My boyfriend hasn t talked to me in a few days, doesn t he love me anymore? I m so sad! Depressed

Can't be so sure about you, he loves you now. I can only tell you that maybe he wants you to calm down and analyze your mistakes with each other. I have a friend who doesn't talk for three or four days every time she has a fight with her boyfriend, and she complains about whether she doesn't love her anymore.

Later, it was his boyfriend who took the initiative to go out to dinner with her, and they reconciled after chatting. Then I asked why I had reconciled, and my friend said that it had been deflated... I think her boyfriend is very smart, he doesn't choose to do something when his girlfriend is angry, because then the girlfriend will get angrier and angrier.

Your boyfriend isn't talking to you, maybe it's because he's been unhappy lately, or maybe you've done something wrong... Just take the initiative and talk to him.

First: Think carefully about whether you said or did something to hurt your boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally; Second: Is there something about your boyfriend (it may be your boyfriend's own business, or it may be something in his social circle) that is very annoying, and he doesn't want you to know, for fear of adding trouble to you, so he pretends to ignore you; As for the third:

It may be another new love...

Do you quarrel and ignore you? Or is there too much work to take care of you? Or is there something else? If you quarrel and ignore you, then he may want to be quiet with each other, or he wants to wait for you to coax him, if it is because of work, it is more forgivable.

Suddenly, I don't know how to get along with my boyfriend, not because you don't love him, but because after two people have been together for a while, they have gone through that honeymoon period, and the emotions of the two people have calmed down, and they are already in the calm period of the relationship, and during this period, the two people will level out their emotions and return to calm, so there are no more waves, and it will seem that they and their boyfriends don't know how to get along.

In the process of falling in love, two people will suddenly find differences in many aspects of each other.

In other words, people are three-dimensional, from the beginning to the end of the comprehensive cognition, sometimes make yourself feel difficult to adapt, and even feel very unfamiliar, and your expectations are too different.

At this time, if you can adjust, the two people can continue to get along, if you can't adjust, it means that you don't love each other at all, and you don't want to be with each other anymore.

In my opinion, you should still love him. Maybe it's because the two of you have a deep relationship, living an ordinary life, but you can't express it better, and you still love him.

Yes. It's because you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love someone, you don't know how to deal with the relationship between two people.

Yes, if you feel this way, it means that you don't love your boyfriend at all, and you don't like your boyfriend anymore, that's why you have such thoughts.

It must be because you don't love him anymore, otherwise you wouldn't know how to get along and have nothing to say, so I think if that's the case, it's better to break up early.

Maybe yes, maybe you don't like him anymore, so you don't want to get along with him anymore, so you don't know what to do with him.

There will be some fatigue periods after getting along for a long time, go with the flow, don't deliberately force it, how to get along comfortably. Don't worry too much about it and make yourself happy.

Some jokes can't be made casually. For now, calm down, and wait until you usually talk before bedtime, and send a message: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have made this joke or anything else you want to say today.

It's a boy who is generous, and if he can't even accept this, he can only express it with hehe.

The two of them have been together for a long time, and after experiencing some things, they will feel that they don't know how to get along for a while, not because they don't love him anymore.

In fact, two people will grow in the process of communication, if some people grow well, two people will develop in one direction, then two people will get along more and more, then if some people do not develop well, they will be farther and farther away, in this way, there will be more and more contradictions.

Suddenly I don't know how to get along with my boyfriend, maybe it's because of his personality, it's his personality that makes you confused, and I don't know how to get along with him. Sometimes this has nothing to do with love or not love, right?

I was connected with my boyfriend every day before, and I was very happy, what do you have to say, but now I suddenly don't want to talk to a man? First of all, we need to know: What is the purpose of your speech?

Indeed, many people are puzzled, they used to talk about everything, but now they have nothing to say, but when two people get along, there are so many words, and there is no need to say it a second time if you say it once. You told me about your family, and I already know about your life, so do I have to worry about this issue any longer? That's all there is to it, and it's gone.

So what you should pay attention to should not be whether the other party is talking to you, but what you should pay more attention to is, what is the purpose of you want the other party to talk to you? Do you want the other person to value your attitude? Or do you want to see the other person's attitude of loving you?

Could it be that he talks to you every day, and he keeps talking to you every day, does he love you? What if the other person asks you the same attitude? He thinks you should sleep with him every day, then he loves him.

Can you do it? So you pay more attention to what should be attitude, so pay attention to your attitude can only be through chatting? There are really no words, do you have to talk awkwardly when you talk?

So we need to recognize clearly, what are our real needs in the process of expecting each other? If you don't feel secure, how do you feel secure? The sense of security is given to you by yourself, and if you want the other person to give you a sense of security, then you will always be insecure because the other person can't give it.

When you can't get it, you will go all kinds of ways to thirst for it and get it, but the more you get it, the more you grab it, the more you can't get it. We need to recognize where your insecurities come from. What behaviors can be done to yourself? Don't let yourself get caught up in a state of gain and loss.

I'll give you an example, for example, the same person, the same couple, some husbands work outside at night, for example, there is a drinking place, I think it's normal, she can have her own business; She can study at home, practice her hobbies, play with her children, go shopping, etc., and she is fine.

But what are some people? What about the husband being out with clients? So she is very anxious at home, so annoyed, why hasn't she come back yet?

