Why is it that you can t speak when others are always forcing you to speak?

When you say that you can force you to speak, I don't know what kind of scene you are in, but generally speaking, no one will force you to say anything, but if someone really forces you to say something, you must be calm at this time, and you can't fall into the trap of others, then if you cooperate with him to do this job, then you will definitely be very nervous, because he is forcing you to be right, urging you to say, and then you are in a hurry, and then you are afraid that you will say wrong, under the guidance of this variety of factors, you will definitely be incoherent, It is normal to stammer.

Caused by people's psychological stress! It's best to adjust your psychology to stabilize before speaking, otherwise the more you talk, the more anxious you are, and the more anxious you are, the more incoherent you are! Even if you calm down a little and then speak, it will be much more relieved.

Don't call out any hormones.

Pull, hormone pull, adrenaline.

And so on. That's the technical term, we don't learn that, we can't say it.

But in the vernacular: hot-headed.

1. People, always try to accept something, even if I am sad, even if I have bitterness in my heart and can't say it. However, I would rather cry wantonly in the middle of the night than show the slightest shame in front of others. Actually, I'm also sad, but pride doesn't let me say it.

I believe that what doesn't defeat me will eventually make me stronger.

2, in fact, a man also has bitterness in his heart, but he just doesn't say it easily, he also needs women's love and care ......

3, a mess, what else can I say, everything is restless, all day long worried about the failure to implement a thing, I can't say the bitterness in my heart, I can't vent it, until I collapse

There are unspeakable words, sentences and ** in my heart.

4. I can't say the bitterness in my heart, and I have no one to talk to! It's either busy, it's weird! Or be looked down upon!

5. I can't say the bitterness in my heart, and no one understands the grievances. The invisible pressure is really big, like a thousand pounds of stones pressing on my heart, and it is difficult to breathe. It's crazy.

6. Although I laugh every day, it doesn't mean that I'm happy, but I just disguise my insistence on the outside and hide the fragile ...... in my heartOnly I know the suffering in my heart, but no one really understands myself, and I can't say what I suffer.

7. Although I understand how painful my heart is, I never want to tell the secret hidden in my heart!

8, there are no words to describe my inner feelings, I am so aggrieved in my heart, I am like a dumb person who eats Coptis chinensis and can't say it, and there is a feeling of eating a fly, it is disgusting, forget it, I will die if I am unhappy.

9, I really have bitterness in my heart that I can't say. I really love you so much. But God always jokes.

I don't have the ability. There's a lot I want to say. But I don't want to talk about it all of a sudden.

It's useless to talk too much. I don't have any friends to talk to. I can't tell my family yet, who can understand me.

My heart can only accept it slowly. I just want to say, I love you. Goodbye, that man.

10, I'm very sad today, really sad, I have a lot of things to talk about, I can't say my bitterness, I feel panicked, what did I do wrong, why do I do this, can't I comfort and comfort me when I am wronged?

There are unspeakable words, sentences and ** in my heart.

11, my heart is very unpleasant, I can't say what I have to say, and another person who is wronged hides and tears silently, and I will learn a lesson in the future, what is there to be wronged.

12, too much bitterness is suppressed in the heart to be told, and no one will understand it, and sometimes a song sings the bitterness in people's hearts.

13. I have too many things to say in my heart, but I don't know how to say them with one mouth. The world is like this, people are like this, everyone has suffering, and the most bitter thing is that they can't say it.

Because people have this kind of rebellious mentality, that is, the more others force you to do something, the less you like to do anything, which is very normal.

Most of the reasons for this are because I am too nervous, and I am not prepared for it, and the more nervous I become. The more speechless he became.

I wanted to embrace the memory, but it turned into a bird and flew away between its arms. People always pursue their dreams under the sun, but they reminisce about the past in the dim light.

I think it was probably because I was nervous when I was forced to do so, so I couldn't speak. Actually, don't force people to talk. Take it easy.

