What should children do when their parents divorce?

I firmly believe that parents in the world love their children! Despite their problems and separation for some reason, their love for themselves has always been the same! What you have to do is to continue to strengthen yourself and reassure your parents!

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With the development of the times, people's minds have become more and more open-minded, and the desire to pursue freedom and personal happiness has become stronger. In the past, people thought that divorce was a shameful thing, and even if they were unhappy, they had to stick to it for the sake of face, or make do with it for the sake of their children.

But now, people's pursuit of freedom and happiness is becoming more and more intense, and they will no longer be wronged as before. If you feel unhappy, you will choose to divorce.

And in Chinese-style divorce, the biggest sorrow is not that the two people who once loved each other are separated, but that after the divorce, the children have no father or mother. The greatest sorrow of "Chinese-style divorce" is that the parent-child relationship breaks down with the "rupture" of the relationship between husband and wife.

The relationship between the child and the parents should not change with the divorce.

Since you are divorced, you will never get along with each other in old age, and you should not see your children. This is the way many people take when they get divorced.

But for children, this way is very harmful to them. This makes them feel that their father or mother who is not around does not love them anymore and does not want themselves anymore. So much so that when the child heard that his parents might want to divorce, he was frightened and felt that he would become a child without his parents in the future.

But in fact, this is a very sad thing, even if you are really divorced, there is really no need for this.

Divorce, although the relationship between husband and wife is over, will not have any impact on the children, and the blood relationship between parents and parents. Blood relationship is not the same as husband and wife relationship, husband and wife are together because they love each other and are bound by law, but between children and parents, it is because of blood relationship, which is a fact that cannot be changed by anything.

When children are young, they need to be raised by their parents, and when they grow up, they still need the love of their parents.

Even if it is divorced, parents also have the right to visit their children, divorce, the relationship between husband and wife is broken, but the parent-child relationship cannot be broken, and it must be well protected.

For the sake of the children, learn to live peacefully even if you are divorced.

Even if the husband and wife are divorced, it is only a matter for the husband and wife, and the children should not be affected.

Parents should tell their children that two people divorce because they no longer love each other and feel that they will be happier when separated, but the father is still the father, the mother is still the mother, the love for the child will not change, and they still love the child, and it should be even more so in action.

Only in this way is the best for the growth of children. When the child understands this, he can have more understanding of his parents and will not prevent them from separating and finding their own happiness because of fear, because they are afraid that there will be no parents in the future.

After the divorce, no matter which party the child lives with, both people should learn to let go of their previous grievances and hatreds, whether they love or hate, and they should bear the responsibility of raising and educating the child together.

For the sake of the child's education and the healthy growth of the child, it is a difficult but necessary practice for two people to live in peace and negotiate together.

Nowadays, the divorce rate is very high, people's minds are open, the constraints of the family are not so serious, and people are more pursuing self-feeling and hoping for their own happiness.

People say that life is free, but what is life freedom? Feelings pursue freedom, and if you don't want to be together, you will separate, is this considered your own freedom? This is not the case.

If you are unhappy, you are free, and your child will be free with you? Although you are not willing to sacrifice you for your children and your own good future in your life, but if you bring him into this world, the fate of his life will be changed by one of your decisions, are you willing?

If two people really have no way to get by, this person is really not good at all, and only by leaving this place with children will there be better development, then I am very supportive of such a divorce.

But if because of your freedom, your right to choose happiness, the fate of your children will be very bad, then I think you are a ruthless person, not a parent, you will not understand this feeling.

Two people are married together, please don't have children together at will, since you gave birth to him in this life, you have to be responsible for his life, don't be willful, because when you have children, you are no longer a child.

First of all, divorce hurts children a lot. This is a fact.

Some children can adjust themselves as they get older to minimize the damage;

And some children grow older, and the damage caused by this kind of injury is getting bigger and bigger, and even changing their personality for a lifetime, which has a great impact on their lives.

If children are not happy, adults will not be happy.

Divorce is okay, but treat the children well.

No matter who they live with, they both have to find time to take care of their children. can not give up the companionship and education of children. Let the child feel that although her parents do not live together, they love her. Give your child a sense of security. This sense of security is very important for children.

Also, don't speak ill of each other in front of your children. Try to make your child respect mom and dad.

Children should follow their hearts and choose to follow one over the other. And the child's heart must become stronger. In this way, the child will live a happier life.

Children should follow their parents, or be raised alone for a period of time, so that they can get the love of the family.

Depending on the circumstances, the judge will award the child to one of the parents.

Children should have a normal heart, and then they should understand that their parents did not mean to be like this, and there is no way to do it, and they should face it with a positive attitude.

After the divorce of the parents, the children should face their parents normally, you must know that even if they are separated, they are still your parents, and the love for you is still the same, and the absolute between adults during the divorce, you don't need to "hate" them, as long as they are still treated as parents.

Children should face their parents with a normal heart, and never behave too much to be hurt, otherwise the parents will feel guilty for the rest of their lives.

Children will not know how to face their parents and feel that both parties are not a family, they will become very polite, and some words are embarrassed to say to their parents, they should be treated correctly, although they are divorced, they are still their own parents.

At this time, the child didn't know how to face his parents, and felt that the family of three was very warm together, but now the family seems to be no longer a family, and it feels very strange.

Accepting the divorce or remarriage of their parents. For me, I would agree to my parents divorce and remarry. The reason why I have this idea is, on the one hand, because the parents are the parties in this marriage, so the decision is up to the parents, not the children.

On the other hand, if the parents meet the right person after the divorce, then remarriage also means that they can find their happiness again. First, the parents are the parties in this marriage. Theoretically speaking, remarriage after the divorce of the parents only requires the consent of the parents themselves, and it does not have much to do with the children.

This is because both parents are adults, they have the ability to be independent, and they also have the right to decide their own marriage. Therefore, whether they are divorced or remarried, it is actually the result of their consideration, although the children can make some suggestions to their parents from their own perspective in this process, or express their own opinions, but the parents' wishes are the most critical match. In such a situation, if the parents insist on remarrying, the child cannot change the outcome.

And in my opinion, it would be better to try to accept the decision of parents to remarry than to have a fight with them over the issue of their parents' remarriage. Second, remarriage also means that parents can find their happiness again. From my personal point of view, it is good for parents to be able to remarry after their divorce.

This is because parents can once again find their own happiness and relive the happiness that marriage brings to them. Therefore, children should not be prevented from remarrying if there is no particular reason for them. What's more, it is not easy for parents to reap happiness after divorce, and it takes a lot of courage for them to make this decision, so as a child, we should be happy for them, and should not be an obstacle to our parents' happiness.

Therefore, I think that when faced with the problem of parents remarrying, children should bless their parents and agree to this marriage, rather than oppose this marriage. In short, I will agree to my parents remarrying after divorce, because I support them in finding their own happiness and hope to see them find a suitable partner for themselves.

Legal analysis: Even if parents choose to divorce, it must be carefully considered, otherwise no one wants to do such a thing that hurts others and hurts themselves. As a child, he has no right and ability to interfere in his parents' lives, and he can only accept his parents' choices silently and calmly.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

After the divorce, the son of the two-year-old son and the wild girl was directly raised by the mother as the principle. For children who have reached the age of two and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the children who have not yet reached the age of two children. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.