Will a girl ruin your own life after giving birth?

I gave birth to a baby at the age of 27, 31 this year, and there are two months left, my son is four years old, in fact, it is considered early childbearing, many people are saying not to have children casually, as if not having a baby has become a cool thing, it is true that having a baby needs to be cautious, but I want to say today to those who have married and had a baby, if you feel that the life with a baby makes you fall into endless internal friction, see the single little sister around you is still free, you must not feel that your life is like this from now on, as long as you continue to enrich yourself, You can still live a wonderful life.

First, after I gave birth to a baby, I still went abroad to study for graduate school, or started my own business, insisted on a self-disciplined life, you became beautiful and excellent, your husband and children will be proud of you, and your in-laws will not look down on you, otherwise you will blindly depend on others, no matter how much you pay, you will not get real respect, giving birth to a baby will not let your life freeze from now on, put down your face, study and work hard, whether it is full-time or sideline, you must be financially independent, only if you are independent, you can get the right to speak, Don't regret those who have already been born, after all, it is a very happy thing to have one more person in the world that you can love forever.

Second, if you do a good job of positioning. After giving birth, women have to constantly invest time in raising children, which is indeed very stressful. In the face of this situation, we should seriously think about our own strengths, connect with the actual society, do a good job of personal positioning, and determine the future career direction.

Authoritative survey results show that people who have a clear career orientation have a success rate of more than 60% higher than those who do not have a position. Plan well. After doing a good job of career positioning, you should plan for self-improvement accordingly.

This requires the upgrading of women's skills in accordance with the job requirements of the occupation.

Third, after the age of 35, the feeling of aging will come faster than imagined, and the arrival of children will open up a new world in life. Everything in this world is a new beginning. All the mistakes you have made in this life will be compensated for in this new life.

If there is a regret medicine in life, then this medicine is your child.

Yes! It would be better to have enough confidence before giving birth, otherwise you are still not in a hurry to have a child, and the physical and mental pressure is great and painful! No matter how much you try to take care of yourself and your children, you can't do it! There is only so much time for comparison! There is no way to stagger the peak supply.

Yes, because for girls after giving birth to babies, their figures are seriously out of shape, and it will lead to special personal inferiority, and they will also lose the so-called self-confidence, thus lacking the corresponding earning power.

It's not like this, in fact, it's a good start, and it can give yourself a new life.

No, after giving birth to a child, girls will feel that being a mother is very happy, even if they are very tired, but they will be very happy when they see a child.

I won't regret giving birth to a child, because the child is my own blood after all, and I will be very happy to see the child's smiling face. Of course, women like to live before having children, because it is more relaxed. After having a baby, there is basically no freedom.

Basically, I revolve around my children every day, and I am very tired.

Children are basically in every family, and many regrets after giving birth are because they have become ugly, life is more tired, and their husbands are not considerate of themselves. But all regrets will come to naught when you see a child, and a child is the medicine for all this.

1. Children are the cutest angels in the world

When a woman becomes pregnant after marriage, she thinks about what her child should look like, whether it is a boy or a girl. Is it quiet or mischievous? You can fantasize about your children with the best imagination.

When a child is born, we feel that all the suffering we have suffered because of pregnancy is worth it. At that moment, any stretch marks, obesity, and spots will be forgotten by us.

We would watch him grow up day by day, start to call his mother, start to walk, then go to kindergarten, go to elementary school, and get taller day by day. Everyone is bitter and sweet at this time. Although it can be tiring to take care of children, we are also very happy, and the happiness that children bring us cannot be replaced by anyone.

Second, women want to go back to the pre-marriage period

Before marriage, a woman only lives for herself, and is only responsible for doing her job well every day, dressing herself up beautifully, and she wants to go**is**. You can have a lot of time to satisfy your hobbies, and you don't have to worry about whether the money is enough for your children every month, as long as you take care of yourself. Life is carefree, and there are no worries at all.

After marriage and before marriage are simply worlds apart, especially after having children, what a woman has to do is multiplied, and she has to be disgusted by her husband for being ugly and deformed. Every day when I open my eyes, I have a family and children, and I have no life of my own at all, and I will be blamed if I don't do it well, so no one will like life after marriage.

Personally, I feel that a woman who has given birth to a child will not regret it, because her own child can also add atmosphere to the family, and people like life after giving birth.

Occasionally, I still regret it, because after giving birth, my body will be deformed, and I have to take care of both the child and the family, so I still prefer the life before giving birth.

If a woman does not have children in her life, it will not have any effect. On the contrary, there are certain benefits, such as looking younger. Women who give birth will change the hormone levels in the body, such as progesterone levels, which will increase the female glow.

If you don't want to have children, don't care what other people think. Everyone lives differently, and the most important thing is to love yourself and your parents. Many women are afraid that their body will be out of shape after giving birth, and they are afraid that the book will affect their physical health, and even become a resentful woman.

Not getting married, not having children, these are all options on your path in life. You can choose or not, before making a choice, you have to understand what is the purpose of your marriage and having children?

If you want to change your destiny and solve the problems of life by getting married and having children, I am afraid that you will regret it if you get married because of these choices. Because getting married and having children may have more troubles, and it is not even as good as being single.

If you don't meet someone you really love, you get married and have children in a hurry, and you will most likely regret it. Although it is troublesome to bring children, the fun that children bring you cannot be expressed. When I am old, there are no children by my side, and how desolate the old man is.

It's to go to a nursing home, and someone treats you badly and abuses you, and no one cares. Effort pays off.