Cao Cao s daughter of her teacher, how bumpy is Cai Wenji s marriage in her life?

Although Cai Wenji is a talented woman, she has experienced three marriages in her life, and she has married three husbands in her life。Although she was very talented, the fate of women in ancient times was arranged by men, and her three marriages were actually not chosen by herself, so the first two marriages did not end very well, and in the third marriage, it was also because of Cai Wenji's true feelings that her husband was moved. <>

Cai Wenji is the daughter of Cai Yong, a great writer in the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Cao Cao is also related to a certain extent, Cai Wenji was married to Wei Zhongdao by her father at the beginning, the two were very happy at the beginning, and the feelings between each other were very sincere, but the good times did not last Wei Zhongdao died early because of physical reasons, and the two did not conceive children, after Wei Zhongdao's death, Cai Wenji returned home, but was soon plundered to the Xiongnu region. <>

After Cai Wenji was exiled to the Xiongnu region because of the war, she married the Huns and gave birth to two children, and after Cao Cao unified the north, Cai Wenji ransomed Cai Wenji with a lot of money because of Cai Yong's kindness to him, and remarried her to Dong Xi。But Dong Ci didn't like Cai Wenji, but because it was ordered by Cao Cao and had to marry, the two had no relationship at first, after Dong Ci committed the crime, Cao Cao was ready to kill Dong Ci, Cai Wenji risked her life to beg Cao Cao, and Cao Cao decided to let Dong Ci go. <>

After letting go of Dong Ci, Dong Ci also knew Cai Wenji's friendship for him, and the two went to the mountains and forests to live their lives together, Cai Wenji, as a woman, was difficult to decide her fate in the society at that time。The pain in Cai Wenji's heart after three marriages can only be experienced by herself, the pain of losing her lover, the pain of losing her child, the grief of being far away from her homeland, Cai Wenji has endured too many hardships that ordinary people can't bear in her life, and the fate and talent of her life are what modern people sigh and sigh, but fortunately, Cai Wenji has a good home in the final marriage.

She has always helped others, always trying to let others find a good one and make do with it herself, but she was unsatisfactory several times, and in the end she was divorced.

Cai Wenji first married Wei Zhongdao, and the two fell in love with each other after marriage, but less than a year after marriage, Wei Zhongdao died of illness. Later, he married Dong Yan, but Dong Yan was sentenced to death for committing a crime. Later, because Cai Wenji interceded with Cao Cao, he was spared death.

At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cai Wenji was exiled because of the war, and was married back to the account by the Huns Zuoxian Wang, and gave birth to several children for Zuoxian Wang, and was later ransomed by Cao Cao with a lot of money, and she was married to a ** at that time.

Cai Wenji and Cao Cao should have no emotional entanglements. Cao Cao is a person who cherishes talents and values love and righteousness.

Cai Wenji (c. 177 ?) Mingyan (pronounced yǎn), the character Zhaoji, Han nationality, was born in Chenliu (now Kaifeng Qi County, Henan) in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, the daughter of Cai Yong, a great writer of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and a famous talented woman and writer in Chinese history. Cai Wenji's word Zhaoji, in order to avoid Sima Zhao's obscurity, changed to Wenji.

Cai Wenji's father, Cai Yong, was a well-known writer and calligrapher at that time, and was also proficient in astronomy and mathematics, and was Cao Cao's best friend and teacher.

It's a pity that at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was social turmoil, Cai Wenji was exiled to the Southern Xiongnu, married to the Xiongnu Zuoxian King, who was a tiger-backed bear, and suffered the pain of a foreign life in a foreign land, but gave birth to children. Twelve years later, Cao Cao unified the north, thinking of his mentor Cai Yong's teachings to him, and ransomed Cai Wenji with a lot of money. After Wen Ji returned to the Han Dynasty, she married Dong Ci and left behind the touching "Eighteen Beats of Hu Ji" and "Poems of Grief and Indignation".

Poems of Grief and Indignation is the first autobiographical five-character narrative poem in the history of Chinese poetry.

Cai Wenji's life is miserable, "returning to her homeland" and "mother-son reunion" are both beautiful and should be enjoyed by everyone, but she can't have both.

