-
There are always some vicious people around, and their cold words can drive away the enthusiasm of others and make people feel that they have nothing to love.
There is also a kind of personal attack that looks good on the surface, but turns around and makes vicious words.
The former is ruthless enough, and the latter is even more poisonous.
The best thing to do is to stay away and stay safe.
The reason is very simple, constantly being doubted and attacked will only affect a person's emotions, fall into self-doubt and denial, do things timidly, never dare to try, and cause more or less harm to one's life after a long time.
I believe that many people have such people around them, no matter what you do, no matter what achievements you have achieved, they have a reason to criticize you and say that your value is worthless, such a person not only hurts others, but also affects yourself.
There is a classic line in "Bankrupt Sisters":
Your mouth is so poisonous, you must be very bitter in your heart.
Indeed, most of the people with vicious mouths are very negative and dark-hearted, and they have a bad life, they are irrational when they are angry and wronged, and their emotions are extremely unstable, and they have never been truly happy!
A wise person knows how to keep his mouth shut on the outside and his heart on the inside.
Because the poisonous tongue does not represent freedom of speech, it is a form of mental abuse, but also violence.
Not every word spoken can be taken back, and not everyone who has been hurt has had time to remedy. Talking is a freedom, but please use it well and don't let it become a hurtful **.
A person can only go far if he needs love and encouragement.
Don't overestimate your ability to settle right and wrong, stay away from those with poisonous mouths, and learn to be ruthless and refuse. The most important thing is to save energy to do things that make you happy.
-
We have people like this here, who are amazing every day, and it makes people feel horrible. In fact, if you don't pay attention to him or her, he or she won't be able to do anything! It seems that he is going crazy with himself, and over time, he and she will be very helpless!
Avoid him, she avoids far away, and when she sees him, she flashes.
-
Personally, I think this kind of person is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, and he doesn't need to speak with his brain at all, and he says it directly, and this kind of person doesn't need to be angry with him.
-
Narrow-minded, small-bellied chicken intestines people better ignore her, unreasonable to say that it makes sense, can only be fierce on the momentum of him to coax her, the voice is small and the saliva is less, it is best not to be hoarse, relax the face and walk in front of it expressionlessly, don't say a word of accumulation of saliva If the other party sprays you, drown in a mouthful of water, start calling the police.
-
It's good that kind of person ignores her, that kind of person doesn't deserve respect, let alone attention, treat her as air, and treat what she says as a fart!
-
In the same way, to go back to the past, a tooth for a tooth, this kind of person is to kick the nose on the face.
-
Summary. There are two kinds of mentality, some people have a poisonous tongue for your good, and they can't bear to see you make mistakes to be poisonous to you, but there are not many people who are usually very good friends. Other people have a poisonous tongue that is actually a daily sadistic ruffian, and people with a mean mouth must have a mean heart, and are usually very selfish and like to use themselves as a starting point and arrange others.
I look like I'm all for your good. Stay away from such people. (Being poisoned by people often may cause Stockholm disease, and may be like the person who hurts you.)
Hello, there is a kind of "poisonous tongue" person, in fact, it is a knife mouth tofu heart, the mouth is particularly powerful, but the heart is very soft, I think this kind of person is very kind, but he can't express it. I think such people are cold, and they feel difficult to contact. There is a soft heart under the strong exterior.
There are two kinds of mentality, some people have a poisonous tongue for your good, and they can't bear to see you make mistakes to be poisonous to you, but there are not many people who are usually very good friends. Other people have a poisonous tongue that is actually a daily sadistic ruffian, and people with a mean mouth must have a mean heart, and are usually very selfish and like to use themselves as a starting point and arrange others. I look like I'm all for your good.
Stay away from such people. (Being poisoned by people often may cause Stockholm disease, and may be like the person who hurts you.)
-
Language is the cloak of thinking, some people may think that these people are knife-mouthed tofu hearts, but I think every vicious joke is a true portrayal of the heart, just using exaggerated techniques, so I summarize these people as knife-mouthed stone-hearted. I still try to minimize my dealings with such people, because they at least lack empathy.
-
I think that the poisonous tongue is a lack of understanding and understanding of others, a lack of perception of goodwill in the external world, he is unwilling or unable to handle the relationship with the external world well, he has to put himself in a high position, and speaks with a high-minded attitude, which is essentially a lack of confidence in interpersonal communication.
-
I don't think the poisonous tongue is something to be proud of and praised. Some people are just looking for a cigarette, and they can't give others advice that they should listen to, and they make others feel down. There is something wrong with this kind of person.
-
I think it's still necessary to grasp the proportions of the poison, the spit for the purpose of being funny reflects the humor and humor, if it is always aggressive and accompanied by a serious look, ordinary people still can't stand it, even if it is a close friend, hurtful words will become a thorn in the hearts of others, words are more powerful than sharp blades.
-
I specially, really hate people like that. Maybe it's because very close relatives have this, I really hate it! It is low emotional intelligence, low empathy, learning not to consider problems from the perspective of others, and disrespecting people.
I really really hate this kind of behavior! Is there any cure for it, anyway, as far as I can observe so far, it seems to be genetic.
-
I am sometimes judged as "bitter" by the people around me, and every time I hear this kind of evaluation, I silently make up my mind to be careful in what I say in the future, and try to hide my mean nature in a humorous way.
-
No matter who you are, you should learn how to speak to avoid hurting innocent people, frankness is not a hurt to speak without a brain, and personality is not a manifestation of selfishness.
-
I have a little sister of '88 who has a very poisonous mouth. You want to say that she is not sensible, she is really not, sometimes she is willing to do things with her, and her heart is actually good, I guess she uses complaining as a way to make friends. However, if you look at the girls with poisonous mouths around you, you have more or less physical defects, and I don't know if it's a psychological defense.
-
Speaking is poisonous and sometimes it hurts people's hearts, but some people are born with poisonous tongues, maybe they are just knife-mouthed tofu hearts.
-
I chose to silence them, because I was stupid and couldn't talk to them, and when they were angry, I was silent and let him perform there by himself.
-
If you don't go back and pay attention to him, arguing with this kind of person will lower your IQ.
When talking to the other person, look at the other person's mouth, this is one of the etiquette, not psychology. The reason for this is that looking directly into the other person's eyes when talking can make people uncomfortable and look unfocused when looking at their noses. Look at the mouth to be both attentive and polite. >>>More
Pisces people tend to speak prickly when they are in a bad mood.
Then you have to see what kind of things he is talking about, I stand on the basis of believing in your vision, and say that if it is just an insignificant matter, then if he makes you angry, it means that he has not been able to grasp the balance well; If it's a big problem, then I think at least he has too much desire to conquer and change, he can't keep his promises, or rather, he can't properly foresee and make decisions before things come. You should think carefully about what the situation is. Don't get too angry, being angry won't solve the problem well.
When you say that you can force you to speak, I don't know what kind of scene you are in, but generally speaking, no one will force you to say anything, but if someone really forces you to say something, you must be calm at this time, and you can't fall into the trap of others, then if you cooperate with him to do this job, then you will definitely be very nervous, because he is forcing you to be right, urging you to say, and then you are in a hurry, and then you are afraid that you will say wrong, under the guidance of this variety of factors, you will definitely be incoherent, It is normal to stammer. >>>More
Either it's about personality or it's about insight.
If you have a character. That's hard to change. Doesn't express emotions and isn't good at talking. Or you have made you angry by saying the wrong thing before. Therefore, I don't want to say more, and it is wrong to say more. >>>More