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I think the gift from this guy is too shabby. On the Douyin platform, a boy sent a gift to his girlfriend on the sixth anniversary of his girlfriend** was complained by the majority of netizens, and the gift included the old cotton jacket worn by the boy, many layers of raffia, yogurt, wangzi milk and other gifts, netizens calculated that these gifts were worth less than 200 yuan. What is infuriating is that the old padded jacket given away has only been tried on for a week, and many netizens said that it is difficult for them to accept such a gift from their object on the sixth anniversary.

The boy's girlfriend said that the reason why the boy gave the old padded jacket was that he said that he wanted to wear the padded jacket that the boy worn, so the boy bought a padded jacket and gave it to his girlfriend as a gift after wearing it a few times, but it was puzzling why he added a "try on for a week" label. I think this boy is a little stingy, although the boy bought a new padded jacket and until his girlfriend wanted to wear the clothes he worn, but added a label to the gift to try on for a week, and the gift he gave asked the girl to return a week later, which is a gift from the girl's six years of youth.

It can be seen that the couple is both college students and has no income yet, and may not have enough gift funds. But the boy's gift felt perfunctory, not poor. I think this guy is perfunctory, even if he doesn't have the money to buy expensive lipsticks and clothes as gifts, but it's enough to make a gift by hand.

The boy didn't pay much attention to the 6th anniversary gift, although he had his own handwritten love letter, the other gifts were like a perfunctory package.

In love, don't be moved by cheap love, just like the couple in **, six years of love, but the sixth anniversary gift is so sloppy, is the girl not worthy of the expensive gift or the girl is not worthy of the boy's heart? No, it's the boy who doesn't put his heart into it, and if the boy can make a gift by hand, it's far better than a gift wrapped in a whole box.

Boys in love must not be perfunctory when giving gifts, gifts must reflect their own intentions, even if the gift is not expensive, let the other party know that they are doing their best to prepare this gift. Whether it is a man or a woman, the sixth anniversary of youth in exchange for the other party's sloppy gift will be sad, and preparing a gift with all your heart is the greatest respect for each other.

I think this approach is wrong, maybe in the boy's eyes his padded jacket is very valuable, very valuable, but the girl is very sad when he opens it with full expectation, the boy has no money to choose to buy some raw materials for the girl to make a bag or a scarf or something, since you can't pay money, you can choose to pay sincerely, pay time, instead of using an old padded jacket and raffia to perfunctory.

This is a particularly bad thing, it can be seen that this man doesn't care about each other at all in life, so he will give each other gifts in this way, and he doesn't feel distracted at all.

A man gave his own cotton clothes and raffia to his girlfriend as a gift for the 6th anniversary, which made many netizens very speechless, and they also felt that what this man did was indeed very excessive. First of all, the 6th anniversary is a very meaningful anniversary, and the 6th anniversary of two people being together is a long time, and both people have paid their youth for each other, so it is reasonable to pay more attention to each other, which is the most correct way to behave, rather than casually using something to perfunctory past. <>

This man himself doesn't have much money, so when the woman is with the other party, she actually doesn't ask for each other's gifts, and in order to take care of the other party's self-esteem, the girl doesn't even dare to mention gifts to the other party. So whenever someone mentions these things, girls will say haha that they have never formally paid attention to such a problem in the past, but they didn't expect that after 6 years together, they would eventually get such a result. <>

The gifts that the girls prepared for each other were very delicate and very careful, but they didn't expect to receive a box of grass from the other party. Although it is true that the cotton clothes given by the boy are what the girl wants, the girl does not hope that she will receive such clothes on the 6th anniversary. In addition, some of the snacks prepared by the boy for the girl were also very cheap, and finally a small elaborate cake went bad.

In general, after seeing such a **, many netizens feel very distressed about this girl, and they also feel that the 6 years that this girl has paid are completely unknown, and the gifts carefully prepared by the girl have also been perfunctory by the boys, all in all, many netizens feel that this girl and the other party are not known. In the end, the man also chose to break up with his girlfriend on the grounds that he didn't want to be subjected to cyberbullying, which made everyone feel very ashamed.

There was a boy at school who gave his girlfriend the padded jacket and raffia he wore. On the surface, it does seem to be more picky, but because this boy is still in the school stage, he has no money, and the boy's thinking is different from that of a girl. Although there are many people scolding him on the Internet, he thinks that he still loves his girlfriend very much, but the way of expression is different, and the boy also made a statement, in addition to this gift, he usually gives different gifts.

So, what exactly is the beginning and end of the incident? Let's find out!

First, a boy who gave a 6th anniversary gift to his girlfriend was suspected of picking the door

The boy carefully prepared a large box of gifts, but the things put in it were too shabby, and unexpectedly became a hot search. There are also many netizens who imitate it, because there is more raffia than things, and even a gray padded jacket, which I have already worn, is still an old dress and gave it to my girlfriend. After all, it's the 6th anniversary, and my girlfriend is looking forward to it, so I went to give such a gift, and I deliberately wrapped it in a big box, which seemed to have a lot of things, and I opened it just a little bit.

The girl's attitude towards him was completely different, she took a lot of thought, gave a pair of shoes of great value, and did not put so much raffia.

Second, what do you think about this?

We can't judge the relationship between the two from one thing, and then the guy said that they usually have a very good relationship. The girlfriend doesn't care about these either, every time he pays the bill in his daily life, the boy spends the money, he doesn't let the girl spend the money, he doesn't take advantage of the girl, and tries to do what a man should do. And the girlfriend also said that she still loves her boyfriend very much, so that everyone should not maliciously speculate about their relationship, each couple gets along in a different way, maybe others think it is incredible, their relationship is better than anyone else, give students a little space.

