Is there a pure confidant and confidant in reality?

There are two possibilities for you to ask this question: one is that you are still at an age when you do not understand the friendship between men and women. The other is that you don't understand how to get along with men and women? Let's talk about things outside of marriage.

Especially in the current living environment, you and I find a few otherworldly gentlemen to come out, otherwise, it can be asserted that in the current world of you and me, there will be no gentleman like Megumi Yanagishita, who will sit still in the face of the relationship between the sexes. So, without what you said, it's a pure heterosexual confidant relationship!

As long as you are a person with normal emotions, it is impossible to maintain a very pure relationship with the opposite sex who is very close to you. Therefore, those who talk about the emotions between men and women under the pretense of having a simple relationship are just pretending to be asleep.

Therefore, what soul confidant, what pure confidante is a person who doesn't even have a soul, but is just a fake promotion for the spiritual level he thinks, the more such a person, the more hypocritical!

Therefore, the best way is to be a person with a soul and turn the person in your marriage into your own confidant and lover. Don't get close to it easily, except for the people around you, the opposite sex, even if it is unavoidable, must have a deep, deep, deep sense of proportion.

However, the reality is that very few people can be self-disciplined to this extent, and if they can improve their cultivation to such an extent, they will be able to avoid the annoyance of knowing oneself and not knowing oneself!

No, the so-called blue-faced confidant.

There must be one party who likes the other, and then willingly becomes his spare tire.

There are no complaints, everything is for his sake, on the surface you are friends and lovers.

relationship, but she definitely likes you, or you like her, but there will be no two parties who like each other, if both parties like each other, they have been together for a long time, how can there be any confidantes.

and Lan Yan's confidant. There must be someone in the blue confidant or confidant who is willing to do it for him, you may not tell others what you have to say, but you will definitely tell him, but if he has a girlfriend, you will definitely be sad, but you will not bother, you will only bless.

My friend's friend is even funnier, she dated her blue-faced confidante, but eventually broke up, and finally heard my friend say that they didn't even do friends later, so they became strangers. My friend has a male friend who has a good time, there are some things she didn't tell her boyfriend, but she told her blue face confidant, and she will think of her blue face confidant when she buys things, of course, that boy is also very good to him, but suddenly one day her friend suddenly confessed to her, she herself was stupid, completely confused, although they are still in contact now, but not as close as before, she told me that it is still embarrassing to meet again after the confession, not as casual as before. In fact, if boys and girls are just friends, don't give each other some wrong information, there should be a distance, when others are very good to you, you should also pay attention to proportion, don't let him misunderstand that you also have a good impression of him.

When a boy is good to a girl, he must like you, don't say you're just friends, that's really funny, only your dad wants nothing more from you, although it's possible that the boy doesn't want to date you, just wants to share happiness and sorrow with you, but there are very few such people. People who have girlfriends will definitely not ask you to share his things, so you still have to pay attention, don't believe in blue confidants and confidantes and the like, there will be good friends of the opposite sex, but they will not reach confidants and the like. Sober up.

I don't think there should be, and even if there is, it's a rare case. The so-called confidante and confidante are just an excuse for two people to engage in ambiguity, and generally the two people who become this kind of relationship should know each other well enough to penetrate each other, know each other's interests and hobbies, joys and sorrows, and even some special little habits in life, they already have each other's positions in each other's hearts, but they have not yet risen to the height of lovers.

Yes. Many boys and girls will doubt the existence of confidantes and confidantes. Even many people think that the so-called confidante and confidant are just a disguised name for the ambiguity of the two people, and they don't know what the relationship is.

If a guy has a confidante and he happens to have a girlfriend, then his girlfriend will suspect that the boy has an ulterior relationship with his confidante.

Of course, there are so-called confidants and confidants. But this kind of feeling is not easy to grasp, and the boundaries are not easy to delineate, and many times the so-called confidants are in an ambiguous state, which plays the role of a spare tire.

No, there is basically no confidante and confidante between men and women, but they secretly like him in this name, and the confidant is the one he likes you, and you don't let him confess.

No, no one will be unconditionally good to you, friends of the opposite sex must have a purpose for you to be good to you, the so-called blue confidante confidante confidante just likes it and can't be together when it's late, and it's unwilling to give up, so it's around you in case you have the opportunity to be together one day, it's difficult for the opposite sex to become a confidant, and being able to become a confidant is just a further inqualification to take a step back and be unwilling.

I don't think there are real confidants and confidants, regardless of men and women, if they are married and have a family, it is best not to have a confidante or confidante. In this way, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and if the blue confidante and the red confidant develop further, they will develop into boyfriend and girlfriend.

