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We can often see such things in TV dramas, or around us: a man likes another woman very much, but he would rather wait for this woman to be with someone else, and he has never expressed his liking to that girl. Even the girl likes this boy, but these two people just don't confess, so the two of them are destined in the end, but they have no share.

I think the reason why this boy behaves like this is nothing more than these reasons.

First, the boy feels that he has no way to give the girl happiness at the moment.

In fact, many boys also want to confess when they face the girls they like, but these boys hope that they can give girls happiness, so when he thinks that he has no way to give girls happiness, he will not take the initiative to disturb girls. I can only silently watch the girls and others together, and bless them.

Second, the boy feels that if he breaks up, he can't even be a friend, so at least he can care about her silently.

Not every relationship can go to the end, if two people are in love, because of some problems or small stumbles in life, there is a conflict. Then it is very likely that it will turn out to be the result of a breakup in the end. After a breakup, often couples can't be friends.

So sometimes boys are afraid to confess in order to be able to meet this girl and care about the girl in the future. After all, friends can be for life, but couples may not be able to make it to the end.

I think there are too many reasons why the boy didn't confess to the girl in the end, maybe it's his liking that can't support him to be able to muster up the courage. He was afraid that after he said it, the girl would reject him, and he wouldn't even have to be a friend in the future. But I think if you like someone, don't leave any regrets, because tomorrow or accidents, you don't know which will come first.

Maybe that person has been waiting for you for a long, long time, but you don't dare to take that step, and you can only miss it in the end. So, take the courage and go after it!

Because these boys can't stand being rejected by others, even if they meet someone they like, they don't dare to say it out loud for fear of being rejected by the other party.

Mainly because they want to keep this love in their hearts, so they would rather miss it than say it.

Some people are shy and embarrassed to speak, and some people will have low self-esteem and feel that they are not worthy of such a good girl, and they are embarrassed to say it.

It's because these boys feel that even if they say it, the girl won't be with him, and their confidence in themselves is very low, so they hide their feelings.

It may be that when you really meet someone you like, it will be easy to have an inferiority complex. That's why I don't dare to say it.

Many girls in life think like this, and would rather miss out than take the initiative to do something. With the continuous development of the times, people's minds are becoming more and more fashionable. Some girls begin to actively pursue their own happiness and find their true love.

But there are also a large number of girls who have been passively waiting for love to come. If the boy is not active enough, the girl would rather pass by the two than take the initiative to express something. It is natural for a man to chase a woman, and a woman chases a man because of a lightning strike.

Although this statement is a bit excessive, some girls in life think so. When a guy chases her, no matter how good he is to her, no matter what he does, it's natural. Even if a girl doesn't like the boy, she won't refuse the boy's kindness.

On the other hand, if the boy suddenly stops taking the initiative, then the boy is likely to become a scumbag in the girl's mouth. If he chases, he stops chasing. He complained that the boy did not have perseverance, that the boy did not have perseverance, that the boy did not love her enough.

But you don't want to think for yourself. You never give positive feedback to others. Why is it taken for granted to be good to you?

Love needs to be pursued by oneself, and happiness must be mastered by oneself. Although many boys in life are willing to try their best to pursue the girl they like, there are also some boys who are unwilling to wronged themselves. So in real life, many boys would rather be single than actively pursue girls, and many girls would rather miss out than say something to the boys they like.

Then I watched the people around me move towards happiness one after another, but complained about others.

There are many things in life that we need to take the initiative to do, not only love, but also family and friendship. Girls take the initiative and live happily, which is really enviable. When you meet someone you like, take the initiative.

There are some boys who meet someone they like, and would rather miss it than say it, they feel that he and the girl they like have no future, even if he says it, it will only cause trouble for the girl, and will not have a positive impact on their life.

It may be because the boy is not confident enough and has a more introverted personality, so he does not dare to express his liking for someone. Maybe it's because I don't have the same desire for love. Probably for fear of rejection.

It's also possible that they feel so confident that even if they don't say it, the girl won't be with other people and will wait.

Even if a man meets someone he likes, if he can't give her happiness, she won't confess to this person. Because there is a kind of love, which is called letting go. When he can't give what the person he likes wants or can't meet the requirements of the person he likes, he won't confess directly.

Because he thinks that if he is with the person he likes, he will let the person he likes suffer with him, so they don't say it.

They are just too shy, afraid that the other party will reject him after confessing.

Many boys will meet someone they like, and they would rather miss it because he didn't have the courage to confess at that time and didn't dare to pursue the person he liked. I feel that I am not worthy of the other party.

Because some boys lack basic social experience, they may have both self-esteem and conceit. So sometimes I think that girls will take the initiative to approach them more. If the girl doesn't approach them, they wonder if the girl doesn't like him.

