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Because he doesn't have the ability, he thinks about his wife's money, and if he has the ability, he will be afraid that his wife will spend his money indiscriminately, but if you want to change your husband's mind, it's still okay. It's not that if you're good to your husband, you're good, but you must be stronger than your husband in at least one aspect, or let your husband see that what you're doing is right and can't let your mother-in-law know. Women need to be independent, so that they don't think you're dependent on them.
Find a way to make the child like you very much, only the child likes you, you can be independent, your own ability is not worse than theirs, especially when the mother-in-law will have a different opinion of you, at least in order not to make the child disgusted and will not use that tone on you anymore. And the main thing is your husband, when you have the ability, his opinion of you will definitely turn 180 degrees, and you have the ability to make money, and your mother-in-law will also look at you differently.
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There is no why, such a husband is narrow-minded, he even calculates his own wife, let alone others, to put it bluntly, such a husband is a villain, he is a scumbag, you have to pay more attention to living with such a person, otherwise you will not live, and you will not be happy.
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A man is calculating and calculating about his wife, which shows that he is selfish and does not love his wife enough. Because a man who really loves his wife will take care of and pamper his wife, put his wife first in everything, and will treat his wife without reservation.
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can only say that the husband doesn't love his wife at all, and only treats his wife as a vassal. For a husband like this, it's best to divorce as soon as possible, and don't leave after being calculated to have nothing.
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Since it's already a husband and wife, it's a family, a family has to live, and a life requires firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, every expense is a process of calculation... On the contrary, the wife also calculated her husband...
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If it's such a husband, it's all some open-mindedness, if it's such a husband, it's all narrow-minded, can't tell the difference between inside and outside, don't love their wives, and calculate what kind of husband is their own wives?
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Well, in important cases, my husband is not talking about the design boss, but about the two of them being together, if they talk and laugh, and then make trouble, this is the best way.
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A man who calculates his wife usually holds the money in his own hands, and may also hide a lot of private money from his wife. Usually he doesn't give his wife a lot of money, he doesn't care about his wife, he belittles his wife, and makes his wife do a lot of housework.
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1. When you find that your husband is such a person when you are in love, then you should pay attention to see if you can change him, if you can't change it in the future or marry him, then this is your own choice, learn to accept and tolerate.
2. Of course, it also depends on whether the husband's selfishness is serious, if it is not serious, then don't worry too much, otherwise it may affect the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, if the selfishness is more serious, it depends on whether the husband lacks self-confidence, and if so, the wife should give care and help.
3. How to deal with a selfish husband, in fact, there are many ways to share some of the expenses at home with the husband, so that he knows what the cost is every day, and some things are also essential, you must buy them, and they will be slowly corrected after a long time.
What a selfish husband is like in general.
1. The husband is unwilling to take on housework, and every time he comes back from work, he wants to do his own thing, this man is selfish, because the family after marriage is two, and the wife should not bear it herself, after all, most women are now very tired after getting married, in addition to taking care of the family, having their own work, and taking care of children.
2. When you meet a husband who always likes to complain, it means that he is selfish, for example, when this man encounters some small things in life, he will have a lot of complaints, not that he is not good, but that he complains about others, indicating that he is a narrow-minded person.
3. The husband does not care about the feelings of others, which shows that he is also very selfish, such a person is suitable for living alone, because after marriage, he also has to consider the other party and <>
Sometimes don't always blame the problem on others, but also find some of your own problems, only by understanding your own problems, can you better deal with the conflicts in the family.
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First of all, make sure that the other party calculates what method you use and what his purpose is. Then according to his ideas, the best way is to meet the moves.
Because if your husband wants to calculate you, he must have his purpose, such as wanting to divorce you, for example, wanting to make you feel bad, or wanting you to pay something else, this is his real purpose.
So you can pretend not to know first, and then use his relaxed vigilance against you to find out what kind of state he really is in with you. In this way, you will be able to get a better idea of what he thinks.
When you know what the other person is thinking, so that you can pinch the other person when he is thinking and doing things, you can let yourself know, and you can also master it better.
And when it's time to let go, you must choose to let go, that is to say, you should know what your husband calculates what you want to do, and if he really has that kind of particularly bad thoughts, then you shouldn't have too much nostalgia.
Because the relationship is such a thing that if two people are very good, then they naturally need to be treated in the best way, but if two people have a bad relationship, then it is best to separate.
So when your husband calculates you, you don't have to think too much, if not, both of them should separate as soon as possible, and each can find their own lives, there is no need to make the relationship between the two people very stiff, but there is no need to wronged yourself and the other party.
Because you have to know that when your husband often calculates you when he does something, it means that he doesn't have much love for you anymore. And when the other party has no love for you, it is useless for you to do more wrong things yourself, and many times it is not you who pay more to be the better result.
So if your husband calculates you, you must know what his thoughts are, what his purpose is, and when you and your husband have some bad problems, there is no show of love between each other. So this time should be separated as soon as possible.
When you don't have feelings for each other, it's better to separate as soon as possible. Because if you don't choose to separate at this time, there will be more and more problems between you in the future. When you find that there are many problems, you may be quite conflicted, so it is better to relax some feelings as soon as possible, maybe you will make yourself happier and find a better love.