Cai Wenji is indeed very talented. In a casual conversation, Cao Cao expressed his envy of Cai Wenji's original collection of books. When Cai Wenji told him that the 4,000 books in his original home had been lost after several wars, Cao Cao expressed deep disappointment, and when he heard that Cai Wenji could still recite 400 articles, he was overjoyed, so Cai Wenji silently wrote 400 articles from memory, and the text was not mistaken, which shows Cai Wenji's high talent.

Cao Cao took Cai Wenji back and did a good thing in preserving ancient culture. In history, "Wen Ji returns to Han" has been passed down as a beautiful talk.

No, although Cai was a famous talented woman in the Han Dynasty before marriage, she did not have much intersection with Cao, and after she got married, she met Cai was nearly forty years old, and was taken captive by the Huns on the grassland for 20 years.

Although Cao Cao is lustful, he probably has no interest in such Cai, and only respects his talents. Therefore, after Cai returned to the Han Dynasty, her husband broke the law and deserved to die, and Cao Cao begged for his release because of Cai's begging.

Then who knows, in the era of the Three Kingdoms, they were not even born, and the versions recorded by historical historians are not the same, and who knows whether it is true or false unless you see it with your own eyes.

There is such a secret history in history. I don't know if it's true.

I saw that many people think that there should be love between Cao Cao and Cai Yan (Wen Ji), and the title of the article on the Internet is not universally related, and there are even TV series to describe their love. But to say that Cao Cao has a vain love for Cai Wenji is unreasonable.

In terms of age, Cao Cao was born in 155 and Cai Wenji was born in 177, the difference between the two is 22 years, and the age gap may not be a problem. A.D. 18 is four years old, and Wen Ji is seven years old. In the same year, Cao Cao returned to Chenliujun (Wen Ji is also a native of Chen Liuyu) to recruit Xiangyong, Wen Ji was only twelve years old, this point in time was the time when Cao Cao was most likely to know Cai Wenji, and then Cao Cao was busy crusading against Dong Zhuo.

Cai Yong died (192 AD) Wen Ji was only five years old with ten moves, until the second year of Xingping in the Eastern Han Dynasty (195 AD) Wen Ji was taken captive to the Xiongnu at the age of eighteen, during which Cao Cao crusaded against the Yellow Turban thieves in Yanzhou. I really can't find a point in time when Cao Cao can fall in love with Cai Wenji, either Wen Ji is too young, or the two are not in the same place during the turmoil, not to mention that Wen Ji has a short marriage during this period. The only thing that is likely to make Cao Cao have an impression of Cai Wenji is very likely to visit Cai Yong in Cai's Mansion when he was young, and he knew that there was a bright little girl in Cai's Mansion, which is unlikely to be in love with Wenji and Cao Cao's age.

Fan Ye's "Book of the Later Han Dynasty, Biography of the Daughters of the Lie, Cai Yan" said: Cao Cao Su and Yong Shan, bitter that they had no heirs, sent a messenger to redeem him with gold, and remarried Dong Xi. In fact, judging from the fact that Wen Ji has a nephew, Wen Ji is not an only daughter.

And with Cao Cao's power and Cao Cao's record of taking concubines, it is extremely unreasonable to spend so many resources to take back an old lover or object of affection, and then not accept him as a concubine, but to marry a petty official who is not unknown. On the other hand, if Cao Cao thought that when he was young, he went to visit the Cai Mansion and met the smart little sister, and now he has fallen into slavery of the Xiongnu, it is more reasonable to redeem him because of his fellow disciples or his talents. Cao Cao not only spared no expense to redeem Wen Ji, but also found a husband for her who was relatively plain and stable and a fellow villager, and even used administrative orders to threaten Wen Ji with (Dong Ci's) life, and gave Wen Ji a favor in front of all the ministers and celebrities, just to let Dong Ci inherit Wen Ji's grace (if you don't admit it, there will be another capital crime!). , treat Wen Ji well. This is not like a way to take care of an old lover, but more like taking care of his own sister, hoping that she can live a stable and happy life in the future.