Most people have this situation, the more anxious they are, the more they can't say it, because they haven't thought about how to say it

It may be a reason for my own mentality, because sometimes I don't want to talk about a certain problem, so there will be such a situation at this time.

Because others are forcing themselves to speak, there will be a feeling in my heart, that is, the more you ask me to speak, the more I don't want to say, so I will be very strong and will do things against the other party.

Because when others push you, you will be stressed, too nervous, and you don't know what to say.

There are always some people who are not very good at some things, it has something to do with personality, but it should be something that can be changed. For example, some people who are very good at speaking, if you ask them to play on the spot at any time, they can also speak. If you encounter this situation often, you can improve it with training.

Because when others force themselves to speak, they can't speak, mainly because they haven't thought it through and are not ready to say what they want to say, so the more he pushes himself, the more he can't speak.

When others are always forcing you to speak, the more you can't speak, this is because you have to speak according to your heart's will, and you can't be forced to say it by gun.

It may be that I don't want to say this issue, and I don't want to say it, so I can't say it at this time, but if it doesn't affect me at all, I may be able to say it.

It feels like you need to be a little bit more assertive, and you feel like you have to be yourself.

That is, when you were talking at that time, you couldn't think of what words you were going to say, and you couldn't poke at the pain points of others, maybe you still have to practice this by yourself, just practice more.

This is the problem of mood, our psychological quality is often relatively weak. The more you push, the more panicked, the more panicked, the more you don't understand.

Because you may not have exercised your eloquence, and your logical thinking ability is not very good, so you should consciously exercise your ability in this area.

Talking is to say what you want to say, and no matter how others force you when you don't want to speak, you won't say it.

This is the case for people, and you can't speak when you speak, and you remember everything afterwards when you stop down.

It may be that you are in a hurry, so your brain is disordered, so you can't say serious things.

Because when others are always forcing you to speak, you will become more and more nervous in your own heart, so you will be speechless.

Because when others always force you to speak, it means that you are reluctant, so the more you can't speak.

Because Lao Tzu is more nervous than when you speak, you can't get out.

Why does the old man always force you to speak, the more you speak, the more you can't speak? Probably because of the wordlessness.

Is it because of nervousness? What about this......I don't know if it's because the things that happened when I was a child left a deep impression on you, so I feel a little less confident??

If it's the reason analyzed above, I think what you need to do is: get out of the shadows + build confidence.

As for how to do these two points......

If you get rid of the shadows, because I haven't experienced this period of your life, maybe standing and talking doesn't hurt my back, I personally think that since it's a thing of the past, you should clearly tell yourself that these are all in the past, and the current and current you are no longer the child you once were, so don't worry about you going to ** again in the days to come. Don't worry, because the trigger of ** may just be because you are "too worried", so every time you feel that you can't speak, stop yourself from being afraid to speak or dare not speak, whether it is useful or not, insist on saying to yourself every time, don't be afraid.

Then build the words of faith ......Well, first of all, think about what your life goals are. Establish your goal, and stick to it, and you'll know that whatever you're doing is for what you believe in, right and right (of course, make sure you don't break the law within the principles – so what you say, it's fine.) Don't be afraid to say something wrong, it's okay to be wrong, don't care about other people's eyes.

It really doesn't matter what others think of you, in general, other people's impression of you is the same as the impression you set for yourself, so if you care about what others think, follow your own thoughts, preset an impression for yourself, and follow it.

Having said this, it is also a momentary idea, and it may be very incomplete, but I hope it can give you a little inspiration, so that you can find your own solution to this problem as soon as possible.

Men and women, first of all, you can't say it, because I'm embarrassed, I used to be like this, and now I'm doing sales, if I don't say no, I have to practice, and there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

This one is self-medicating! What caused you to not be able to speak when you were a child! I'm still afraid of saying the wrong thing! Everyone's experience is different! So first know why you stutter!

There's a movie called The King's Speech? I recommend you to take a look, that is, to talk about speech barriers.