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I think we can communicate with him honestly first, think about how to solve the current dilemma, so that the two of us don't suspect each other.
First of all, I think that husband and wife should talk about everything, if two people still retain true love, then two people should understand each other, tolerate each other, and be considerate of each other, rather than calculating each other. Even if there is any difficulty, it is necessary to negotiate with the other party and find an appropriate solution.
You are not in this situation very often, because in my impression, husband and wife should be loving, should not appear such a phenomenon, although husband and wife are the same forest birds, the disaster is coming, but I think you have not reached this point, the reason why he calculates you, is it because his approach has not been understood by you? I think it's possible that you misunderstood him, after all, a man doesn't calculate his own woman.
If this is really the case, then you must be lacking in communication, two people should communicate more, in order to understand each other, believe in each other, trust is an important level of love, without trust, there is no love at all, so two people in love at the same time to communicate more, try to seek each other's trust.
If you feel that communicating with him is fruitless, and he is still calculating you behind your back, then I think you can still consider a new relationship, because it is not worth it for such a man to give you all in. But I still think that there should only be a misunderstanding between you, but his love for you is not expressed, or you can't feel his love for you, in fact, he may have worked very hard. His idea is nothing more than to give you a richer life.
In the end, I still hope that the two of you can understand each other and tolerate each other, after all, love is a matter of two people, not one person unilaterally. Wishing you a happy life and a happy and happy day!
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If the husband calculates himself, he can be more thoughtful, but he must communicate well with his husband, after all, husband and wife have common interests, but they can't blindly let their husband treat him as a fool. Be honest with your husband, and both parties should be honest and open.
Only when husband and wife are honest can they be honest with each other, and the foundation of the edifice of marriage will be solid. Without an honest marriage, the relationship between husband and wife will be on thin ice and will not last long. No one wants to enter into a marriage with a dishonest person, causing unnecessary trouble.
After the husband and wife get married, they should treat each other as their dearest people, care for each other in daily life, care about each other's body, pay attention to each other's emotional changes, and you should do this for how long you are married, so that the relationship between two people can be maintained, and the marriage can go on smoothly.
It is best for couples to be honest about money, and it is best to discuss what money to spend for both parents. As for other things, try to be honest and avoid misunderstandings.
Whether the husband and wife should be absolutely honest with each other needs to be negotiated by the husband and wife. Absolute honesty means that both parties trust each other and are willing to give each other a sense of security, and they can understand each other better without talking about anything; But it makes sense to keep a little secret, or leave room for your emotions to be alone, as long as both parties trust each other and get along sincerely enough, what impact will this little secret have?
If there is a gap between two people, they can keep their little secrets, but they must respect each other and manage the marriage well if they still have feelings.
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Generally speaking, women are more calculating than men, but if men are calculating, women have to bow down. There's nothing you can do, it's a habit that can't be changed. Otherwise, you try to change yourself, become more generous, not be like him, and let him calculate.
In addition, sometimes using a little trickery and deliberately exposing the calculations he wants to hide may make him realize that he is wrong.
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To learn to tolerate others, you must first be optimistic, a pessimistic person is always easy to think of the bad side of things, and the mood is more depressed and depressed, so he will always be dissatisfied or angry with others.
Although some people are usually fine, but once they encounter something, they are pessimistic and not really optimistic, so it can only be said that they are happier when the wind and waves are calm, which is human nature.
True optimism lies in your own mindset, giving yourself encouragement and hope at all times, and believing in yourself.
How to be tolerant of others.
1.Take sides.
When you encounter someone who hurts you, choose not to be angry, think outside of your own point of view, and consider the problem from someone else's point of view, you will understand why he is doing this, and you will not be so angry. Understanding each other is the key to tolerance!
2.Calm.
Suppress your anger and calmly deal with the person who hurts you, no matter how excessive he has done something, you have to think that the body is your own, anger hurts the body, and the fault of others, don't hurt yourself. It will make it easier for you to accept the faults of others.
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You test him first, and if you are still counted, you will divorce...
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If your husband is calculating you, you can directly find out things with him, don't save face for him, so that he won't dare to be cautious with you in the future.
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If you find out that your husband is calculating your money or exercising control over your finances, it can be an unhealthy behavior. Here are some tips for dealing with this situation:
1.Communication: First, communicate openly and honestly with your husband about your feelings and concerns. Tell him that you want more autonomy and equality when it comes to finances. Try to find out why he did it, whether it was out of concern or something else.
2.Seek professional help: If communication doesn't resolve the issue, consider seeking professional help, such as a marriage counselor or financial counselor. They can provide neutral advice and advice to help you solve your financial problems.
3.Set shared goals: Work with your husband to create shared financial goals and plans to ensure that your financial decisions are based on consensus and cooperation. This increases your financial engagement and power seepage.
4.Independent Finances: If your husband is still insisting on controlling your finances, you may consider setting up your own independent finances. Open your own bank account and manage your own income and expenses to ensure you have enough financial independence.
Most importantly, don't neglect your feelings and rights. Everyone should have equal power and autonomy in marriage, including the financial aspect. <>
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