In the world of feelings, what way can you get the person you want?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you should work hard to improve yourself, only by making yourself more perfect and better, the people you like will notice you and like you, no one doesn't like excellent people.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to get someone you like in a relationship, the most important thing is to use your heart, communicate with your heart, perceive, believe that time will be moved by your loyalty, and finally have someone you like.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Accompany, accompany the people you like, after all, companionship is the most affectionate confession, and companionship is the best way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Good for her. It is generally difficult for people to say no to someone who is kind to them, and as long as you are good enough for her, she may agree to be with you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

    Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

    At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

    When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

    If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

    The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

    It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, but in the process of pursuing love, different people pursue love in different ways. ......There is a kind of human emotional outlook, that is, whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love. ...Such an emotional outlook has many drawbacks and often fails to achieve a truly satisfactory outcome.

    The reason why I say this is because this emotional outlook is inconsistent with the need for love to be happy, it is easy to get lost in love with this emotional outlook, and the love under the guidance of my own emotional outlook cannot find the love that really belongs to me.

    1, Whoever loves me, I will love whoever is not consistent with the emotional concept that love needs to be pleasing to each other.

    Love needs and two feelings are happy, it is the relationship between two people who appreciate and admire each other. Only by reaching such a state can true love be attained between two people. ......Whoever loves me, I love whoever one-sidedly pursues how the other party treats themselves, and ignores their own subjective and friendly feelings, so that the love of the two loves becomes a one-sided pursuit, and such a love cannot be happy.

    2. Fall in love in the way that "whoever loves me, I love whomever I love", and it is easy to get lost.

    The ultimate goal of love is to find the most suitable person for you, live hand in hand with him, and spend your life together. ......However, if you fall in love in a way that "whoever loves me, I will love you", once someone shows their love and pursuit for themselves, they will rashly agree, but do not seriously consider whether the other person is suitable for them, such a relationship will not achieve a satisfactory result, so it is not advisable.

    3. Love under the guidance of this emotional outlook cannot find the love that truly belongs to you.

    According to the above analysis, the real way to get a perfect love is for two people to love each other and pursue love with their own practical actions. ......Whoever loves me I love who is too one-sided, I can't find a love that suits me, if you fall in love with such an emotional view, the result can only be to let yourself fall into an emotional predicament, not only can not find happiness, but will have infinite troubles. Therefore, this view of emotions is not desirable.

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