and that's how they are named, borrowing a knife to kill people, that's all.
Added note, the teacher in your eyes does exist, in my opinion is not a real teacher, I have also taken some good classes in college, met some good teachers, many can speak freely, can make friends, look forward to educational reform, but ** can be completed overnight? There are a small number of teachers who are role models, and they want to take the lead in reform, but how many people dare?
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Bad and good are positioned differently, so there are good and bad based on different perspectives. But originally, all opinions come from the "heart" of people, and when you think it is good, what you see is good, and when your heart thinks it is bad, it is bad. So the key is also in one's heart.
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Because bad students do bad things, in the open society of our country's legal system, it is not allowed!
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There are two sides to everything. It's up to you what you think.
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First of all, does anyone know what the standard of a bad student is? Why do we divide students into three, six, nine, and so on in our hearts? Who of us has paid attention to what is really going on in their hearts? It's ridiculous!
In fact, some students do mischievous things, things that make others unhappy, it is not that they are bad, in fact, they just want to get the attention of others, they just want to attract the attention of others.
Children's childhood is innocent, so I hope that adults will not easily button their children with a "glorious" hat, which will be a memory that they will never let go of for a lifetime.
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Most people will think that it is wrong to be a bad student, but there are a very small number of people who do not think so, and over time, the minority will also dilute this idea, which is probably to go with the flow, the minority obeys the majority...
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