Therefore, I think that Cao Cao ransomed Cai Wenji, but arranged for Wen Ji to marry someone else, because of Cao Cao's love for Wen Ji, which is a bit ridiculous. In his contemptible opinion, Cao Cao treats Cai Wenji and does not feel the love between men and women, but only feels the love of his brother for his younger sister.

Cao Cao and Cai Wenji met, and it is estimated that around 174 AD, the twenty-year-old Cao Cao was promoted to filial piety and entered Luoyang, Kyoto. At this time, Wen Ji's father Cai Yong was also an official in the court, first as an official in Langzhong, in Dongguan School, and then promoted to Yilang. Because Cai Yong was a great Confucian master at that time, Cao Cao, a young man of literature and art, went to Cai Yong many times to ask for advice on literature and calligraphy, and formed a New Year's friendship with Cai Yong.

1. Realistic conditions do not allow that in the repeated interactions with Cai Yong, Cao Cao has a great possibility of seeing Wen Ji's beauty. Throughout the lives of Cao Cao and Wen Ji, theoretically speaking, Cao Cao had two chances to marry Wen Ji, one was when he was young, and the other was after redeeming Wen Ji, but why didn't Cao Cao see the opportunity? On the one hand, because of the concept of gate valvesJudging from the actual conditions at the time, Cai Yong was a famous university scholar at that time, with a noble birth, although Cao Cao is said to be a descendant of Cao Shen, but his father was passed on to the eunuch, he was eunuch, and Cao Cao at that time was very likely to be married, so it was impossible for Cai Wenji, who was born to be a concubine.

Second, the purpose dictatesOn the other hand, Cai Wenji was already a certain age when she was redeemed from the Xiongnu, and Cao Cao, who was in power, had countless young and beautiful choices, and I am afraid that he would not have any plans for Cai Wenji. In addition, Cao Cao is a person with a strong purpose in doing things, redeeming Cai Wenji just shows his subordinates that he is a person who does not forget the old feelings, and his subordinates can do things for him with more peace of mind, Cai Wenji is outstanding, Cao Cao admires Cai Yong's talent, Cai Yong is dead, Cai Wenji is better than Cai Yong, Cao Cao wants Cai Wenji to record everything he has learned in his life and leave it to himself and future generations, which is more of a kind of pity.

All in all, marrying Cai Wenji is not good for Cao Cao in any way, after all, Cai Wenji is the daughter of her friend, and Cao Cao, who is bent on becoming a big thing, is still a little conscientious even if he is lustful, so he naturally will not set his eyes on Cai Wenji.

That's because he knows that Cai Wenji is a particularly stubborn person, and Cai Wenji doesn't like him, and he has no way to control it.

Cao Cao just took a fancy to Cai Wenji's talent, and had an appreciative attitude towards Cai Wenji, and later ransomed Cai Wenji with a lot of money and married her, Cao Cao respected Cai Wenji's talent very much and was very friendly to her.

Marrying Cai Wenji will do more harm than good to Cao Cao, after all, the other party is his junior sister, and if he becomes a concubine, he will definitely not be able to say it.

It's up to the individual to choose. Because the person Cao Cao likes is not Cai Wenji, he may feel that Cai Wenji is not suitable for him, there is no need to force feelings, and he must respect the choices of others.

This is because Cao Cao wants to repay his teacher's cultivation in this way, and he also wants to envelop Dong Xi in this way.

It's because Cao Cao can't control Cai Wenji at all, so he didn't take Cai Wenji, and he doesn't like Cai Wenji's character.

Although she is a talented woman, she is not a woman that Cao Cao likes, so she did not marry Cai Wenji in the end, because Cao Cao didn't like Cai Wenji at all.

Because Cai Wenji is very talented, and Cao Cao admires it very much, such a beauty can only be admired and cannot be desecrated.

No, because according to records, Cai Wenji had two husbands, Cai Wenji was robbed by the Huns to be a wife, and Cao Cao married Dong Ci after redemption.

No, Cai Wenji's father and Cao Cao were old friends, and he did not marry Cai Wenji; Some people say that it is not because they know these histories, and they are not people who only read wild histories.

Cao Cao and Cai Wenji are not husband and wife, to be precise, Cai Wenji should be Cao Cao's junior, because Cao Cao and Cai Wenji's father Cai Yong are good friends and are very good friends.