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Dou rice raises grace, stone (dan) rice raises hatred.
That is to say, "a bucket of rice raises a benefactor, and a stone of rice raises an enemy", giving others a bucket of rice at a critical time is like sending charcoal in the snow, and people will be grateful. If you give too much over time, you will become insatiable, you will take it for granted, and you will become resentful if you stop helping.
Relief in the difficulties of others, even if it is a small help, he is grateful, but too much help, resulting in his insatiability, the formation of dependence, once he no longer helps, he will have resentment and resentment towards the person who gave him help.
Allusion]: Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and the relationship was usually good. One of the families was much richer because they were more capable.
The two families originally had no grievances, but this year, God was angry and a disaster fell, and there was no harvest in the field. The poor family had no harvest, so they had to lie down and wait for death. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, and thinking of the neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family to save the emergency.
This poor family is very grateful to the rich man, and thinks that this is really a life-saving benefactor! After surviving the most difficult moments, the poor go to the rich people's homes to give thanks. While talking, talking about the seeds of next year have not yet been planted, the rich family said generously:
Well, I still have a lot of food here, so you can take another bucket." The poor man thanked him and went home with a bucket of rice. When he got home, his brother said, what can this doumi do?
In addition to eating, there is simply not enough seeds for us in the field next year, this rich man is too much, since you are so rich, you should give us more food and money, just give such a little, it is really bad.
When these words reached the ears of the rich man, he was very angry, and thought to himself, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only did not thank me, but also hated me as an enemy, you are really not human. So, the two families who had a good relationship. Since then, they have become enemies, and they have never been in contact with each other.
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If you are good to someone ten times, and once in a while you are bad, it will easily erase all your previous goodness; You treat someone bad ten times, and once you are good by chance, and he remembers that good time.
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Still quite speechless, you beg me to help you, and you want me to see your time. I help you with love, and I don't help you with my duty. Tell you to do me a favor once, and I'll help you ten times.
I really don't think of myself as an outsider, I know you very well, weird.
There is evil in human nature, there are too many white-eyed wolves, kindness should have a bottom line, don't let your kindness feed other people's greed. I helped you ten times, rejected you once, and you were disgusted in your heart. But you have to think that it is your duty to help you, and it is your duty not to help.
People must learn to refuse, otherwise the more they live, the more tired they become.
I can help you once, but not a few times. It is the love of others to help you, and it is your duty not to help you, and countless times of trouble for others to be rejected, you should also think about why, right? If I help you ten times and reject you once, and you only remember the one time I refused, I don't think I need to accommodate you everywhere.
It is three parts poison for medicine, and three parts for greed for people. Helping again and again is taken for granted. Respond to requests, and only then will you smile. Once refused, become a wicked person. It's better to help you ten times than not to help once.
It's love to help you, it's your duty not to help, don't ask too much. Don't help you ten times, scold me thousands of times if you don't help once, and don't help people who help you once nine times, and be grateful to death. It's not worth it.
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If you help someone ten times, and if you don't help once, the other party will think that you are not righteous. A lot of times, human nature is like that. But I still want to say that it is my duty to help you, and it is my duty not to help you.
I don't owe you. I don't need you to help me. Take care of yourself, help you ten times, and if you don't help you once, you will say that you will help and not help you.
People are mutual, and no one owes anyone. I've helped you once, twice, three times, what do you help me when I'm in trouble. You know it yourself, and I wish you better and better in the future.
It is appropriate to help ten times, as long as you are ruthless and don't help once, all your love will turn into hate, without exception.
I'm really disappointed in you, I think you're a waste, I can't help you ten times I can't help once, no matter how much I help you, I take it for granted, hehe!
You tear down my platform, I tear down your platform, these are all stupid people. You're making trouble behind you, I pretend I don't know, this is a smart person. Say you're stupid to your face, say hello behind your back, it's a good friend.
Often criticizes you, and is willing to help you, this is a noble person. It is the villain who does not remember his gratitude when he helps ten times, and who holds grudges if he does not help once.
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People are creatures of feeling, if you treat him well every time, he won't feel it, but if you treat him badly once, he will remember it.
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Therefore, it is not difficult to do good deeds, but it is rare to do good deeds in a lifetime.
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1. Understand some things, see some people clearly, and late autumn will come to us.
2. It's not good to forget all the good sentences at once, and how many pairs have you made for the girlsEmbroidered shoes
3. Help people once nine times without helping quotes, and now report to the leaders.
4. Sentences that people's hearts can never be fed, and often do strange things.
5. Ten classics a day, deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, only you listen to it.
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Ten times good and one bad quote are:
1. There is no grass at the end of the world, and one generation is less than the next. Nowadays, only children are treasures, and it is difficult to find no car or house. The skin is white and beautiful, why is no one picking. The reason for being single is **, and family planning is done well.
2. What you want, people who will do their best to satisfy you. It's not money that matters. Just wanted to prove how much he loves you. Someone who celebrates your birthday. I don't care about you because I only have one birthday a year, and I will cherish it.
People who hold your hand when crossing the street and keep walking on the left side of the road. I'm afraid I'll lose you. The person you spend to pay for you doesn't care about money, you feel very face-saving when you have it by your side.
The dishes you like to eat, he only said one sentence I don't like to eat, you can eat it! But after you have leftovers, he eats with relish.
