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Introduction: Fathers must spend more time with their children, if the children lack the father's company, the children will not feel safe. No matter how busy the father is, he must communicate with the child in a timely manner, so that the child understands that he has always been with the child.
Today, I will tell you what a girl who has lacked father's love since she was a child will become when she grows up.
If a girl often lacks father's love when she is young, the child will not have a sense of security, and will not dare to move forward no matter what kind of things she faces when she grows up. Fathers must properly accompany their daughters, so that their daughters have enough sense of security, in order to give their daughters a positive role model, if a girl is young without the company of her father, the child will feel very inferior, there is no way to accept others. The father has a very big influence on a child, if you want the child to become very good, the father must walk in front of the child, usually must spend more time with the child, you can take the child out to travel on the weekend, consider the child's ideas, the child has a better development.
Fathers should not think that they can not participate in the education of their children, if the children do not have the company of their fathers, when the children choose objects when they grow up, the children will be very confused, do not know what kind of object they should choose, and without a clear goal, the children will be very painful.
If a father wants to accompany his children well, he must first communicate patiently with his children and understand his children's psychological thoughts, so that his children can receive a good education. The position of the father is not replaced, and if the father wants to make the child better, he must first follow the child's heart and understand the child's thoughts, so that the child can receive a good education. When the father is young, he must give his children enough sense of security, so that the children can develop better and the children will work hard in the direction expected by their parents.
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When you grow up, you have low self-esteem, your heart is very fragile, and you are not particularly clear about the relationship between the opposite sex, so you can easily be deceived, which will affect your child's concept of mate selection in the future.
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When you grow up, you will be very lacking in love. The other party is very good to this girl, and this girl will devote herself to this relationship, and she is especially easy to be deceived. When falling in love, I will also find some older members of the opposite sex.
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When you grow up, you will become very inferior, because girls who lack father's love since childhood will also become submissive when they grow up.
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1. Low self-esteem, longing for attention and fear of attention. 2. Afraid of rejection, once rejected, he will not ask for it, and his heart is fragile and cannot bear rejection. 3. Low sense of security, excessive self-protection, glassy, sensitive, and alienated as soon as they are hurt.
4. I don't believe that others can take care of me, and I resist intimacy (I feel that my father doesn't take care of himself, let alone others). 5. Be reckless in everything and refuse help from others (some children will think that they can't get their father's love because they are not smart, so they have to work hard to show themselves to attract attention). 6. Complaining about the heavens, feeling that the heavens are unfair at the slightest thing.
7. Have a tendency to love fathers and want to be taken care of; If you don't get the right care, you can only become self-reliant. Pretending to be sensible, considerate, and knowledgeable, in fact, they are more selfish at heart (some children pay for others in order to be recognized). Narcissistic, feeling that a person is also doing well.
In fact, self-control is very poor.
People who lack fatherly love should pay attention to avoid over-dependence, the other person is your lover, not your parents, and is not obliged to take on everything you have. NLP master Li Zhongying said: Loving someone does not mean asking him to love you, controlling his thoughts, and asking him to take care of your happiness in life.
Loving someone only gives you the right to do something for them, and even then, it's up to him or her to decide whether or not to accept it.
In addition, after adjusting the mentality, it is equally important that the skills of getting along with the sexes, equality, respect, understanding, etc., require you to use wisdom to experience the source and get along with each other. It is recommended that you read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", which will make you understand the difference in the way men and women think, which will be of great benefit to getting along.
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What is the past of people, we can't decide, but how the future is we can work hard, because everyone wants to have a happy family, but the pain of the original family can not be changed when the child is young, she can only decide herself, she can control herself to come to the world where you are and even the interpersonal circle is quite difficult. She may have put in more and more effort for this, cherish it, this kind of girl is not easy.
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Girls who lack father's love since childhood will have a very strong personality, and they will become strong women, because the grinding of life will make them stronger, and they will become a strong person from now on, and they will know how to work hard to improve themselves in life, so girls who lack father's love since childhood will be very strong.
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They will be extremely insecure and have a hard time trusting others. It will make you feel inferior, have no assertiveness when you encounter things, have no ideas of your own, and sometimes you will not be able to make decisions. When girls grow up, they will not be very gregarious and less willing to communicate with others.
