Love, what a painful realization, we are open minded friends

Why can't you be friends? It's just that you have to have a plan of your own, because he won't be your boyfriend, or you can't become a husband and wife in the future, make a plan for your life, be responsible for yourself and your friends, love is waiting for your arrival quietly in another place not far away, remember to move forward, remember not to lose yourself.

There is no end to be a friend, he is gone, and we have to find our own happiness. When we break up, let's become each other's old friends, only suitable for putting it in an old book, occasionally turning it up, occasionally being moved, that's enough, don't think about it to become a new book, it's impossible, so don't be so sad I believe that there will be happiness of my own.

This kind of person is not worth paying for him again!

Hurry up and find your new life!

Wishing you happiness!

It's actually very easy to give up as long as you want, as long as you want!

Now that you're friends, what can you talk about?

It's nothing more than him telling the story of him and his new girlfriend or confiding in you.

What can you do to help him?

You are no longer his favorite Your comfort, can your care make him happy?

There's no need to be friends, unless you're waiting to get along with him.

Be decisive, it's not good to drag on emotional matters like this.

You can never be friends with someone like your former girlfriend or former boyfriend.

Either you still have love for her, or she still has love for you, there will be no third possibility......

If you want to live a new life, just flash it......

Women are to live for themselves. To get a little more chic, you can take it up and put it down.

Give it up. If he still loves you. He will give up his girlfriend to come to you. It's not good for everyone to continue to consume like this!

Can't be friends, my ex-boyfriend too, he has to be good friends when he broke up, I introduced one of my roommates to him, and then I moved away, at first I couldn't let go of him, but now I'm doing well, they say that being friends is actually looking at our soft-heartedness, and they want to leave a way back for themselves as a last resort, why are we standby, be kind to ourselves!

I'm just like you!I can't let it go either, but forget it!!Really tired !!I ever thought it didn't matter for him!!But then it was myself who was hurt!!It hurts, you know? Leave or leave it up to your own decision!!

In some things, there is no need to put yourself too low, and what belongs to you must be actively strived for; In front of some people, you don't have to tolerate it again and again, and you can't let others trample on your bottom line. The best state of being a person is neither humble nor arrogant. Caring too much about other people's eyes and evaluations will only make you unable to do things, hesitate and lose yourself, lose your personality, and lose your self-worth.

Life is impermanent, peace of mind is the place to be. Pain without saying a word is a kind of wisdom, and laughing without saying a word is a kind of open-mindedness. Only by tasting pain can we cherish the pleasures that have been neglected; Without pain, the feast of life fades to its original flavor; Without ordinary, the picture of life will have a shallow background.

The happiness of life often depends on inner peace. In the face of helplessness, it is better to change an angle, hold a normal heart, do not hope, do not deliberately pursue, get a surprise, lose and do not care.

We often feel heartache because of this or that injury, instead of chattering to complain, it is better to calm down and think deeply, the years are like water, it is these unforgettable pain that makes us know to cherish life, cherish the people around us. In life, when you are teased or misunderstood by your friends, too many words and defenses are often in vain, at this time, it is better to leave a smile to give people more room for reverie. Pain without saying words is wisdom, and laughing without saying words is open-mindedness.

In layman's terms, Lao Tzu is injured and doesn't want to deal with anyone, he just wants to be quiet, and you don't understand it when he tells you (Lao Tzu is too lazy to say) that you don't need to care.

Pain without words, laughter without words Just two sentences encapsulate the highest state of life.

Be calm and don't make a fuss; It is a kind of wisdom to be humble, not arrogant, self-pretentious, and not to speak up.

In life, we often feel heartache because of one kind or another injury.

Russell once said that scars are the best gift that life can give you.

Instead of chattering and complaining, it is better to calm down and think deeply, and the burning pain will eventually precipitate into an experience, becoming a night elf hiding in the depths of the soul.

Instead of being angry, it is better to gently wipe away the tears from the corners of your eyes after the pain, hide the bright sadness with a bright smile, hide the undercurrent, and then re-devote yourself to the busy life.

It is these unforgettable pains that make us know to cherish life and cherish the people around us.

Laughing without saying a word is a kind of open-mindedness.

The abuse between friends, the helplessness after being misunderstood, at this time, too many words and defenses make people feel flashy, it is better to leave a smile and let others judge.

The so-called gentleman is frank and, and villains are often relatives.

Sometimes a smile can make two people with old grudges feel cold, and it can make people in a foreign country feel warmer.

The simplest action in the world perfectly interprets the most complex truth in the world.

Laughing without saying a word leaves people more space for reverie, just like the faint smile on the corner of Mona Lisa's mouth, exuding a charm, so that the world makes countless conjectures, an ordinary woman has touched countless people because of her extraordinary smile, and the world has a more mysterious beauty.

There are two realms in life: one is pain without speaking, and the other is laughter without speaking. Pain without saying a word is a kind of wisdom, life in the world, often because of this or that hurt heartache, for strong people, scars are the best gift of life; Laughing without saying is a kind of open-mindedness, whether it is misunderstood or despised by others, too many rhetorical arguments make people feel flashy, it is better to laugh at it, and the wind in front of you is naturally light.

