What does a woman who is free in her relationship mean?

I think it's still a natural temperament, but I later found out that it is actually a cognitive difference, and most of the women who are "free" in love have these two qualities.

1. Never "draw the ground as a prison".

After experiencing a lot of things, I slowly understood that whether it is life or love, there are actually infinite possibilities, but it is our own "drawing the ground as a prison" that we are entangled in the past that cannot be looked back.

I used to like the sentence written by Bai Juyi in "Song of Long Hatred": "The days are long and sometimes endless, and this hatred is endless." Because I always think that love should be "a couple for a lifetime", I should not look back if I identify it, I should have a lonely fearlessness, I should insist on it, and I should wait for it, so that it can be regarded as a beautiful relationship.

But in fact, these so-called "oaths", the so-called "waiting", and the so-called "eternity" are actually nothing more than self-deception and "drawing the ground as a prison". You don't want to admit that love is flowing, people will become, and in the end you will only be disappointed and hurt in love.

Therefore, those women who "let go freely" are not without sincerity, nor are they not sad. They just understand that love is also a kind of interpersonal relationship, and there are intimacy, changes, formation and end in relationships, and love is no exception, and they are no exception.

Such a woman is easy to keep her sanity in the face of love. They have no "trust mentality" from the beginning, and they will not regard love as the salvation of the drowning person, nor will they regard love as a life-saving carbon fire in winter. 2. Be the master of your own life.

Many women have too high expectations in love, so they use too much force, and finally become the "emotional slave" of themselves and others, and lose their identity as "masters of life".

But love is a kind of interpersonal relationship, and it is an intimate relationship, it is inevitable to communicate with the lover, naturally there will be contradictions, there will be emotional confrontation, how to make your own decisions in such an interpersonal relationship?

It shows that he has high emotional intelligence, can be a person, and can control his emotions and is not easily influenced by others.

It shows that this woman is very rational and does not treat feelings with sincerity, if she really values feelings, it is impossible to be able to afford to let go.

In fact, this behavior of a woman means that this woman is a particularly bold person, and at the same time, this woman is also a very dedicated person to feelings, which means that this woman is a very good person, if you meet it, you must cherish it.

It shows that she actually lives very transparently and understands everything, even if she loves you very much, but she also has this rationality.

Such a situation shows that this woman is not ordinary!

The free release of emotions describes the control of emotions, whether it is restrained or unrestrained, it is natural and appropriate, not rigid and pretentious.

How to be a free-flowing person:

1. Life is to learn to accept certain unacceptable tribulations, so that it eventually becomes something meaningful to us. If we keep running away, it will only ruin us. Once we can face it, the opportunity for change will come to us.

Tribulation is a fire that many people are bound to go through, and you will either be smelted into gold or reduced to ashes. When you have no way back, you have no choice.

2. Living in the present does not mean abandoning the past, nor does it mean ignoring the future, but it should be remembered that today is truly in our hands. When we have the present moment, it is possible to revise the past and create the future. Therefore, don't worry about the past, don't worry about the future, and do the most sensible thing in the present.

3. When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no friends. If we can't tolerate the shortcomings of others everywhere, then everyone will become a "bad person" and we will not be able to live in peace. Looking at the world from the perspective of "evil", the world is broken everywhere; Looking at the world from the perspective of "goodness", there is always something lovely about the world.

If you look at the strengths of others, the more you will look at them, the more cute they will become.

4. When you forget your past, are satisfied with your present, and ignore your future, you are standing at the highest point of life. When success doesn't make you too happy, failure doesn't make you feel good, and blandness doesn't overwhelm you, you're standing at the top of your life.

When you think of the past with a smiling heart, look forward with a heart of hope, look down with a generous heart, and look up with a calm heart, you are standing at the highest point of the soul.

In this case, the woman should not pour all her feelings into the relationship, so she will be free. It is estimated that she should be afraid that she will devote herself wholeheartedly, and if she is hurt, she can't accept it.

It feels like a woman is still afraid of getting hurt like this. may have had it before, but there are still concerns in my heart, so I will have reservations and be able to let go freely.

Hello friend, women who can be free in their relationships are generally ama and well-informed.

Such a woman is not suitable to be a wife.

It shows that he is familiar with the way, well-informed, very sophisticated, and has cultivated to a very high level.

It shows that she is too mature and does not have feelings for you.

What they do right is let go, they let go, so that someone else can start a new life.

Respect, understanding, and knowing how to control your emotions. Only in this way can we communicate better and retract freely.

In fact, they should all have their own ideas, and they are also very assertive.

No one's feelings can be retracted freely, no matter how good the psychological quality is, it is just that after being hit, there is a quick vent and can recover in a short time, but no one can retract and release freely. You have to ask how to recover I know a few and can tell you.

Very little, because feelings can rarely be controlled by themselves.