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Like I have no father's love since I was a child, the most important thing I lack is a sense of security, and I feel that there is no backbone in the family.
I am very inferior in everything I do, I have no opinions, I may lack half of my love, I will have a sense of lack in my heart, and I always think that I am lower than others.
When I grow up, it actually has a great impact on my psychology, and my personality is very withdrawn.
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Not as big an impact, not as big as others think. What really distorts girls is the kind of family where the mother is strong. If you feel sorry for you, why don't you hate him, even if it's Dad.
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The lack of fatherly love from an early age can make girls vulnerable and insecure. It will make the girl's heart feel a little fragile. looks strong on the surface, but he does have a lot of grievances in his heart, but he endured it himself, and he also needs to be loved. Distressed.
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I think most children who lack fatherly love are insecure. If you want to say that the influence may be timidity and low self-esteem. Parents don't do their responsibilities well.
In the end, letting the child pay for them may also affect the child's life. Originally, a child's childhood should have been a happy childhood.
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Too strong, low self-esteem and insecure. It is not good for yourself and the future, and it is not good for getting along with the other half.
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Since she was a child, she didn't have a father's love, and her love would be missing a part, I know several people, they don't have fathers anymore, and then they get married very early, maybe it's to find a love on the opposite sex. Others may be insecure about men and don't trust men.
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It doesn't matter, because even without them you can live well, hehe, there are more of them, no less of them, it doesn't matter, the bigger the yearbook, the more you should see it,
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For some girls, the lack of fatherly love from an early age will make the girl stronger and better.
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Insecure, extremely sensitive and inferior, low emotional intelligence, poor interpersonal skills, timid and cowardly. Life is a failure.
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Don't use the lack of father's love as an excuse, in fact, those who have fathers are not very good, there are too few people with sound personality, but those with sound personality will definitely get better and better.
Be kind, but measured.
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Interpersonal communication is difficult, either too enthusiastic or too cold, very tangled and ungenerous, or very angry to the point of cowardice, anyway, it is impossible to properly handle the proper distance between people. And then subconsciously, it's like looking for a father in all relationships, which you don't realize, I used to look at each other and look at each other, and I felt that the other party and my father were more and more alike.
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It's very easy to rely on, and I'm especially afraid of others leaving.
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In the vernacular, other men can hold her in their arms with a piece of candy.
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An unsound family, especially a family that lacks maternal love, can have a profound impact on the child's heart. In adulthood, they tend to be lonely, sentimental, and sensitive to anything. Since you have a clear understanding of yourself, you must overcome it, participate in more group activities, socialize more with others, and avoid forming a lonely and rebellious character.
There is no substitute for the role of maternal love in the improvement of a child's character. In childhood, people who do not receive sufficient maternal love will have more or less flaws in their personality when they become adults, such as: stubbornness, selfishness and introversion, pessimism and disappointment, hostility towards others, narrow-mindedness, easy to be jealous, short-tempered, and so on.
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What will a girl who has lacked warmth and love look like when she grows up? This is a question of opinion, and it is also a matter of course.
It stands to reason that girls lack warmth and care since childhood, suffer from the heat and coldness of the world, see through the sophistication of human feelings, and when they grow up, they should be lonely, indifferent and sophisticated, refuse to join the WTO, have an extreme temperament, and are difficult to get along with.
But this should not be absolute. At the beginning of man, nature is good. If a girl is kind-hearted, although she lacks warmth and love when she is young, she will be autistic and rebellious when she grows up, but as long as someone breaks into her heart and melts the ice embankment, she will give back exponentially.
If a girl has a strong temperament, it is necessary to rebel when she grows up, regardless of right and wrong, there is no reason, everything is self-centered, as if the whole world owes her. Of course, there are also those who grow up, are submissive to others, cowering into being people, and dare not look at people squarely.
And so on, the key is how much tolerance the environment in which the girl lives and lives gives her, more girls have normal personality formation, and less personality is easy to be extreme.
Also, why do you only talk about girls? It's the same with boys.
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Girls who lack maternal love have a bad temper when they grow up, but they have a strong independent life.
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Children who have lacked maternal love since childhood will grow up to yearn for this compensation of maternal love, but in another way, this way is reflected in the thirst for love, reflected in the love of everyone.
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