Ten times to be good to people, once bad to say

Still quite speechless, you beg me to help you, and you want me to see your time. I help you with love, and I don't help you with my duty. Tell you to do me a favor once, and I'll help you ten times.

I really don't think of myself as an outsider, I know you very well, weird.

There is evil in human nature, there are too many white-eyed wolves, kindness should have a bottom line, don't let your kindness feed other people's greed. I helped you ten times, rejected you once, and you were disgusted in your heart. But you have to think that it is your duty to help you, and it is your duty not to help.

People must learn to refuse, otherwise the more they live, the more tired they become.

I can help you once, but not a few times. It is the love of others to help you, and it is your duty not to help you, and countless times of trouble for others to be rejected, you should also think about why, right? If I help you ten times and reject you once, and you only remember the one time I refused, I don't think I need to accommodate you everywhere.

It is three parts poison for medicine, and three parts for greed for people. Helping again and again is taken for granted. Respond to requests, and only then will you smile. Once refused, become a wicked person. It's better to help you ten times than not to help once.

It's love to help you, it's your duty not to help, don't ask too much. Don't help you ten times, scold me thousands of times if you don't help once, and don't help people who help you once nine times, and be grateful to death. It's not worth it.

If you help someone ten times, and if you don't help once, the other party will think that you are not righteous. A lot of times, human nature is like that. But I still want to say that it is my duty to help you, and it is my duty not to help you.

I don't owe you. I don't need you to help me. Take care of yourself, help you ten times, and if you don't help you once, you will say that you will help and not help you.

People are mutual, and no one owes anyone. I've helped you once, twice, three times, what do you help me when I'm in trouble. You know it yourself, and I wish you better and better in the future.

It is appropriate to help ten times, as long as you are ruthless and don't help once, all your love will turn into hate, without exception.

I'm really disappointed in you, I think you're a waste, I can't help you ten times I can't help once, no matter how much I help you, I take it for granted, hehe!

You tear down my platform, I tear down your platform, these are all stupid people. You're making trouble behind you, I pretend I don't know, this is a smart person. Say you're stupid to your face, say hello behind your back, it's a good friend.

Often criticizes you, and is willing to help you, this is a noble person. It is the villain who does not remember his gratitude when he helps ten times, and who holds grudges if he does not help once.

If you are good to someone ten times, and once in a while you are bad, it will easily erase all your previous goodness; You treat someone bad ten times, and once you are good by chance, and he remembers that good time.

People are creatures of feeling, if you treat him well every time, he won't feel it, but if you treat him badly once, he will remember it.

Therefore, it is not difficult to do good deeds, but it is rare to do good deeds in a lifetime.

A hundred times good is not worth a bad one

1. Sometimes the mouth can only be used for eating, not for talking. This is because once the words are spoken, if they do not do well, they will violate the taboo and bring disaster to themselves.

2. Sometimes people are often good at forgetting the benefits of others to themselves, and once there is an unintentional offense, they are always obsessed with it, and it becomes more than half a sentence of speculation, or even old and dead. Think about whether there are such cases around us, and in life, it is inevitable to interact with people, and if you want to have a good life, you must deal with your relationship with the people around you.

3. Countless times of goodness, being completely denied by a mistake, no one is perfect, no one can be like RMB, everyone loves, so be happy to be yourself, why bother so much? Just cherish the people who care about us.

4. Liter rice and bucket rice, conscience scales yourself. I owe nothing to anyone, but always be grateful. Thinking about the comfort, what is not satisfactory?

A person who has nothing can not have a conscience, and a person who knows how to be grateful must be a person with compassion. Those who know how to repay their kindness will be favored by God, and those who are ungrateful will not be tolerated by God, and those who cross the river and demolish the bridge will eventually be punished. Be calm, leave everything to time, and time will tell.

5. Be sincere to people, do things with a clear conscience, feel that others are sorry for you, learn to empathize, stand at different angles, see different results, there is no absolute fault in the world, there is no absolute right, the mentality is good, everything is fine!

Dou rice raises grace, stone (dan) rice raises hatred.

That is to say, "a bucket of rice raises a benefactor, and a stone of rice raises an enemy", giving others a bucket of rice at a critical time is like sending charcoal in the snow, and people will be grateful. If you give too much over time, you will become insatiable, you will take it for granted, and you will become resentful if you stop helping.

Relief in the difficulties of others, even if it is a small help, he is grateful, but too much help, resulting in his insatiability, the formation of dependence, once he no longer helps, he will have resentment and resentment towards the person who gave him help.

Allusion]: Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and the relationship was usually good. One of the families was much richer because they were more capable.

The two families originally had no grievances, but this year, God was angry and a disaster fell, and there was no harvest in the field. The poor family had no harvest, so they had to lie down and wait for death. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, and thinking of the neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family to save the emergency.

This poor family is very grateful to the rich man, and thinks that this is really a life-saving benefactor! After surviving the most difficult moments, the poor go to the rich people's homes to give thanks. While talking, talking about the seeds of next year have not yet been planted, the rich family said generously:

Well, I still have a lot of food here, so you can take another bucket." The poor man thanked him and went home with a bucket of rice. When he got home, his brother said, what can this doumi do?

In addition to eating, there is simply not enough seeds for us in the field next year, this rich man is too much, since you are so rich, you should give us more food and money, just give such a little, it is really bad.

When these words reached the ears of the rich man, he was very angry, and thought to himself, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only did not thank me, but also hated me as an enemy, you are really not human. So, the two families who had a good relationship. Since then, they have become enemies, and they have never been in contact with each other.

Yes, sometimes it's like this, many times you are good to others a hundred times and only one time is bad, others remember not a hundred times as good, but remember that you are bad once, it is very chilling, no way, some people have no conscience like this, as long as they have a clear conscience.

No matter how good you are to others, if you don't do it once, he will forget that you were good to him before, and will only remember that you are not good this time. Therefore, human nature is insatiable.

If you give sugar to one person every day, she won't be grateful to you. Suddenly one day you don't give, and she thinks you're stingy. So you really can't do too well as a human being.

Some people hold grudges and don't remember gratitude, help him 100 times and can't remember, sorry he remembers it once.

It's not easy to live a person, just say a word to a person.

There will always be different people and things in life, sometimes I always feel that I am too stupid, too kind, and blindly give to help others without a bottom line, and sometimes even exceed my own ability and bottom line. But never can not push away the face, when one day you can't reach, can not meet the requirements of others, he thinks you are very hypocritical and at this time you feel that he has never appreciated the help you have given him, only this once everywhere to criticize you, it really chills your heart, so everyone in the world has to treat such people who do not know how to be grateful, just stay away, learn to let go, just be yourself.