Is it a good thing or a bad thing for a mother in law to help with the children?

In fact, it is not necessary for the mother-in-law to help take care of the children, the mother-in-law can help you, that is love. It's also my duty not to help you.

We have to be ourselves, don't always force others to beg, since we have a child, we have to be responsible for this child, don't always shift your responsibility to others.

If the mother-in-law helps us to take it, it is naturally good, if the mother-in-law is not in good health, or she has her own things to do, and does not help us take care of the children, we must also gladly accept it. Because our baby, he came into this world, the role of mother is very important, we have to accompany him, accompany his childhood.

If his childhood was not accompanied by his mother, his inner world was empty, and the role of mother could not be replaced, so we should not give the baby to the elderly in order to save trouble, in order to make a lot of money, and we should look at it according to the actual situation.

No, because she doesn't just help her daughter-in-law, she helps her son, so her son doesn't have to be so tired.

It also depends on the family situation, the family is rich, and the mother-in-law doesn't want to bring it, so please have a nanny! The family is average, both of them go to work, and the mother-in-law does not take the children, so there will be conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother-in-law, you must be grateful! Because the concept of family is us, even men have to take care of children! Taking care of children is the common responsibility of husband and wife, not a mother-in-law or mother-in-law can leave it alone if she takes her husband!

In Chinese families, the lack of husband is very serious, and many men think that I can just make money, and I don't care about the rest! In this case, if the mother-in-law does not help take care of the children, the family war will never stop, and the conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will never disappear! Therefore, in the matter of raising children, the most important thing is the sense of responsibility of the husband and wife and the husband!

Take good care of his wife and children, be able to take the initiative to mediate the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, love his husband and wife, and have a harmonious family, and the children he raises will be more responsible and loving.

No. No, the law also stipulates that daughters-in-law have no obligation to support their in-laws, and it is out of favor that they help to take care of them.

Isn't it a family?

There is no obligation, and you bring your own birth.

When you have a baby, will your mother-in-law help you take care of the child? These 3 behaviors of the mother-in-law will bring the baby badly, if your mother-in-law has these three behaviors, hurry up and bring it yourself.

When the baby is still young and disobedient, the baby is full of curiosity about all objects, and the baby can't tell what he wants and doesn't want, and the mother-in-law will reach all the baby's thoughts in order to better prevent the baby from being sad, even if this kind of thinking is not standardized, this is the classic pampering. This kind of behavior will prompt the baby to become more and more arrogant and unreasonable, and will continue to develop a proud temperament, and after growing up, a little unpleasant will attack others and damage others, which is also very dangerous. Bao Ma must stop her mother-in-law from spoiling the baby like that, otherwise the baby will suffer a lot when she grows up.

The baby makes mistakes, as long as the mother can carefully educate the baby, the baby or easy to accept the mother's education. If the mother-in-law is heartbroken for the child at this time and prevents the mother from educating the baby, the baby will evade responsibility when he grows up and feel that he has not made a mistake. The baby will continue to feel that grandma likes him the most, while the mother can only blame herself, and she is not good to herself at all.

That was originally the baby's mistake and had to be corrected, but because of the mother-in-law's protection, the mother became a villain, and after a long time, the baby will develop a temperament to evade responsibility, and the contact with the mother will become more and more alienated.

Nowadays, many mothers-in-law have been shouting the slogan of cherishing the baby, helping the baby to do everything, and even some mothers-in-law are still feeding the baby at the age of three or four, and helping the baby dress. The mother-in-law has always spoiled the baby like that, and in the long run, the baby will develop a bad habit of laziness. Everything needs to rely on others, and it is difficult to develop the ability to be self-reliant and self-reliant.

Therefore, the mother should immediately stop this behavior of the mother-in-law, and help the baby develop a diligent, kind-hearted, and compassionate character.

Special habit of blocking the baby, no matter what the baby wants to buy for the baby, the child's clothes are not washed separately, there is no separate kettle for the baby, and the baby is not often changed diapers.

Very spoiled baby, not about the baby's hygiene, all the requirements of the baby will be met, the baby is not old and often obedient, will answer the world to take the baby to a very dirty environment to play.

Meet all the needs of the child, let the child lose his temper at will, spoil the child too much, often teach the child to scold, and make the child particularly selfish.