Grandma dictates her grandson in dialect with a confused face, and what problems may exist with inte

Generational parenting can lead to over-doting and protective children, making them more headstrong and selfish. At the same time, it will also affect the speed at which children accept new knowledge and limit the development of children's thinking. Some old people are more outdated, narrow-minded, unwilling to accept new knowledge, and more stubborn.

Generation-skipping parenting also allows children to feel more love, more attention, and more warmth of home. There are advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational parenting, and we should make use of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses. <>

At the same time, the elderly in each family are different, and they cannot be generalized, and they still need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. For example, the grandmother dictates the child in dialect, I have to say that this interaction is also very heartwarming, and the child may be more impressed, not to say that I agree with this kind of education. Generational parenting is also a helpless choice, because parents are busy, they can only be dictated by their grandmother.

The child had a headache when he saw his grandmother's arrival, and only said, "Why are you dictating to me again?" ”<

The child's grandmother has tried her best to use what she thinks is more standard Mandarin, which still makes people confused. For example, the "sunken" grandmother directly said "Chen Mai" in dialect Mandarin, and it is estimated that the child's heart was very broken at that time. However, in this case, the child is still very patient to communicate with the grandmother.

In a variety of articles, the disadvantages of intergenerational parenting are constantly pointed out, but in reality, intergenerational parenting is often not as bad as people think, and many children in the family are raised by grandparents or grandparents. Generational parenting is actually a very common phenomenon, and generational parenting cannot be avoided. Generation-skipping parenting is more of a different way of thinking about raising and educating children, and more importantly, how to avoid the disadvantages of intergenerational parenting in the family, and make the elderly willing to accept new parenting methods through communication.

The grandmother dictated her grandson in dialect, and the grandson looked confused, and there was a big problem in intergenerational education. Because grandma's generation did not pay attention to Mandarin education. I don't know how important Mandarin is to my life now.

For example, there are great differences in communication methods, ideological concepts, and ways of dealing with the world.

Then the relationship between parents and their children may become worse and worse, and the ideological education of the older generation may be more old-fashioned.

Grandma dictated her grandson in dialect, but the grandson was also confused when he heard the dialect, which also aroused the attention of many netizens on the Internet. However, some netizens think that this dialect also deepens the family relationship between children and their hometown. <>

According to the relevant ** report, there is a grandmother in Zhejiang who uses dialects when dictating to her child, and the child is also confused, so a** is also popular on the Internet, some netizens are also leaving messages under **, some netizens think that for this grandmother, some Mandarin should also be used to teach children, which is also very important, in fact, this phenomenon of today's elderly with children is also very common in China. <>

But for some elderly people, the use of dialects is also very common, but some netizens believe that if you use dialects in front of children for a long time, it may cause these children to have certain dysfunction when learning Mandarin or some other languages, in fact, this is completely a wrong idea, after all, children's cognitive ability to language is also very sufficient, at this time, it is necessary to carry out this transmission of several languages in front of children, It is possible that the child will be able to improve to a certain extent. <>

For children, at the same time, they should also start teaching from dialects or from Mandarin and English, so that they can not only strengthen their children, but also allow children to learn dialects in all aspects of knowledge and ability, and have a certain degree of closeness to their hometown, and it is easier to communicate between grandparents, so parents don't need to worry too much when they see such a **.

This may allow children to learn dialects relatively quickly, but it may also make them learn Mandarin not standardly.

Children's Mandarin is not standard, children's Mandarin and dialects will be mixed, children's language ability is not particularly good, and children are particularly prone to inferiority when they go to school.

Far from affecting children's language development, a multilingual environment can help them learn together to a certain extent.

I think it is difficult for outsiders to understand Wenzhou, Zhejiang, Shanghainese, and Cantonese.

