Couples have been separated and reunited many times, does it really affect the relationship?

I can't have the feelings of division and integration.

First, we should fully understand the importance of the relationship between husband and wife. In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to be able to become a husband and wife, willing to accompany each other for a lifetime through ups and downs, and to become a partner who is blessed and shares hardships and hardships, life and death. The ancients:

Thousands of generations of cultivation come to cross together, and thousands of generations of cultivation come to sleep together. It shows what a gratifying life event it is to be a husband and wife. At the same time, the ancients admired the values of holding the hand of the son, carrying each other to old age, and from the beginning to the end, which further illustrated the sacredness and seriousness of the relationship between husband and wife.

However, with the development and change of the times, especially the impact of Western culture, some young people now gradually forget the tradition and dilute the ancient precepts.

Second, there should be a degree of division and integration. According to common sense, it is normal for newlyweds to have a little noise and even quarrel after marriage because they do not have enough understanding of each other's personalities, hobbies, interests or accomplishments before marriage. There is generally no need to make a fuss.

Even if there are one or two occasional cases of separation and merger, there is no need to shout to the heavens and the earth.

Some of these situations can also promote introspection on both sides, because through calm thinking, both parties may increase their self-knowledge, understand each other more rationally, and discipline themselves more strictly, thus strengthening the relationship between husband and wife. But if the couple's separation and union lasts for a few years or more, it is worth thinking about. Will it be divided for some trivial things?

Is it to cover up something? Can both sides endure this tossing or suffering indefinitely? I'm afraid we have to dig deeper into the reason.

Third, instead of breaking the thread, it is better to cut it in two. Although living is a toss, it cannot be endured for a long time. Life is short, if half of your life or your whole life is miserable in this state of incompatibility and unbearable desire, it is better to cut through the mess quickly and end this nightmare as soon as possible.

So that both sides can be relieved earlier, and each of them will start again, and it may not be long before both sides will find out: it is indeed bright. Why bother with regret in the first place.

It will affect the relationship, because if it is divided and combined, then the tacit understanding between them will definitely be much worse than before, and there will be a gap between them, and there will be no more ease before.

Of course, every breakup will affect the relationship between each other, and even if you continue to live together, it will cause serious damage to the relationship between two people.

Yes, often in this way, two people will lose interest and hope in life, and slowly lose the emotional foundation.

It will affect the relationship, and even if the two parties have deep feelings, they will be worn out in the continuous division and combination.

In this case, two people must have an emotional foundation, since they can be together after breaking up, please be sure to cherish it, most of the girls are with you, not for your economy, but for the sense of security around you.

Many couples will split and reunite several times in the process of getting alongThis is because their cognition of feelings is not yet fully mature, and they are also in the stage of running-in

Many young people enjoy the freedom of love in the process of falling in love, and there will be times when they are separated and combined in the process of getting along. In this case, I think they have not yet had a fully mature understanding of the relationship, and they are also in the run-in stage, two strangers walk together to be in a state of mutual understanding and mutual tolerance, and now young people are very values and outlook on life.

They also have a strong self-assertion in the face of love, so they will separate when the relationship is not suitable, but they will reconcile after a little calm thinking.

Perception of feelings

I think that today's young people are divided and combined, this is because their cognition of feelings has not been fully qualified, and they think that their other half has not yet reached the ideal state, so there will always be disagreements in the process of getting along, so they will break up, and after slowly thinking about it, they will find that this person is actually very good to themselves, and will be reconciled, so young people's cognition of feelings is not fully mature, and they feel that the other half should achieve their ideal state.

If you want to find your ideal other half, you need to get along with each other through running-in

Nowadays, many couples want each other to be their ideal other half, so in the process of getting along, they will ask the other half to achieve their ideal state, and there will definitely be some disputes at this time. After a dispute, they will choose to flee and choose to break up, but when they calm down, they find that they are still inseparable from the other half, so they will choose to reconcile, which is also one of the reasons why they are divided and combined.

Couples still need to be responsible in the face of their own feelings, when choosing a relationship, not only to have a state of running-in, but also to make the relationship blossom through their own management.

Some couples have been separated and reunited several times, indicating that both parties are relatively naïve, that is, the mind is not very mature? So it's not surprising that this is a combination of parts and combinations.

It is very normal for couples to be separated and united, because it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to stay together. Couples are divided and combined, one is that the attitude of two people towards feelings is very immature; The other is that two people don't love each other very much; The other is that the contradictions between two people are difficult to reconcile, but they are inseparable from each other. If you are sure to go on with each other for a long time, then don't always be separated and reunited, every time you are separated, it hurts the relationship, even if you are back together, the relationship will not be the same as before.

is because the psychological age of two people is very naïve, as long as they encounter unhappy things, they will propose to break up as soon as possible, but if they feel reluctant to the other party, one of them will take the initiative to save the relationship.