In this case, he himself will not pursue girls.

This has a lot to do with a person's personality and level of self-confidence. If a person is introverted, then he is reluctant to say that he likes to say everything he likes to say to another person, because he is not good at expressing himself, and he is afraid that there will be an embarrassing situation when he expresses it clearly.

Psychology is at work, and that is self-esteem. Self-esteem can also prevent a person from confessing to the person he likes and being brave enough to pursue the person he likes. In fact, this is still inseparable from self-confidence, because I am not confident enough, I dare not go, I don't want to go.

Because of the fear of rejection, I don't want to go, I don't dare to go, in order to preserve the last bit of self-esteem.

A boy likes a girl, except for some insurmountable factors, generally speaking, he will not be duplicitous, unless he has not really recognized who the person he likes is, sometimes the authorities are confused, and they have already liked each other, but they haven't realized it yet.

This kind of boy is actually because they are very introverted. Not good at expressing and not taking the initiative, so sometimes I'd rather miss it than say it.

Because these boys sometimes feel very inferior, thinking that they are not worthy of the person they like, and they are too timid, afraid that their beloved will reject them, and always think that after they become excellent, they will confess to each other, but it is often too late.

Boys may not take the initiative because they are not confident enough.

It's shyness. But I think it's good to take the initiative, because.

Aim for yourself to be the one you really like, girl.

Children are often passive, and the passive can only choose to accept and reject.

Absolutely, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love, without resentment. No regrets!

They are not very confident in themselves, feel that they are not good enough, cannot give each other enough security and happiness, that is, they are not willing to drag her down.

It is precisely because some boys meet someone they like, and they would rather miss it than say it, so there is a lot less beautiful love, in fact, they also want to confess their sincerity to the person they like, but because of his rigid character, a lot of beautiful marriages have been ruined.

Some boys are afraid to say it, for fear that the relationship between the two will deteriorate after they say it. Second, some boys don't need to worry about borrowing it, but they haven't said it when the other party has someone they like.

This shows that this boy is an introvert, a boy with very low emotional intelligence, who has never been in love, and is very shy and doesn't know how to confess to the other party.

I must feel that I can meet better people, and I also feel that I can't be friends after I say it, so it's also to maintain the current relationship.

He also likes the situation next to you: he will find an opportunity to get close to you and let you know that he likes you too, and may confess to you directly or tell you that you like him through buddies or friends around you. Connect you through your friends.

This kind of person should be said to be the shy type, if you say that the kind of guy who is particularly sunny, knows that you like him, he may directly date you!

Dislike of you: When he knows that you like him but he doesn't like you, if you show that you like the way he looks, he will think that you are not reserved and conservative as a girl.

Of course, if you like a boy who is very well-bred and excellent in all aspects, he may get to know each other as good friends first! It's not going to be a hasty decision about your relationship.

Psychoanalysis: Hey, I think this guy is very interesting!

Little brother, let's first analyze the woman's motives.

The first: She said that she has an inseparable ex-boyfriend, so can it be understood that if his ex-boyfriend comes to her again, he can get back together at any time, and continue to get the psychological support or material support she wants from him, which is inseparable and must be inseparable and difficult to replace. And since it's an ex-boyfriend, when you ask for it from him again, the price you pay is actually very low, because there is no constraint on the relationship, so you have to know this first.

The second: Since I have explained that I can't forget my ex-boyfriend, and at the same time I say that I like you and your filial piety, I may be telling you on the side, I am a person who values feelings, you are very good, I like you, but I also like the other one, so when you are good to me, please don't mind if I accept my ex-boyfriend's kindness to me, and my needs for both of you must be satisfied.

To sum up: This girl may not be as simple as you think, she needs to make a trade-off between you, who is what she needs the most, and who she will choose in the end, but before Qiaochang erection, she will have one"Investigation period"to determine which of you is the best fit. My guess is that she might have said that to his ex-boyfriend"I have a boy I like now, but I still can't forget you"This kind of thing probably means that you are still in my heart, so when I need you, you still have to satisfy me.

Little brother, please be careful.

Treat such girls. Don't just listen to words, be sure to look at the girl's final behavior, I even venture to guess that she should catch you most of the verbal behavior with you, rather than the actual visible behavior. If the little brother really likes it, then please also be a clear spare tire, not confused.

Finally, remind the little brother that love is the contribution of both parties, you have to know whether the other party is really suitable for you, this kind of girl, usually like to maximize interests, you don't believe it, if you are a rich brother, she will definitely not tell you that she can't forget her ex-boyfriend, and she may even be separated from her ex-boyfriend.