There really is. For example, in our lives, or in the process of getting along with colleagues, we really have good friends of the opposite sex. They are only limited to the relationship between friends and will not go beyond the thunder pool.

No, the so-called confidante must be one party who silently likes the other, and is willing to be her spare tire and pay for him silently

There is no so-called confidante and confidante, the so-called confidant and confidant are love, two people love each other, but they can't be together for various reasons, so they will become confidantes or confidantes.

In reality, there are indeed confidants. But a true confidante can actually be called a spiritual lover. It is necessary to have a strong self-control ability and grasp the moral and legal steps between men and women.

I don't think so, it's hard to have a particularly pure friendship between the opposite sex, because your partner won't allow you to have a confidante or a confidante, and he wants to always be the most important thing to you.

In real life, it should be said that there are really confidants and confidants! But there are not many such cases, and it is not easy to do this! Both parties need to restrain their emotions and have strong self-control!

Every man may have a complex in his heart, that is, he can have a confidante in this life, a woman who is most affectionate and sexual, this is not a wife who is trivial at home, nor is it a lover who is happy for a while. It is a mature, steady, knowledgeable, empathetic, and able to confide in his own spiritual world.

Someone once said that a wife is the woman you are willing to give her savings for safekeeping, and a confidante is someone you can tell her secrets but can't tell your wife.

It is not easy for a man to find a confidante who trusts each other, both like-minded and willing to be with each other. Even if you are lucky enough to find it, it is difficult to grasp and grasp the scale and proportion to pay attention to in getting along. If the boundaries are not clear enough and too crossed, confidantes are likely to become extramarital lovers, which is what we often say:

Red is red and red is green. "Turning spiritual belonging into a real problem, no matter how you prove your innocence, it is also a cover-up and quibble in the eyes of others. Faced with the tragic ending of the imminent separation of his wife, men often do not go out of their way to seek a red face.

And for women, they also want to have a blue-faced confidant, want to understand men more deeply, find a man's perspective from the blue-faced confidant, and find some answers. And it's also similar to Hongyan, not a husband, not a lover, just a good girlfriend, a good friend who has nothing to talk about, and has a quarrel with her husband, you can find this Lanyan to vent and confide in her heart. But this blue face can't grasp that degree, it is said that there are no real girlfriends, they must all contain some feelings, even if they are white and flawless, but they may not be recognized by your other half.

Therefore, whether it is red or blue, it has a certain ambiguous color, which is an emotion that is a little more than liking and a little less than love, meeting each other at any time and separating at any time.

I think that there are confidantes who mean that boys have good female friends, and blue confidants are girls who have good male friends, but they are actually friends of the opposite sex.

In fact, there is no so-called confidante and confidant in life, men and women are together, time to get along, and there will be no simple confidant relationship.

There must be something, otherwise how could there be such a word? It is that the other party can understand your mind and mind very well. Or more sincerely able to listen to your thoughts, as for the rest of the matter then talk about it, let's just say pure confidant.

There really is, but very little, because the relationship between men and women, not so youthful friendship.

Yes, most of them are ambiguous relationships now, women outside of marriage, and men are not special. Special relationships can't become confidants, and the relationships and thoughts of having several confidants are not ambiguous, so it's not necessary. You and he don't need to face each other first, this kind of person is called a confidant.

The confidante coin is a boutique among women.

There is really this, because it does not necessarily mean that there is no pure relationship between men and women, it may just be that the two of them are very compatible, but because of a series of relationships, they don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, they just want to be good friends, so there will be.

There really is, but very little, because the relationship between men and women, not so much, simple.

This is a real confidante and a confidant, both of which are friendships established by many friends around them, a kind of sincerity, a sense of trust.

Personally, I don't think there is a simple friendship between men and women, and the so-called blue and red faces are just ambiguous in the name of confidants.

I think this exists.,Not necessarily one day a confidant will become a couple.,Pure friendship between men and women is very rare.,Most of them have a good impression of each other.,It's just a legitimate name to deal with.。

Yes, but if it is true, there are very few.

Red face and blue face, most of them are generally not available to themselves, and it is difficult to find someone who understands themselves and has similar interests in the vast sea of people!

The so-called confidante and confidant are just happy with their names. I don't think there is an absolute friend like this. In fact, when men and women get along for a long time, love will arise.

This refers to whether you have friends of the opposite sex or not, and everyone will have it. Friends of the opposite sex are very normal, so confidants and confidants are real.

In real life, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex, of course, there are very good friends who only talk about friendship, not love. This is the confidant and the confidante of the blue.