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First of all, you have to know what your true thoughts are, if you want to be with your first love, you must first end your marriage, otherwise you will be really scumbag.

Many people have exes and first love, so when they quarrel with their husbands, they will think that the number of their first love has been entangled in whether they should rekindle with their first love, in fact, calm down and think about it, my husband is still very good to himself, and he has formed a family and marriage can not be child's play, so to maintain a good family and maintain children, first love is just a process of adolescence, ignorant, but you really can't let go, I feel that my current life is far less than my first love, so you can give it a go.

I think it's better for you not to continue to entangle with Qiu Lian, otherwise it will hurt your feelings.

Since you are already married, you have to take care of yourself, even if you can't forget your first love, you can't rekindle your old love with him, and let go of the feelings that have passed.

It is not easy for two people to come together, with a family comes responsibility, to respect marriage, not to give up easily because of quarrels, should cut off the relationship with the first love, and maintain their family.

I don't think in a relationship, a guy won't always miss his first love.

Therefore, the way of communication with couples must learn to be respectful and sincere, so that the communication with each other will be more harmonious, and it can also allow each other to work together to manage a better future.

1.Be calm when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

2.Let go of your ego when communicating.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride will only become a stumbling block to communication, so Douqing should at least give up his so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3. Know how to listen carefully when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise it is like playing the piano to the cow, so that the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

4. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always focus on yourself, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause others to be disgusted, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

The husband and the first love are in contact, and the noise at this time is meaningless, we should try our best to maintain our marriage, rather than letting the first love talk about this marriage to make a mess.

In fact, the contact between the husband and the first love can be big or small, it depends on how we treat it, and it also depends on how the husband contacts each other. If it is just a daily greeting and greeting, or an ordinary chat, we should also give him such freedom, and even we can participate in the discussion of the other party, listen to how the other party lived, and listen to the story between the husband and the first love, as a spice after marriage, it is also very okay.

At this time, my husband has a clear understanding of his attitude, and he will avoid his words and deeds. But some people always like to make small things big, thinking that whenever the first love of the husband of the first love is connected with the husband, there are improper thoughts and reasons. In fact, this is not the case, after the loss of a relationship, it has changed its taste, and it is impossible to be happy even if you are barely together.

This adult also understands this very well, many people just have a relationship, and they have had a hard time, and they just want both parties to understand the current situation.

The more I am in contact with my first love, the more I should be gentle and considerate to my husband and take care of him, so that my husband will not regret his marriage. Once the trouble is over, it will only make the husband feel that he has made a mistake in his thoughts and choices. At this time, there is no benefit to the relationship between the two people, and it may even be because it reminds him of the beauty of his first love, and now he is facing a place of chicken feathers, which produces a stronger contrast.

Generate the idea of divorce. Although the relationship needs to be pure, but the connection with the first love does not mean everything, it has gone the wrong way, we must treat this issue rationally and prudently, and do not make things to the point of being difficult to resolve.

After marriage, my husband is still in contact with my first love, is there any other solution at this time besides being noisy?

The first is communication and exchange, expressing one's true thoughts and feelings, and solving problems, rather than replacing them with quarrels.

Since you choose to start a new relationship, you should devote yourself wholeheartedly to giving the other party a full sense of security. After getting married, if two people need to manage and struggle together in their lives, they should trust each other and maintain a loyal attitude towards the marriage. It's infuriating to find out that your significant other is still in touch with her first love, but arguing isn't the solution.

Two people should sit down, communicate and exchange calmly, express their true thoughts and feelings, a person who truly loves you will take care of their emotional changes very much, will truthfully explain what they have done, and make corrections so that their beloved girl will not be hurt.

The second, secretive, extremely secretive, still keep in touch, quarrels can no longer solve the problem, maybe ending this marriage and not letting yourself suffer is the best way.

If there is a crack in the marriage and there is no basis for trust, then even the perfect promise can become shattered. When it is found that the other half is still in touch with the ex, when asking him is still a secretive and extremely secretive attitude, still going his own way and keeping in touch with the ex, at this time the quarrel can no longer solve the problem, and the marriage with cracks will no longer be as happy as before. Since the other party is not loyal enough to the marriage and does not treat it wholeheartedly, then perhaps choosing to divorce and ending this marriage is the best way not to let yourself fall into the abyss.

If you find that your other half is still in contact with your ex, the two of you don't have any transgressive behavior, and you are honest about your inquiries, such a connection will not matter much. But after discovering it, it is still hidden, showing a state of impatience and anger, and it is repeated to teach you, so you must carefully consider whether this marriage continues.

I don't think you should quarrel at this time, the more you quarrel, the more he will contact his first love, you should have a good talk with him calmly, tell him that his behavior has broken your heart, if you still want to contact him, you will leave him, this time will scare him, he will not contact his ex again.

In fact, you can also communicate well with your husband, let the other party know your thoughts, and learn to be coquettish so that you can achieve your goals.

At this time, you should be patient, you can be more kind to your husband, let him feel guilty, it will be fine, if it doesn't work, there is really no way, I suggest you boldly talk to the woman, persuade her to quit, don't be a junior!

Your husband is a complete scumbag at all, and he still wants to occupy the pot while eating the bowl, so I suggest that you divorce him quickly and stay away from him. There are good men outside, why hang themselves on a tree! Leave him and go and find your own happiness!