3. The calm after disappointment again and again, but the words turned into a wry smile when they came to their mouths, and they felt redundant to say a word. The freedom you see is all the helplessness after my heartbreak.
4. Youth is only once in a lifetime, and only by truly grasping it can we have happiness and a future. As the old saying goes: Youth must be done early, how can it.
Elder boys. We must cherish our youth, there is nothing better in the world than youth, and there is nothing more precious than youth.
5. It's the first time to be happy when you're out for the New Year.
6. If you're not sure about doing something, flip a coin, and if you want to do it again, then you already know the answer.
7. Knowing that you don't have the ability to have so much at one time, and you don't have the right to claim so much, is a kind of maturity.
8. We are not perfect, and we will never be able to please everyone.
9. Some people, even if they only see each other once a year or even once in a few years, have never felt the slightest strangeness.
Some people, although they are often together, always make people feel estranged. Believe that your feelings are right, and don't kid yourself. With such a big person, no one should be forced.
10. You are qualified to say that you are unlucky, and failure does not mean that you are bad but reminds you that you should work hard.
11. Good girl.
It's a down-to-earth life, and a bad girl has a wonderful life. The good and the bad are in the middle, the envy is swaying from side to side, and the jealous is never happy.
12. It's not the first time I feel that I can't live, today will always pass, I still have to go to work on Monday, everything is as usual, and the cycle repeats.
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100 times good and one bad to erase all the good sentences are as follows:
1. You can't completely erase the many times others have been good to you because others have treated you badly, and others have helped you and not help you.
It's duty. 2. I have been good to you a hundred times, but I can't be satisfied with what you think you are.
3. Some people give you candy to eat, so you slowly get used to this sweetness, so you become more and more greedy. But when you taste a little bitter taste, a little bit that dissatisfies you, you will completely deny it, completely forget all the good things that others have done to you, which is not right.
4. There are many friends in life, and you are good to your friends a hundred times, as long as you have one time. No, and when you're down, your wrongness or badness will be forever.
5. It's the same with being a man, if you treat him ten times, maybe he forgets, once it doesn't go well, maybe he will wipe out everything. That's the truth of 100-1=0 humanity!
6. A hundred good ones don't necessarily hand over a person, and a bad one will offend a person: one day you will suddenly find that your goodness is like a glass of water to others, and if you drink it, it will be gone, and your badness is like a seed, which will take root and sprout. That's human nature!
Life has given us a lot of tests, we have learned to accept and tolerate, if there is such a person, because of your little good, forgive you for all the bad, then cherish it! Because most people will only forget all your good because of your little badness! Be a man with gratitude!
Do things without shame.
7. If you find that it is difficult to be a good person, you will be labeled as a bad person if you do it well 99 times and fail to do it well 1 time. This kind of friendship is too sad, too tired to deal with ......Right or wrong.
8. Even if you have a thousand good and one bad, it will overturn all your efforts; Even if you dig out your heart and lungs, if one is wrong, you will add sin to crime, saying that you are wolf-hearted and dog-hearted.
9. Others are good to you, don't say that you must have something in return, you must at least make others feel that his efforts are worth it and meaningful, if every good deed can receive positive feedback, then there will be more people in this world who are willing to pay and know how to pay.
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1. The process of growing up is to break out of the cocoon into a butterfly, struggling to shed all the green and ugly, fluttering light and beautiful wings in the sun, shining, light, and trembling happily.
2. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, no matter how big your dream is, but do not take action, after all, it is on paper, there are dreams to pursue, do not waste, wonderful by you to create.
3. Good attitude, good people, because they know how to be tolerant; Good attitude, smooth work, because informal; A good attitude, a happy life, because you know how to let go. Don't let temper be as great as ability, the more capable people are, the less temper they have. People's mentality is good, round everywhere, full everywhere.
A good attitude can stimulate the greatest potential in life and is your greatest wealth.
4. Don't think that you are pessimistic, in fact, there are many more unfortunate people than you; Don't be optimistic that you are great, in fact, you are just a drop in the ocean.
5. When one day you come out of the confusion of life and look back at the sunset, the series of twists and turns and stumbling steps behind you, they constitute a precious part of your life, always looking back, you will be infinitely moved and infinitely gratified, engraved in your heart.
6. If life is a journey, happiness and sorrow are two long railroad tracks, tightly behind me.
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In this way, even if you are pregnant, it is easy to fall off, so you have to be careful with yourself, if you want to be a mother now, treat yourself well, if you still want to, accidentally contraception, otherwise, there will be an eleventh time!!
It's hard to say, maybe you want to save face, rush to pay, look at your two female girlfriends are love to take advantage, if the two of them eat you, forget it, after all, you are a big man, how can you let the woman pay, the hateful thing is that they are still with children and husbands, at first glance, they are playing with you, love to take advantage, their husbands can also take turns to pay, people like them, you don't have to deal with them, this is not that you are too careful, they are unconscious, almost on the line, and with their husbands and children a little unreasonable, So, it's not that you are too careful, don't associate with them, otherwise you will suffer in the future, listen to me!
That means they don't like you, go find someone you really like.
As Chen Yihan said: "What is bravery? For me, dare to love and sweat regardless of my body, dare to be hated, dare to accept the facts, dare to live quickly alone, dare to be two people who are not afraid of injury, dare to get up without hesitation, dare to do what I say, dare to take a cold shower in winter......There are many, many more, but what I really insist on the most is to have the courage to be loved and abandoned.