My girlfriend said that a very rational person, how can he love impulsively

Love can make people blind, love can make people crazy, and at the same time make people irrational, if there is still rational love, it is not true love.

Love is half attachment and half desire, and first of all, attachment refers to dependence on lovers as much as on parents. The second is desire, which originates from our central nervous system.

The oldest part. Primal cravings, deep in the central part of our brain, arouse our emotional desires. Desire is the "heart breath" of love.

Dependence and lust are intertwined, and love is formed between two people with nurturing grace and sexual charm. True love exists in the tacit understanding between two people in life. It is a feeling of desolation and loneliness that arises when you get along with the person you know best.

But this desolation is not real desolation, and this loneliness is not real loneliness. It's a strange feeling, and it's only felt when you're in touch with your sweetheart. The artistic conception of this feeling is the same as "thinking of heaven and earth, alone and crying".

This kind of artistic conception is no longer sadness and joy, but a kind of beauty, a kind of beauty of high-five, a beauty that makes you lose your soul. If you have never experienced this kind of artistic conception, you don't understand love. True love is a feeling of happiness when you are alone and lonely, knowing that your beloved is waiting for you.

In true love, there is not only a strong emotion, but also a wise decision-making, an ability to appreciate and a promise to keep together. If there is no such thing in love, it will not last forever. A person's unwavering love for someone is often because that person has a unique personality, and this personality makes that person very "mysterious".

Especially a woman, who is most likely to fall in love with someone she doesn't know.

If you love, you will find that you don't like the way your lover looks like on a given night; If you don't love, you find that you can't live without your lover at all. Pain and pleasure are intertwined, tormenting you mentally, you are a flesh-and-blood person after all. So, it's hard to tell if it's because of impulsiveness or because of love.

Love sometimes doesn't need a reason. A rational person does not have the impulse to love, which shows that he has not met the person he really likes, otherwise how can there be love at first sight? So try to love deeply.

As long as you put your heart into it, love is not rational and emotional, as long as you are happy and happy.

In a rational girl, he also has a yearning and longing for love. So just show your sincerity. He will definitely be influenced.

Because the world is chaotic, love has no rules at all, and there is no rational law when you fall into love. Remember.

The Heart Sutra says, "The heart has no obstacles, there is no fear, and there is no fear because of the obstacles, and it is far away from upside-down dreams", and the Taoists say "the law of man, the law of the earth, the law of heaven, the law of heaven, and the law of nature", "everything will be because of love, impermanence can last for a long time, because of love hates it, because of love it is fearful, if you can leave the beloved, there is no hatred and no fear". Whether it is Taoism or Buddhism, it is to teach people to adjust their mentality, and it is not necessary to become a monk in cultivating the mind and body, as long as you sincerely understand and do it sincerely, do it freely, do it without desire, without fear and without demand, and do that joy, anger, sorrow and happiness are all returned to dust, then it is estimated that it will be fine.

What should be done to fall in love with an impossible person.

You can't hide from it, and you can't chase it.

What to do if you fall in love with an impossible person and can't forget it.

When you know very well in your heart that you fall in love with someone who can't be together, you should adjust your mentality, let yourself break this thought, and start a new life from now on, which is the best.

You should decisively separate from the other party, as the so-called long pain is not as good as short pain, you must stop the loss in time to avoid harm.

It must be far away, it is impossible to be together, so why bother.

What you need to do to fall in love with someone who can't be together is to learn to let go and turn around gently, so that it won't hurt either of you too much, and then you won't feel particularly tormented inside.

Broken thoughts. Since it is impossible to be together, there is no need to waste time and just cut off the thoughts, which is good for both parties.

Without irrational impulses, how can human beings remain advanced? Even if there is only one billion times in the irrational impulse, it is worth it.,Back to the answer that everyone eats raw meat.,There was a person who was impulsive and ate a piece of burned corpse.。。 And then..