If you can break it, you will live well; If you can't break it, you can leave!

Clear attitude and decisiveness!

It mainly depends on what you think in your heart, talk to your husband well, tell him that he can live a good life without being distracted, and he can't divorce his first love, because it is not a matter for a long time, and it will bring many contradictions to the family.

This is excessive. are already married, and they can go back to find their first love, I guess they don't want to live. This kind of thing can't be endured, if you endure it the first time, then what about the second time? So I made it clear directly, either you leave her, or you leave me.

The decision is up to you. Because your husband is now in two boats, if there is a slight separation, maybe he will split. At this time, you should make a decisive choice, and be responsible for yourself and your children.

This kind of man is a scumbag, don't be such a man, he still has a very good life.

It can be seen from your introduction that your husband is a not very authentic man, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, remembering that he doesn't want to divorce you and doesn't want to break off with Xiao San, it's all his.

To put it bluntly, you are too soft-hearted, he knows you very well, he has caught the weakness of your heart that is too soft, and consumes it with you like this, he knows that you can't do anything to him, so, he has been consumed like this, you have to do something now to make him understand that you are not a weak and easy to bully person, you have to let him know that you are powerful, you have to pick up the law **, let him know that you are serious this time, if you really want to continue with him, let him show his attitude, if he doesn't want to have a good time with the junior also show his attitude, Then you let the court solve this kind of thing according to the situation, get back all you have won, slowly come out of this haze, and start a new relationship again! Make him regret losing you!!

You still have to talk to your husband. This kind of man still wants to pedal two boats. You want to take care of your parents and children. I also want to be with my first love. If he doesn't break off with his first love. You have to think about it. Don't get used to his stinky faults.

I think you should divorce such a man, he is stepping on two boats, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, how can such a man be single-minded in his feelings, and expect him to be responsible for you. Just leave him and find someone who likes you, so you don't get tired.

In this case, it is better to tell his parents-in-law, his parents, everyone knows, forced him to make a choice. Like you said, you can't keep the red flag from falling at home and the colorful flags fluttering outside.

What should I do if I find that my husband has rekindled his old relationship with his first love, and he doesn't want to divorce or have a relationship with his first love? I think you have to talk to your husband well, tell your husband to draw a line with his first love, and don't have anything to do with him.

Hello, then care more about your husband, let him feel the warmth of the family will return to the family, after all, there are children, run the family together, and the husband and wife will be a hundred days a day.

Divorce after the cooling-off period is over, what is there to consider about such a simple matter. Since he thinks his first love is good, let him go with his first love.

In fact, such a situation should be broken, not broken. Such a man is actually irresponsible. Don't be with him anymore.

Then be resolute, never allow both, how can you still raise this first love outside? He keeps breaking and breaking outside.

The sooner the man who stepped on two boats, the better. Collect evidence and submit it to the court to sue for divorce.

What should I do if I find out that my husband has rekindled his old relationship with his first love, and he doesn't want to divorce or break off with his first love? Talk to his first love, your husband's state, his first love will also break off with him.

What should I do if I find out that my husband is in an old relationship with my first love**, and I don't want to divorce or break off with my first love? It's easy to talk to him. You want to divorce him if you marry him.

This depends on what kind of mentality you have, and if you can't accept it, you can unilaterally sue for divorce. It's not fun to have different dreams in the same bed.

It's impossible, can you tolerate it? If you can't tolerate it, cut through the mess quickly.

Since this is the case, I suggest that you first take evidence of the two of them and then explain the matter to your in-laws, so that the elders can put pressure on him and make a choice.

Your question is not urgent, it needs to be well thought out.

Your current marriage is not very happy, you can divorce, but your first love is very unsuitable to be with you, his nature is completely different from yours, this is a man who lacks morality.

If you have to marry him, then you are destroying someone's family, and for the women of his family, you are a sinner, and you will not have peace for the rest of your life.

Either way, you're going to leave him.

Hepatitis B carriers, although not directly hepatitis B, but the chance of developing the disease is very high, he will not have children, the disease will be inherited.

Don't be fooled by your first love, it doesn't make any sense, besides, you have rejected him, if you marry him, he will take revenge on you, your situation will not be better than his current wife's life in the future, you have to avoid this old account, when you have conflicts with him in the future, this old account will be calculated together.

If you do business well, there will be a man who loves you, a responsible person.

You have to divorce first. Later, go to find a boyfriend, don't look for your first love, he is also a man who lacks a sense of responsibility, he will ignore the pain of women, and only care about his own temporary pleasure and happiness.

You don't add your pain to the wife of your first love, you don't have to bear her, she didn't offend you, and you will be at peace for the rest of your life.

Women should help women, not friends with improper men.

You don't think that the so-called him has waited for you for five years, there is no such thing, it is that he made up the same kind of your sins, making you feel uneasy, as if you owe him, you are not sorry for him, you do not owe him anything, these five years can be said that he himself can't find a girlfriend, a woman who knows his condition, no one will dare to marry him, because the hepatitis B virus will pass on to women through sex, kissing. Hepatitis B is a deadly disease, and there is still no good cure for it in the world.

For your happiness and longevity, you must correctly arrange your future path, do not be confused, and distinguish between right and wrong.

Your current thinking is rather chaotic, but the principles of life must be understood, and the procedures must comply with regulations and ethical standards.

I wish you a bright heart, a bright future, and a happy life.