There are a lot of southerners in our unit, among which there are more people in Wenzhou, Zhejiang, and I think the dialects of other places can be understood as long as you listen slowly, but the dialects of Wenzhou sound more laborious, which sometimes makes me feel very crazy. The people of Wenzhou speak very fast, and the dialect is very heavy and very broken, and even if I listen carefully, it is difficult to hear what they are talking about. But Wenzhou people can understand the speech of the Northeast people, and sometimes they feel that it is a loss to communicate with them, because they can understand our speech, but we can't understand their speech, is this a bit unfair?

Shanghainese people always like to say that Allah is Shanghainese, and Shanghainese people think their dialect is very good, but outsiders sound very difficult. If you want to integrate into a city, you must first be able to understand the dialect they speak, many young Shanghainese can also speak Mandarin, but the older Shanghainese can speak the dialect, and their accent is very strong, and outsiders can't understand it at all. I went to work in Shanghai, rented a house for Shanghainese, the landlord was an old grandmother, the old grandmother spoke dialects, the grandmother did not speak Mandarin, every time the neighbor next door helped translate, the grandmother loves to raise flowers, I like the flowers raised by the grandmother.

The local pronunciation is the most difficult to change, many people have been away from their hometown for many years, but their native pronunciation is still there, although they also speak Mandarin, but their Mandarin does not sound so standard, so outsiders still need some patience when communicating with them. I think Cantonese is difficult to understand, I like to listen to Cantonese songs, I thought that if I can understand Cantonese songs, I should be able to understand Cantonese, but when I came to work in Guangdong, I found that my idea was wrong, there is a difference between Cantonese and Cantonese songs, Cantonese is very difficult to understand. Luckily, my colleagues are all wage earners, so they all speak Mandarin, which didn't affect my communication with them, which might have affected our communication if they all spoke Cantonese.

The dialects of Yunnan, Guangdong, and Guizhou are difficult for outsiders to understand, and even if they have lived there for a long time, it is difficult to understand the dialects of various places.

It must be Jiao Zuo, I can't understand it anyway, and the text they have there is not quite the same as ours.

I think the dialect of Guangxi is quite difficult to understand, I don't know what the other party is talking about, and it is difficult to communicate.

The elderly do not induce children with non-standard Mandarin, and parents can correct them at this time, and parents can speak Mandarin more to give their children a good learning environment.

A large number of young people are busy with work and have no time to take care of their children, so they have to ask the elderly in the family to help tutor their children, but a large number of elderly people do not speak Mandarin at all, and often when communicating with their children in dialects, parents are always worried that their children will also speak dialects. In fact, when children are first exposed to language, as long as they are exposed to Mandarin, dialects will not affect their Mandarin learning.

The grandmother listened to the child in dialect, and the child looked confused.

A section of a grandmother dictating to her child in dialect on a social platform has aroused heated discussions among many netizens, **Grandma has been speaking the dialect of her hometown, and the grandson is very puzzled, and he can't understand what the grandma is dictating to himself, but the grandson does not feel very angry, and has been patiently listening to what the grandma is saying.

Parents make corrections in a timely manner.

Living with the elderly, it is inevitable that they will encounter the situation that they speak in dialects, and it is basically difficult to get the elderly to change this way of speaking at this time, and they are used to it, and it will not be easy to accept to speak Mandarin suddenly. When the elderly are talking to their children in dialects, parents can choose to correct them next to them, so that children realize that they should speak Mandarin, and at the same time, parents should also explain to their children what dialects are and what Mandarin is, and there is a clear distinction between the two.

Create an environment where your child speaks Mandarin.

In the process of communicating with children, parents must communicate with them in Mandarin, so that children are often in a Mandarin environment, and they will realize that they should also speak Mandarin, so as to create a good learning atmosphere. Parents can let their children listen to more Mandarin stories, or broadcasts, so that they can continue to learn, and gradually they will realize the importance of Mandarin.

We try not to let Mandarin speak non-standard, grandparents to teach children to write homework, usually daily speaking is no problem, but it is better to write homework in Mandarin.