When together, then between lovers, it will also have all kinds of contradictions and conflicts, so if there may be some emotional excitement, he may break up to carry out an evil, which may eventually lead to a breakup, but he feels that he will regret it, so he will get back together again, so it will lead to this kind of separation and reunion many times.

This is because the couple has each other in their hearts. Divided and merged several times, which also shows that these two people are unwilling to let go of each other's hands. So after such a few repetitions, the relationship between the two people will get better and better.

Because these couples are very naïve and not very mature in terms of feelings, they choose to do this.

I don't think it will be too long, because often dividing and merging is a kind of distrust of feelings, and it is also a kind of disrespect for feelings.

Hello will not be together in the end, it is a choice that does not depend on others but on yourself. Sometimes"points"It brings a sense of relief but also a sense of loss and loneliness, sometimes"And bring the joy of loss and regain, but it will also repeat the helplessness and pain brought by the past conflicts, the feelings of men and women are very difficult, there is a saying, no matter how happy the relationship is, people have 200 times in their lives want to leave each other, 50 times want to strangle each other, but when you think rationally and evaluate, you think that this relationship has the value of survival, then you have to accept all of the other party, do not expect to change the other party, because the motive behind the separation and merger is to change the other party, If the division can change the other party, it will not repeat the state of separation and integration, so behind the long-term relationship is not emotions and feelings, but a choice, a powerful choice. I hope it helps you and I wish you a happy life

If it can't last long, they often break up and get back together, in this case, it shows that the relationship between the two is always problematic.

Not for long. Because the broken mirror cannot be reunited, even if the two people are reconciled, they are repeating the mistakes of the past.

The number of breakups between couples will only make the relationship weaker and weaker. The interaction between people is a process of gradual familiarity, and the frequent breakups of two people will only make both parties familiar with this feeling. The next time there is a conflict, the breakup will become particularly casual.

Of course, this also depends on the situation, some people break up because of special circumstances, and they can still get back their original feelings after going around and around.

1. You may break up habitually

I once saw a passage before, which probably said that girls keep mentioning breaking up, and boys keep them every time. The last time the girl mentioned breaking up, the boy directly agreed, the reason was that the boy felt tired. And when girls encounter a little thing, they will mention breaking up, and after a long time, they are used to threatening each other with a breakup.

Keeping both of them in this state will only make the relationship break up faster. In the process of dating, we try not to put the breakup on our lips, and don't mention the word when we are not forced to do so. In the world of relationships, breaking up is equivalent to a taboo, and our other half may be particularly uncomfortable listening to it.

2. Love that goes round and round

Some people separate because of misunderstandings, but in fact, there are still feelings between two people. When you encounter a new relationship, if you can't go on well, you will miss the original her. As long as two people have the opportunity to socialize, it is possible to spark again, and it is not impossible to reconcile.

In real life, there are really such things, they broke up three or four times, and finally returned to each other. There are even some people who have been married and divorced several times, all with the same person. In the end, I still chose to spend my life with the same person.

3. Love needs to be nourished

For most relationships, separation and union are very fatal, and only a few loves can get back together. Love needs to be nourished, and we must maintain love as much as possible, rather than thinking about messy things. If you want to be with each other all the time, you must maintain the emotion of the original love.

Splitting and reuniting between couples is particularly emotionally hurtful, and sooner or later they will no longer get back together after a breakup, which is also because they are tired and don't want to do such things anymore, which is not good for the relationship at all. It's definitely not going to get deeper and deeper.

If couples often divide and merge, then after such a run-in, the relationship will definitely get better and deeper.

No, every time you break up, it hurts your feelings, and the final result of breaking up and merging is that you don't love each other.

I think so. There will inevitably be some differences between couples, and slowly there will be more tacit understanding.

A user consulted me and said that he and his current boyfriend always quarrel and break up, and they can get back together because they think of each other's goodness. I wonder if there is a need to continue in this state of affection?

To be honest, the feelings that can be divided and combined are generally entangled with each other, and the feelings are still very deep.

Because neither of them is willing to give up like this, even if it will be painful, they will be together.

But frequent splitting and merging is not a good thing, once or twice will make us realize the importance of each other even more.

But three or four times, it's easy to get tired. Five or six times is likely to be torture, and gradually it will become numb.

Even if you are still together in the end, the emotional rift will definitely get bigger and bigger.

Many couples have been separated and combined, not because they are not suitable.

It's because of some small things and some small misunderstandings, plus they can't communicate correctly, I don't know what the other party thinks in their hearts, they misunderstand each other, and finally lead to the breakup of the clan sedan chair.

We often talk about empathy and empathy, but the truth is, it's really hard to do.

Going back to the original question, if a couple separates and reunites twice, they may love each other more because of their relationship.

But more than three times, I'm afraid it's really hard to get to the end.