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It is better for the girls of the Yao nationality not to marry far away. Mainly, there are a lot of issues that you have to think about yourself.
First of all, you have to think about your parents, if you marry far away, you will stay away from them, in case something happens, can you be there for your parents in time? In case something happens to you, can your parents get over quickly? This question is very realistic.
The second is the question of your ethnic living habits and cultural differences, whether you can perfectly integrate with the other party's family, because marriage is a matter of two families, not as simple as you think.
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How wonderful Pai Yao's wedding customs are.
Bapai Yao practiced a monogamous marriage system. The same surname generally does not intermarry, and can be intermarried after five generations.
The main way for Yao compatriots to talk about marriage is to sing and convey affection, and some of them are carried out during festivals, and sometimes they are working in the mountains across the mountains. The most popular is to sing in front of the woman's window at night. "My Fair Lady, Gentleman is good", the girl of the Yao family grows up to 17-18 years old, there are young people who come to sing at night, some are a young man who invites the girl to sing alone, sometimes several young people sing at the same time, the singing content is generally admiration for the girl's good name and morality, express admiration, if the woman has the heart, that is, sing in the same tone, if she has no intention, she will refuse the suitor with a courtesy singing.
Among the many suitors, if one young man is chosen by the woman, the other young people will not be jealous, but will sincerely congratulate them on getting love.
After singing and talking about the successful marriage, the man will bring chicken, wine, and meat to the woman's house to "set the wedding", agree on the wedding date, the man will prepare for the marriage, and the woman will prepare the "dowry".
The man's dowry is mainly based on "marrying meat". Each "marrying meat" is 6 to 9 catties of pork, depending on the number of relatives of the woman (uncles, brothers, uncles, etc.), in addition to symbolic red envelopes, hanging bags, wine, chickens, etc. The woman does not force it, and under normal circumstances, a few hundred yuan can solve the dowry item.
The woman's dowry consisted mainly of embroidered "wedding dress" and firewood. The woman needs to chop dozens of loads of firewood as a dowry, indicating that the woman is a hardworking and thrifty person. In the past, there were fields, mountains and forests, as well as buckets, foot basins, long knives, hoes, sun umbrellas and other dowries, and marrying a girl was like moving.
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Summary. If the two of you really love each other, you can marry a Yao boy!
If the two of you really love each other, you can marry a Yao boy!
There is no restriction on ethnic division in the Marriage Law, and under normal circumstances, children will follow their father, including ancestral origin, ethnicity, etc. It depends on the customs of your two places.
From the perspective of national unity and the overall interests of the Chinese people, it is not illegal for the Yao people to marry the Miao people and give up their brothers. Unless there is a narrow nationalist view among individual families. But after all, the Miao and Yao clans have different customs and habits, so they must respect each other and be considerate of each other.
As long as the relationship is good, I think life should be happy.
How can the Miao people talk about intermarriage with foreigners. Although it is clear that the Miao people are a minority group, there is no restriction on them from intermarrying with foreign peoples, and marriage is regardless of nationality
In the Miao area in the south, their style and affection have also attracted the attention and love of a large number of tourists. In the Miao area, most of them still maintain some ancient traditions, both men and women love to sing and dance, especially the Miao girls, singing mountain songs are down-to-earth and generous, and they also come with their mouths open to mountain songs. They are basically not disturbed by the world, and they have never envied the modern high-rise buildings outside.
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Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you!Yao girls are not allowed to marry Miao boys.
The Yao people practice monogamy, the same surname or different surnames can be married, some villages have only one or two surnames for hundreds of years, the Yao people in Dongshan Yao District, Lanshan County, Hunan Province are all surnamed Pan, and the Yao Village of Dongzhai Jiang, Lingui County, Guangxi Province only has the surname Deng and Zhao at the beginning of the 21st century.
Dear, glad to answer for you!Yao girls are not allowed to marry Miao Huaiqing boys. The Yao people practice monogamy, the same surname or different surnames can be married, some villages have only one or two slow surnames for hundreds of years, the Yao people in Dongshan Yao District, Lanshan County, Hunan Province are all surnamed Pan, Guangxi Lingui County Dongzhai Jiang Yao Village in the early 21st century only lead which before the surname Deng and Zhao surname.
