If a loved one is suddenly gone, how can a person continue to live?

Updated on society 2024-07-25
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Understand that this is a law of nature.

    There is no substitute. Everyone must be able to leave this world, that is, in different ways and at different times. After the time she left, she must understand that she actually went to a distant place, but there is no way to come back for the time being, and he will go to that place to meet her in a few years or decades.

    It's just that she goes first. Next, you have to understand that life is only a few decades in the world, and one day, each of us will leave, seize the time to serve every day, live well, be a good person, do things well, enjoy life well, and complete your ideals without regrets. You don't want to live once in this life.

    There is no vain life, if you want to understand this, why bother with a temporary breakup!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's normal to grieve the loss of a loved one, don't suppress yourself, don't be so afraid of death, I don't believe in God, but I just thought that they went to another world first, and I would definitely get together with them, and the reason why I don't have it now is because I haven't finished what I have to do in this world, such as taking care of my mother who is still alive, raising children. As a human being, I have a lot of things I want to do when I come to the world, and I want to experience the life that I want to experience, and there is not much time in itself, 80 years is only 29,200 days, so I can't spend time thinking about too many sad things, I must hurry up and do what I want to do, and I want to be kind to my relatives who are still alive in the remaining time, and live every day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The sudden death of relatives, especially parents, is unacceptable to children. My father died suddenly in a car accident in 1995, and I couldn't believe it when I heard the news. So when I became an adult, I was scared of my father, he died suddenly, I didn't come out for more than a year, I thought about him in my spare time, and I couldn't stop crying, sometimes I wonder why God is so unfair to him, is the world so big that he can't be alone.

    After more than a year, I slowly came out of the shadows, I think people can't be resurrected after death, and regret can't solve anything, so I'll start now: double filial piety and respect for the mother who is still alive, let filial piety touch the pain in my heart, in the words of now, it is to turn grief into strength, rare and now work hard, treat family and relatives and friends well, and repay their (her) kindness with action.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The moment the doctor announced that my father had stopped breathing, I was devastated. Kneeling in ** brain blank, only know crying. On the day of my father's funeral, the memorial service ended, and my father was pushed to the crematorium.

    When I saw my father for the last time, I knew that I would not see this man who gave birth to me and raised me and regarded me as life, and I fainted. I don't know how others got me out. It's been six years since my father left, but I always think it's a dream, and he will come back when he wakes up.

    I guess it's hard to get rid of this kind of grief. It's just that many times, for the sake of my mother, I will keep this grief in my heart. The deceased is gone, and the living have to go on.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The death of a loved one has brought us indescribable pain, the child wants to support but does not wait, no matter how good the life is, it feels so bleak! Dad died of a sudden heart attack, very suddenly, at that time I was still more than four months pregnant, my mother in such a sad mood, take care of me, but also help me take care of the children, take care of the family, this love is my most touching brand, Dad to today has been three years, every time I miss the past, remember the feeling of being hollowed out, maybe only time can dilute everything, may Dad rest in heaven, may Mom live a long and healthy life! Today, I take the special day of Mother's Day to wish all mothers in the world a happy holiday!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After my mother passed away, I didn't come home for 5 years, mainly I haven't figured out how I died, she really didn't have a good day, I beat her when I was young and I quarreled with my father, and now we grew up and she passed away suddenly, I don't want to marry a local person now, and I don't want to go home, every time I go home, I think of her little bit of uncomfortable, in the eyes of others, how unfilial my father is a lonely person at home or something, it can be said that my father is not lonely at all, I gave him tens of thousands of dollars in the wedding bride price, I didn't take a penny and accompanied 8 quilts, he bought anything at home online, and he had to buy gifts to give some money every time he thought of my mother, I always felt that he was only for himself alone, after his mother passed away, he always went home to accompany him, saying that he was lonely at home or something, I said that when my mother was there, you always fought and quarreled and now shouted lonely, do we young people not go out to make money and play with you at home all day long, Although I have my own children now, I have never been able to get out of the shadows.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I find it hard to get out of it! Especially very dear, my favorite mother has left me for two years, and in the past two years, I often miss her very much, crying when I think about it, sometimes I suddenly think about staying there, and sometimes I feel like a dream, how can my mother be gone, how can I never see her. The person who loves himself and cares about himself the most in the world is gone, many times I want to hit ** but I don't know who to call, and the grievances in my heart have nowhere to tell, because no one will listen patiently like my mother and worry about you.

    Mom, I really miss you, are you okay in heaven? Can you see my life now?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My father left forever on December 16, 2018, and I couldn't get out of the pain. But when I thought of my responsibilities and my mother to take care of, I told myself that I had to be strong and face the reality, and I thought that my father would also want me to live a good life in heaven!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Unless it takes a while, those who see open come out early, and those who can't see come out late. I have a deep understanding that my husband has been gone for a year, and I want to open it as much as I can: don't get angry, no, I must get along for twenty-four years and a half and I can't forget it, I cry when I think of it, cry and think about it quickly, this is not good.

    It's like this over and over again, I'm sick, my heart hurts and my body hurts, it tortures me, I don't dare to get angry, it doesn't have any good effect, and there are many disadvantages. I thought about it slowly, and now it's much better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No one can accept the loss of someone who loves them, spoils them, and loves them all of a sudden. It is not easy to get out of the pain in a year, and I often burst into tears, and only I know the pain in my heart. Life is an emotional animal, and if there is no life or sense that it is nothing.

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