He gets more protein. Smarter and stronger. While everyone was using the stones they had picked up, one of them had an impulse and rubbed two stones against each other, and his tools became sharper.

How did single-celled plants on the ocean floor evolve to humans n years ago... There is a part of the impulse that runs to the land, and there is a part of the impulse that evolves the lungs. There is a part of it ...

n more impulsive, and finally evolved you and me.

From seaweed n years ago to the current human evolution, the probability of success is 66666666*10n power... It's not magical, though, because all seaweed is impulsive. Some go to land.

Some go to the deep sea, some to the sky. After trying all the paths, there is definitely a path that leads to humanity.

Suppose, we're all rational now, well, then we're stagnant, or we're making slow progress. Then perhaps one day what now seems like a creature of a lower level will evolve into a life of a higher order than you and me ...

I forgot to say.,I'm Xiaohui.。。。

Decide your own things, maybe you will make a lot of wrong decisions at first, but gradually you will become discerning and you will become confident.

When to remember a little that your choice is always right, even if it is wrong, it is right, and don't think too much about your choice.

When you know you're going to spend a lot of money, you should have an estimate.

Find someone who is most sincere to you, the person you trust the most, to go shopping with you and tell you that this thing is ugly and unworthy of you.

Think about everything yourself and decide it yourself, don't let others decide.

Restrained. There is no good way. And age, and experience.

Before you get angry, take a deep breath. Buffered. This anger will naturally be a little less.

You don't think the night market works. But I use it a lot. Whenever you get angry, take a deep breath.

There was a pause in time. Then the mind will quickly turn to figure out how to solve this problem. Tell yourself that you can solve it without getting angry.

After a long time, it will naturally get much better.

Figure it out for yourself....The heart is like a stagnant water, and it does not move for him.

Learn to control your emotions and work slowly.

It'll get better slowly. Believe in yourself.

After a lot of experience, you will become calm and silent.

Don't be impulsive in everything, control your emotions, and read more books like this

First of all, you have to be rational;Secondly, you have to be impulsive.

Emotional outbursts are a kind of catharsis and are necessary.

However, the outburst after a nervous breakdown is very dangerous. Because, in this case, uncontrollable impulses will swallow up reason, and there will be bad behavior.

Therefore, even if it is going to erupt, it should not be after the collapse.

The best way to answer the question is to distract yourself, leave the things that are now making you nervous, and give yourself a period of time to relieve, now people are very stressed, not only life pressure, work pressure is also very high, there is little free time to let yourself go to the chic play, because as long as you stop trying, then it is likely to let yourself fall into an embarrassing life.

Not only that, the people around me are better than themselves, and seeing them work so hard, they are still working hard, and they have to follow to live and work hard, and they don't dare to relax for a moment, because of the long-term mental pressure, people will collapse, so at this time, if you continue to let yourself be in a very stressful environment for such a long time, you will not be able to make yourself more efficient, and at the same time, you will also let yourself fall into a more tired mood, so instead of this, it is better to give yourself a day off, Completely put down the work at hand, and don't think about how much you will lose if you take a day off, because if you don't relieve your emotions now, you will lose even more in the future.

Sometimes we are too interested in gains and losses, so we can't let go of a lot of things, and we have a lot of desires, so that we are constantly in a very tired state. In the end, it is possible that the body has collapsed, in fact, it is very correct for us to pursue in our lives, and I especially agree that people should have goals and pursuits, but it is impossible to do everything in this life, sometimes we need to calm down and live a good life, and feel the current life.

That's to let him burst out.

You can let yourself work and sweat and exhaust yourself.

Or go to sports, boxing.

Or go up the mountain and yell at it.

Or choose to be alone or talk to someone.

1. Have a good chat with your family, don't get bored.

2. Find friends to go out to eat and go shopping.

3. Come to love to ask and tell all the unhappy things.

The best way is to exercise, because only by exercising can you vent your sulkness; secondly, you can also run to a place where no one is and shout loudly; Of course, you can also confide in your close friends.