Expand: Hmong can intermarry with foreigners. Although the Miao people are a minority ethnic minority, the ethnic group does not restrict them from intermarrying with foreign peoples, and the marriage is full of all nationalities, and only love in marriage is guaranteed!
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Summary. Hello, dear, Miao girls can marry Yao boys.
Can a Miao girl marry a Yao boy?
Good. Hello, dear, Miao girls can marry Yao boys.
The Miao people have a long history, the aborigines of the Nanyue nationality have a relationship with their Tan Daiwu, in the ancient Chinese classics, there have long been records about the ancestors of the Miao people more than 5,000 years ago, and the ancestors of the Miao people can be traced back to the Chiyou tribe who were active in the Central Plains in the era of primitive society. Historically, the ruling class of the old society imposed a blockade policy on the Miao people, and the Miao people generally did not intermarry with foreigners. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, the great integration of various ethnic groups was realized, and now there is no problem with intermarriage.
The Miao people have their own language, and the Miao language belongs to the Miao branch of the Sino-Tibetan language family. Due to the long-term association between the Miao and the Rang or Han people, some of the Miao people are fluent in both Chinese and Chinese, and the religious beliefs of the Miao people are mainly nature worship and ancestor worship.
Okay thank you. What do I need to do to get married?
Is it a preparation before marriage?
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As long as you love each other enough, enough trust, of course, you can, after all, this is also on the basis of the joint efforts of both parties, in order to be happy and endure Now there are many girls who have chosen to marry far away, and the elders in the family think that marrying far away will not be good, so try not to let their daughters marry far away. He didn't want his daughter to marry far away, it was nothing more than that he was worried that Yan Lao's daughter would marry far away, and no one would come forward if she was wronged in her in-law's family. And it's so far away, I don't know if my daughter can get by.
In other words, as long as the man treats the woman sincerely, the woman's parents will also be fulfilled. And today's girls are very impulsive in the face of love, even if they marry far away, they never think long-term when facing love, as long as two people love each other, no one can stop it.
Distant marriage can also be very happy, my sister is far away marriage, married from the north to the man, at first my mother was very opposed, and then I couldn't stand my sister's soft grinding and hard bubbles, my brother-in-law was also very good to my sister, and finally my mother agreed. After my sister got married, she went home at most twice a year, and she could only rely on WeChat to contact her. My mother has also told me many times that she regrets letting my sister marry far away, and she actually hopes that my sister can live well with her brother-in-law.
My brother-in-law loves my sister very much, and never lets my sister do housework, and my sister is spoiled and has "can't take care of herself". Maybe it's marrying love.
For the sake of love, it is also worth marrying far away, if the other party loves me enough, I also love each other deeply, and we have reached the point of getting married, I will also agree to marry far away. I don't think it matters whether you marry far away or not, as long as the other party is good to you. Parents don't want their daughters to marry far away, which is nothing more than worrying that their daughters will not have a good life.
However, some girls who marry close are not as good as those who marry far away. The key is to see how the two people get along and how to maintain their married life.
As long as two people are sincere to each other, it doesn't matter whether they marry far away or not.
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Yes, it's the same wherever you choose the right one.
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I'm a boy, and I suddenly thought it was interesting to get this topic, but I have two older sisters, I am the youngest child in the family, and my sisters are married, and they are both very close to my parents' house, which is also in the same district.
If I were a girl, I wouldn't marry far away, let's talk about it based on my sister's experience
1: If you marry far away, you will be far away from your parents, and if you are wronged, you will not be able to talk to your parents
2: Parents are getting older and older, and their health will definitely be worse day by day, if they don't marry far away, it's okay, they can come to see their parents on weekends and after work, and it's good to accompany their parents to grow old
3: Of course, when I meet true love, I have to marry far away or something, but I think multiple considerations, love is sometimes just right, you don't have to marry far away, you can marry well, so good.
In short, it is very hard to marry far away, far away from home, there is always a sense of estrangement in the heart, I think the parents are in the pants, not far away to marry at least to be a filial child
Is it worth it to marry far away from other provinces?This question is a bit complicated,it should be said that if you marry the right person,it will
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It can't be a little boyish.
To be honest, it's easier for girls to chase a lot now, unlike before, it's all twisted and pinched, and now it's not necessarily that you love it, as long as you can get along with it, basically girls will agree, so hurry up and pounce on the girl you like.