Is there really a so called confidante and confidante?

No, the so-called blue-faced confidante must have a certain party who likes the other, and then willingly be his spare tire, no complaints, everything is for his sake, on the surface you are friends and lovers are not in a relationship, but she definitely likes you, or you like her, but there will be no two parties who like each other, if both parties like each other, they have been together for a long time, how can there be any confidante and confidante blue. There must be someone in the blue confidant or confidant who is willing to do it for him, you may not tell others what you have to say, but you will definitely tell him, but if he has a girlfriend, you will definitely be sad, but you will not bother, you will only bless.

My friend's friend is even funnier, she dated her blue-faced confidante, but eventually broke up, and finally heard my friend say that they didn't even do friends later, so they became strangers. My friend has a male friend who has a good time, there are some things she didn't tell her boyfriend, but she told her blue face confidant, and she will think of her blue face confidant when she buys things, of course, that boy is also very good to him, but suddenly one day her friend suddenly confessed to her, she herself was stupid, completely confused, although they are still in contact now, but not as close as before, she told me that it is still embarrassing to meet again after the confession, not as casual as before. In fact, if boys and girls are just friends, don't give each other some wrong information, there should be a distance, when others are very good to you, you should also pay attention to proportion, don't let him misunderstand that you also have a good impression of him.

When a boy is good to a girl, he must like you, don't say you're just friends, that's really funny, only your dad wants nothing more from you, although it's possible that the boy doesn't want to date you, just wants to share happiness and sorrow with you, but there are very few such people. People who have girlfriends will definitely not ask you to share his things, so you still have to pay attention, don't believe in blue confidants and confidantes and the like, there will be good friends of the opposite sex, but they will not reach confidants and the like. Sober up.

Yes. Many boys and girls will doubt the existence of confidantes and confidantes. Even many people think that the so-called confidante and confidant are just a disguised name for the ambiguity of the two people, and they don't know what the relationship is.

If a guy has a confidante and he happens to have a girlfriend, then his girlfriend will suspect that the boy has an ulterior relationship with his confidante.

Why do I say that? Because I've experienced it myself. I had a really good relationship with that guy, and I would go to him and cry when I was unhappy.

As a boy, he may not be able to tell me about some of his vulnerabilities, but every time I am sad, he will listen silently next to me. We both know each other as special beings and trust each other very much. But no matter how good our relationship is, we only appreciate each other.

We all know very well that each other's feelings for each other are just a little more than good friends, confidants and confidants. And at that time, I always had an ex that I loved deeply.

Later, my blue-faced confidante had a girlfriend. That girl, just like I just said, doubted my relationship with my Lan Yan. But what am I afraid of?

The girl said that I was shameless, that I was pestering the man, and he didn't understand the relationship between me and the boy. I never wanted to ruin the relationship between them, I just wanted to protect my blue face. What that girl said to me, I would take a screenshot for me to show Lan Yan, I don't care what kind of mentality he is.

The girlfriend is his affair and should also be settled by him. Later, I said to his girlfriend, you have a kind of let him choose 1 of 2, with you without me, with me without you. His girlfriend didn't make a fuss.

Now because he has a girlfriend, I have less contact with her, but my relationship with her girlfriend is much better than before. If there is any conflict between them, they will come to me and ask me. If there's anything I'm embarrassed to say, I'll pass it on.

Three people, they are lovers, and I am a confidant. So the confidant of the blue face, the confidant of the red face, really exists. There is no wind and snow, only simple friendship.

Probably because of the opposite sex, many people have misunderstandings about the so-called blue-faced confidantes and red-faced confidants. In fact, these two are really simple, not as dirty and dirty as everyone thinks.

It's just that they happen to fit each other's souls, and they don't have a heartbeat for each other, so they will have a blue-faced confidante or a red-faced confidant. I hope you can solve the misunderstanding of the blue confidant and the red confidant. Don't treat you differently as soon as you hear about blue faces, or red faces.

In fact, they really don't have anything, they are really just friends who are better than good friends.

I don't think there should be, and even if there is, it's a rare case. The so-called confidante and confidante are just an excuse for two people to engage in ambiguity, and generally the two people who become this kind of relationship should know each other well enough to penetrate each other, know each other's interests and hobbies, joys and sorrows, and even some special little habits in life, they already have each other's positions in each other's hearts, but they have not yet risen to the height of lovers.

Everyone hopes that they can live with the person they like and cherish the most, and the confidante or confidante is within the scope of this candidate, and they may be afraid that they will not be able to maintain the current relationship after they say it, or they may not have confidence in themselves, so they choose to take a step back and silently protect each other. There is no end to their conversations, what should be talked about and what should not be talked about is all within the scope of their chat, and even the man may even know the date of the woman's aunt, but none of them dare to act further, once this layer of window paper is pierced, then they should be together.

Now how many blue and red faces are in power, two people who have been together for a long time will more or less have a little feeling, even if there is not much flame of love, the spark of family affection should be rubbed out, so on this basis, they can easily be together, after all, no one knows each other better than them except relatives. Of course, we can't deny the kind of real blue-faced and red-faced confidantes, after all, you can't kill all the possibilities with a stick, maybe people have grown up wearing a pair of pants and can't wipe out any flames, and they have long regarded the other half as their best friend or same-sex friend, so naturally there is no love collision.

Of course there is, just like the popular "Xie Na has a kind of happiness called He Jiong" on the Internet, and Yang Zi and Zhang Yishan are also a pair of funny good friends, this kind of friendship for many years really makes us very envious.