From the previous level, people who have understood that those who have "learned" pain know that the more they roar, the more they scream, the more painful they are, and the pain is slight when they grit their teeth and endure the pain, and it will not hurt for a while. Things have something in common.

So, what is it, "patience" is a kind of wisdom and wisdom. Laughter is often the embodiment of a refreshing and happy heart, and it is best to convey feelings in a good and moderate way. As the old saying goes, "Stretch out your hand and don't hit a smile", can you explain it?

Language, on the other hand, is not good, either more or less, which can easily cause misunderstanding and misunderstanding. He might as well be silent, "Silence is golden". But silence is often understood as "old-fashioned and rigid".

At this point, it is not difficult to see that only by laughing and not saying can we properly reflect the open-minded imagination. Hence ---

Learn to be patient, the ripe rice will bend over, life is colorful, we can have more opportunities, but the injuries we have suffered, that is just a trace of growth, there is no need to let others know; When we laugh, not talking just reflects our literacy, and we are open-minded about everything. As long as people do this, they can be regarded as profound. (purely personal opinion).

There is no trace of heavy snow, and there is no elephant visible.

Song: I really love you Singing: Duan Qianhiro.

Lyrics: Late at night Looking at the lights outside the window.

I know she doesn't belong to me anymore.

My heart has no color.

The moment you turn around.

I have never regretted falling in love with you.

But before you know it, it always makes you cry.

Who else in this world but you.

It makes me forget all my tiredness.

I really love you, I really hurt you.

I really know you, don't leave me crying alone.

I really want to bury you in my pants, I really love you.

I can't live without you, don't say love is hard to collect.

Why love is destined to be heartbreaking.

But you can't face it calmly.

Why is it not as beautiful as it seems.

But it always makes people haggard.

I've been looking for you for a year away.

Find an opportunity to ask him for QQ or mobile phone number, and then see what he is good at, pretending to ask him for advice. Then to thank him, invite him to dinner, invite him to a movie, and then, watch you play freely.

Since you want to be friends with him generously, don't think too much, just talk to him generously when you meet him, and the skills of conversation will have to be mastered by yourself, and generally people who are not familiar with each other are looking for interests and commonalities with each other, and it's easy to find this, so to speak, it's so speculative to talk about, I really want to find time to talk again. After that, the thing is to eat together often, talk about **. The most important thing is to act very casually.

First of all: you can try to have some simple conversation with him, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative; And if you say that you also have a relationship at work, it's better to find a simple reason to talk to him, and ask how the work is when you talk, or ask about life, but pay attention, not too direct! In the future, every time I see him, I will say hello, pay more attention to him, is he a woman or a man?!~

Go to his house a lot, and he'll get to know you from a village

When you go to work, you are on the same road, and you are better contacted

It often appears in his eyes, and after a while, talk to him again, and it will definitely work, or, deliberately walk in front of him when you go to work, and then throw something on the ground, let him pick it up, and he will definitely call you, so it's easy to pull up

I guess he must have noticed you, but neither of the two sides spoke first, as long as you spoke first (a single puppet, you should understand), it will be easy to communicate in the future, not very familiar with the mobile phone, QQ seems to be a little troublesome, and others will have ideas hehe.

You want to make friends with him, and it's not something to be seen! Just take the initiative to say it! What's there to be embarrassed about? There is nothing wrong with some things being straightforward!

Treat him as a passerby, take the initiative to greet her, etc.

Well, open your heart knots and let go of yourself!

Ask generously if he still remembers you? Then ask for a mobile phone number.

Maybe he's worried about the same problem.

Since she wants to be friends with you and you still love her, then be friends first, both of you must have certain mood swings when you break up, and after a while, both of you calm down, and then you express your heart and say that you have always loved her very much, and I think she still loves you. I wish you all a long time!!

That's up to you.

If you are willing to stand in the position of a friend and silently support her, then continue to be friends, and maybe one day she will change her mind.

If you can't stand such a position and feel that you can't forget her if you are friends, then completely dissociate yourself from her.

To be honest, it's impossible to be pure friends after a breakup.

It is impossible for someone who has truly loved to be friends after a breakup, unless they deceive themselves. That would only make the damage more profound. Unless you are willing to pay silently.

You can't be friends after a breakup Girls feel that they are still friends after a breakup That's just to find a haven for themselves At least there are still people who can't let him go Maybe it's just a better idea But everyone is really tired when it comes to this point It's really because I understand that the hurt is deeper It's better to put the reluctance towards him in my heart.

Maybe it's to give you a buffer period, maybe there will be a chance to get back together! Be friends? Just kidding, can people who used to be in love be friends simply after breaking up?

Can you be specific? Is it a crush or is it already together but there is a conflict?

Write to her if you are introverted, you can ask her to go to the café to sit and chat, from the very beginning of your treatment of her, the smallest bit by bit, she will definitely be moved!

To love someone is to bring all the happy things to her, not to bring you the pain every time.

In our lifetime, we don't have many opportunities to be bold, so be bold.

Or, text her and write a note.

Send more, gifts, flowers, how can she not be so stupid as to understand you?

1. You love him or her

Look at how much security he or she can make you, if he (she) doesn't carry you behind your back, you will trust him, and you won't be stingy.

2. You don't love him or her

You don't love him anymore, and you still care what she's doing so much, so you can't just let it go.