Then I started all kinds of speculations, and then it didn't work, I hit a**, I didn't answer it, oops. What's going on here? Are you going with someone else?

began to struggle again, in fact, this insecurity comes from himself.

Many people will be afraid that the other party will leave you, and then they will ask the teacher: "Teacher, how can I make a person inseparable from me?" Then I would tell him, "The first thing you want to do without a person is that you have to be separated from him, but you don't leave him."

The husband is indisputable, so the world can not be with it" is that you deliberately get it, but you can't get it. In the same way, if you deliberately desire to see if the other party can not leave you, then you will do a lot of things, and these things will actually become your passive state, making the other party feel that you can't do without him. Hey, what about the end?

Do you want to eat and live in others, and end up being eaten by others? Got it.

It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, he still loves you, maybe he has other troubles.

1. How to know if you like someone

(1) When there is something to do, we always think of that person, when we have something to do, at workOr when there is nothing to do when we are resting, we will always unconsciously think of a person, this person is the person we like, we have such a miss, it means that we have liked this person.

(2) Caring about the other person's eyes, when we are buying a new dress, an idea will pop up in our mindsThat is, if we buy the dress I see now, the person I often wonder if he will see it and think that I will look better in the dress I just bought.

Second, the method of falling in love

(1) Love is not a transaction, everyone's expression is different, we must learn to find a communication method and expression that two people can accept, too much to worry about will only consume each other's feelings, there are contradictions to meet directly and talk well,Sometimes a hug and a kiss can solve all the unstable emotions, which is better than the continuous cold violence and finally the volcano erupts.

(2) To be considerate and tolerant of each other, feelings are two-way running, many people deny all or even rise to the issue of principle because of a little thing, quarrel and black, and two people go through the second half of their lives togetherIt is inevitable that there will be a little urgent misunderstanding or occasionally not taking care of the other party's emotions, if the other party's tolerance level is very poor, and they don't know how to be considerate and tolerant.

I think love or not love is not just a matter of words, whether he loves you or not, you just need to feel it with your heart. He doesn't speak, perhaps a wordless reproach to you: Do I need to ask if I love you?

Don't you know if I'm good to you? Or maybe he's a little angry, he's so good to you, and you still doubt his love for you, he's angry, so he doesn't speak, you think about it yourself, and you'll know the answer.

You ask if your boyfriend loves you? He didn't, and that's a bad sign. If he loves you, he will be right away, and there will be no hesitation in this question.

Love is love, not love is not love, your boyfriend, directly with you, may make you very sad, so he can only not, although it is very embarrassing, but he still has ideas. Maybe he's still in love with you, but he just doesn't want to express it. Usually he behaves towards you to see if he really loves you?

So, you still don't ask yourself to think and observe. It's better to find the answer to such a question yourself! Loving someone is actually really tiring and difficult.

Hello, glad you with this question;

1Isn't this because you love to put it? It's because you want to prove that he loves you! He doesn't explain to you, he doesn't know how!

Love, you should say love and provoke me! Say you don't love and you're afraid of missing out and losing you! So he tells you with silence that you think for yourself, that if you think that if you love you, you will be good to him, and if you don't think you will stay away from him.

Silence is the best and the wisest. Now he's giving the decision back to you again. Hey, hey, it's up to you.

If a person doesn't like you, but wants to get you, you ask him if he likes you or not, and he will tell you that he likes you. If a person likes you, and you ask him this question every day, he will also be annoyed, and he may just not answer at first, and then he may become annoyed from liking you to disliking you.

Because you have asked too many times, it is a definite answer, and you continue to be willing to listen to the influence of those three words, he really can't see that these three words are attractive, so no, you should change the way of love confession.

It may be that you ask such questions too often, and he is a little distracted, in fact, you don't need to ask like this, you should be able to feel his feelings for you, he is reluctant to say, he may use actions to prove it.

He doesn't speak, in fact, he feels more guilty in his heart, I don't know how you, he must be shaken in his heart, and he doesn't love you as much as before.

You can feel whether your boyfriend loves you or not, you don't need to ask, you ask it seems that you have no confidence and no confidence, and your boyfriend will think about whether to continue with you. To put it bluntly, men also like confident and independent women.

Men basically don't have this problem. If you really want to get a definite answer, I can tell you for sure that you will never reap happiness and you will have a hard time getting true love.

He didn't speak, saying that he was very entangled in his heart, he loved you but there were special circumstances in the middle and he couldn't speak, so I suggested that you let him slow down.

In fact, I can give you this, which means that he doesn't love it so much. If it was expressed in this way before, he may not be willing to say it, if he only hesitated or thought about it this time, it means that he has a problem with his hesitation and has a stalk.

He told you to understand for yourself, that his love for you and not love you is not a matter of words, but of practical actions, and you should be able to understand it, so he does not speak.

You're on the topic every day, so your boyfriend really can't talk back because sometimes he thinks you're too naïve. One moment you care about people, and the next time you ask this kind of thing, but if you always ask him this sentence, it will definitely not be good to reply to you all of a sudden, don't always ask him like this.

That is, he doesn't love you anymore, and if it's a serious quarrel recently, don't ask him this kind of question.

This move is obvious.,It's just not enough to love you.,If love would have been confessed...

He shouldn't love you, if he does, he will blurt it out, there is nothing difficult to say.

He hasn't found his next home yet, so it's up to you to find it.

Maybe it's no longer love, but this love is a heavy topic.

There is a saying that love is hard to open in the heart.