In short, falling in love on campus is not easy. Maybe these gifts do seem to be cheap, and the boy's living expenses are only about 1,000 yuan a month. Thinking back to when we were in school, the gifts we gave would not be so expensive, so this was a last resort.

This is a particularly irresponsible man, nor is he a particularly warm-hearted man, and he definitely doesn't particularly like each other in life, so he will treat each other in such a way.

Such a gift feels particularly disgusting, as a boyfriend should be very good in life, and girlfriends should not be treated like this.

can't accept the boy's behavior, he is so disrespectful, and it makes people feel very ridiculous.

When a man sent his girlfriend a gift for her 6th anniversary, he gave her a padded jacket and raffia. Chang Jianguo thinks that people can have no money, but even the feelings of the 6th anniversary can be so perfunctory, such feelings are really unacceptable. At first, this stalk came from an unboxing on Douyin** It was a couple who gave gifts to each other, and the girl had already started preparing gifts a long time ago, giving the boy a keyboard and AJ, and also made a photo album full of memories, which contained a lot of delicious things.

After receiving something, the boy sent an unbox** to Douyin, and he also got a gift for his girlfriend**. The boy inside took out the big box, and then took out a padded jacket that couldn't tell if it was new or old. There was also a small note written on it, apparently the padded jacket was worn by the boy, and the girl was asked to return it after a week.

At the same time, the boy spread layers of raffia in it, put some Wangzi milk and some snacks, and then put a hat, cake, and yogurt. <>

But because the yogurt was too heavy, he finally took out the yogurt and then spread it with a thick layer of raffia. It looks like a big box, but after netizens calculated it, they found that the things in it were only worth 100 yuan. After the comparison, the boy may feel a little weak, so he hides the ** that the girl gave him a gift.

After seeing it, my friend fried the pot directly, sympathized with the girl, and was also upset for the girl. After the incident broke out, the boy still felt that he was not wrong, saying that the netizen was an Internet princess. <>

thinks that after 6 years of love, no matter how you say it, you should give girls a sense of ceremony, but the boy's approach makes everyone feel it. Maybe the sense of security that girls want is not in him, so netizens will talk about him. And when the boy gave the padded jacket he wore to the girl, the girl still changed her face, thinking that he had bought herself a couple's outfit.

At that time, I really sympathized with this girl, and I could only say that girls must learn to love themselves while loving others.

I think there are two sides to this matter: on the one hand, the boy regards his girlfriend as a part of himself, and may feel that his own intimate clothing can better express his own thoughts, and on the other hand, I think it is just to pick the door, and he is reluctant to spend money for his girlfriend, and he takes the old clothes as romance.

This man really shouldn't do this in life, it will make the other party particularly regretful, and it will also make the other party particularly annoying in the rolling nuclear life rent, maybe the two of them will break up, very irresponsible.

This matter will cause dissatisfaction with the girlfriend, and it will also cause a lot of conflicts, and couples should not do this, and I personally feel that the boy is not doing things properly.

In this matter, I think the woman has paid too much for this relationship, and she has been hurt the most.

The values are different, the key is that the things sent by the girls are not at all the ones of this grade, and the boys are inevitably a little envious.

Love or not, two people feel each other. Couples who are in love (Zhiwei Community) can also be in love.

The boy is Hu He who wants to prove their friendship in the past six years, these are physical evidence, you see I have preserved it well.

What do you think of the controversy caused by the boy giving the worn padded jacket and raffia to his girlfriend as a sixth anniversary gift?

Both sides of the story have been affected by the internet. Later, the boy did another shameful thing that touched the bottom line.

After the breakup, he even pretended to be his ex-girlfriend and posted a response to the incident. It can be said that the boy not only did not treat the six-year relationship with care, but also did not take into account the feelings of the girl at all.

This big base can be big or small, if you are still in love. The girl wants your padded jacket, and you give it to her, which is a pleasing and romantic thing, but they have all broken up, and you still send these, which is really incomprehensible.

It can be said that in this whole matter, the woman is the most innocent victim. Not only did I receive a frustrating and perfunctory gift on the sixth anniversary, but I was also alienated by my friends and teachers.

I don't think he doesn't understand the girl's preference for him. Perhaps he thought that the gift he had prepared was sincere enough, and although it was shabby, it was full of his own heart.

The girl should be glad that the breakup made the girl recognize this person Changyou. Although it took a little longer.

It depends on the angle from which the chiropractic theory is evaluated.

1. From a monetary point of view. Obviously, the cost is not high, and it seems "not sincere enough".

2. From the perspective of intentions. The padded jacket that my boyfriend wore when he first met the girl is a very commemorative object, at least for the affectionate boy, it is a precious object. Although it is not high, it is very attentive and full of feelings.

As for the girl's reaction, it depends on whether the woman's feelings and values are consistent with the boy's.

Everyone's point of view is not the same, I think the boys must want to recall the good times of the past six years, and remind the girls that time flies, and it is time to enter the palace of marriage.

From the point of view of the heart. The padded jacket that her boyfriend wore when he first met the girl was a very commemorative object for this Qi Envy, at least for the boy who was full of affection, this was a precious object. Although it is not high, it is very attentive and full of feelings.

As for the girl's reaction, it depends on whether the woman's feelings and values are consistent with the boy's.