That must be to not let the grandparents hand it in, you can let the child go to kindergarten to study, and you can also let the parents be responsible for the child's homework.

It is best not to let the child learn in the home of the elderly, and as a parent or as a teacher, correct the child's pronunciation.

This will definitely affect the child's ability to speak Mandarin, after all, this is the time for the child to learn to speak, if the grandmother always speaks to the child in dialect, the child may also learn the same. Don't underestimate the surrounding environment, for the influence of children, these problems are real.

If you can't speak Mandarin, it will definitely affect your child's social interaction and interpersonal interactions in the future.

Our country is now vigorously promoting the speaking of Mandarin, not to facilitate people-to-people exchanges, if you speak your dialect and I speak mine, then there is no way to carry out normal social exchanges. This is also something that is more important in society, and it has been emphasizing the speaking of Mandarin.

If you keep letting your child learn dialects from your grandmother, I believe that your child may not be able to speak with her parents at that time. The father may still understand what the child is saying, and the mother may be in a state of confusion, which is not a good thing for the child's future.

In the long run, it is best to let children learn to speak Mandarin with their parents, which is very beneficial to the child's future and is also more conducive to the child's growth. Many mothers would rather give up their jobs to raise their children themselves, which is to consider this matter from a long-term perspective.

Dialect is only suitable for speaking in the local area, and most people do not understand, if the child will go to school and work in the future, they will use Mandarin, and then they will not speak Mandarin but only speak dialect, and then the problem will become very bad, and this problem must also cause enough attention from the child's parents, do not underestimate the art of language.

In **, you can see that the grandmother uses her non-standard Mandarin to spread knowledge to the child, but she is in a state of confusion, and if this goes on like this, the child's language may also be affected by the grandmother. In this case, it is important to correct it in advance. Over time, children may also speak non-standard Mandarin, and it will be too late for parents to regret it.

No, because the child has been in school for a long time, and the students and teachers in the school speak Mandarin. So there is no problem with children's Mandarin.

Yes, the child's best thing is to imitate, the child's language system has not yet been developed, she will try her best to imitate the way adults speak and intonation, so it is better to try to speak Mandarin with the child.

If the elderly often speak dialects, it will indeed affect the children's ability to speak Mandarin, and it may be possible for the children to learn a lot of dialects.

Parents are not at home, grandma dictates in dialect and her grandson is confused, and many netizens are afraid that the dialect inheritance will disappear after reading this**. It may be that dialects are very common in everyday life, and everyone speaks dialects in their hometowns. But nowadays, many children are born in cities, and even follow their parents to go to school in big cities.

No matter how poor it is, it is also in the local county town, so it is difficult to have the opportunity to get in touch with the original dialect culture, which also leads to the fact that children nowadays do not speak dialects. <>

Maybe children in small counties can still understand dialects, but children in big cities are born speaking Mandarin. Nowadays, many young parents also speak Mandarin when communicating, especially in front of their children, so children naturally only learn to speak Mandarin. At this time, if the children go back to their hometown, they may not be able to understand the speech of the elderly in the family.

If the elderly come to the city to take care of their children, there may be communication barriers between them and their children. <>

Although everyone is speaking Chinese, dialects are indeed difficult for children to understand, so many children do not understand what the other party is saying when their elders speak dialects. Just like the one shown in this **, the grandmother is practicing dictation for the child in dialect, and the child doesn't know what the grandmother is talking about after listening to it. Everyone is very worried about whether the dialect culture in our country will dissipate, but they feel that this possibility is relatively small, unless it is some dialect that is not used by too many people in the first place.

Under normal circumstances, every city has a local dialect characteristic, and this dialect is basically spoken by the locals. Although they forget their dialects when they leave their hometowns, they will naturally start speaking dialects after living in their hometowns for a while. However, dialects do need to be protected by everyone, although every parent is not required to teach their children to speak dialects, but parents can use dialects appropriately when communicating, so that at least the output and dissemination of sheep culture can be achieved.