The feelings between men and women can be friendship in addition to love, and the depth of this feeling is no less than love, many people say that there is no real friendship between men and women, I don't think so, there are still some, and some friendship is the kind of relationship for a long time with each other special understanding, special tacit understanding, just like the feelings between girls and girls, or like boys and boys that kind of buddy righteousness, you can say everything.

This kind of relationship is often not developed into love, many people are particularly envious of the love of childhood sweethearts, but I prefer to like love at first sight, the friendship between the opposite sex is deep, and I feel that there is no feeling at all, this kind of feeling cannot develop into love for me.

When I was in high school, I had a friend of the opposite sex who had a very good relationship, that is, he said everything to each other, and his personality was more delicate, more suitable for being a girlfriend type, he also told me everything, and even the love letters written to him by girls who liked him would show me. Later on, my girlfriends would introduce each other, so even after all these years, I think we would still have this friendship, like the kind of friendship between girlfriends. And if it can develop into love, it will have developed a long time ago, so since it is friendship, it is still friendship after all.

Confidantes and confidantes can be classmates, and some friendship may develop between colleagues after work in the future, after all, we can't live without the opposite sex except for our other half.

There must be confidants or confidants in life, but it is just that there are no people who have not met them!

No. What a red face knows. Lan Yan knows.

It's all an excuse for being ambiguous. It's nice to say. Blue face confidante.

It's not nice to say. Spare tire only. Some people do it for their own ulterior purposes.

Self-inflicted. Cover up people's eyes.

I think there really is a confidante with a red face or a blue face! As long as both parties get along with each other in good faith and grasp the bottom line!

Yes, it's better to stay away from each other

I don't think there should be, and even if there is, it's a rare case. The so-called confidante and confidante are just an excuse for two people to engage in ambiguity, and generally the two people who become this kind of relationship should know each other well enough to penetrate each other, know each other's interests and hobbies, joys and sorrows, and even some special little habits in life, they already have each other's positions in each other's hearts, but they have not yet risen to the height of lovers.

Of course, there are so-called confidants and confidants. But this kind of feeling is not easy to grasp, and the boundaries are not easy to delineate, and many times the so-called confidants are in an ambiguous state, which plays the role of a spare tire.

No, there is basically no confidante and confidante between men and women, but they secretly like him in this name, and the confidant is the one he likes you, and you don't let him confess.

No, no one will be unconditionally good to you, friends of the opposite sex must have a purpose for you to be good to you, the so-called blue confidante confidante confidante just likes it and can't be together when it's late, and it's unwilling to give up, so it's around you in case you have the opportunity to be together one day, it's difficult for the opposite sex to become a confidant, and being able to become a confidant is just a further inqualification to take a step back and be unwilling.

I don't think there are real confidants and confidants, regardless of men and women, if they are married and have a family, it is best not to have a confidante or confidante. In this way, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and if the blue confidante and the red confidant develop further, they will develop into boyfriend and girlfriend.

There really is. For example, in our lives, or in the process of getting along with colleagues, we really have good friends of the opposite sex. They are only limited to the relationship between friends and will not go beyond the thunder pool.

No, the so-called confidante must be one party who silently likes the other, and is willing to be her spare tire and pay for him silently

There is no so-called confidante and confidante, the so-called confidant and confidant are love, two people love each other, but they can't be together for various reasons, so they will become confidantes or confidantes.

In reality, there are indeed confidants. But a true confidante can actually be called a spiritual lover. It is necessary to have a strong self-control ability and grasp the moral and legal steps between men and women.

I don't think so, it's hard to have a particularly pure friendship between the opposite sex, because your partner won't allow you to have a confidante or a confidante, and he wants to always be the most important thing to you.

In real life, it should be said that there are really confidants and confidants! But there are not many such cases, and it is not easy to do this! Both parties need to restrain their emotions and have strong self-control!

Every man may have a complex in his heart, that is, he can have a confidante in this life, a woman who is most affectionate and sexual, this is not a wife who is trivial at home, nor is it a lover who is happy for a while. It is a mature, steady, knowledgeable, empathetic, and able to confide in his own spiritual world.

Someone once said that a wife is the woman you are willing to give her savings for safekeeping, and a confidante is someone you can tell her secrets but can't tell your wife.

It is not easy for a man to find a confidante who trusts each other, both like-minded and willing to be with each other. Even if you are lucky enough to find it, it is difficult to grasp and grasp the scale and proportion to pay attention to in getting along. If the boundaries are not clear enough and too crossed, confidantes are likely to become extramarital lovers, which is what we often say:

Red is red and red is green. "Turning spiritual belonging into a real problem, no matter how you prove your innocence, it is also a cover-up and quibble in the eyes of others. Faced with the tragic ending of the imminent separation of his wife, men often do not go out of their way to seek a red face.

And for women, they also want to have a blue-faced confidant, want to understand men more deeply, find a man's perspective from the blue-faced confidant, and find some answers. And it's also similar to Hongyan, not a husband, not a lover, just a good girlfriend, a good friend who has nothing to talk about, and has a quarrel with her husband, you can find this Lanyan to vent and confide in her heart. But this blue face can't grasp that degree, it is said that there are no real girlfriends, they must all contain some feelings, even if they are white and flawless, but they may not be recognized by your other half.

Therefore, whether it is red or blue, it has a certain ambiguous color, which is an emotion that is a little more than liking and a little less than love, meeting each other at any time and separating at any time.