How do you reply to others complimenting yourself? How to respond to compliments

How to respond with high emotional intelligence to compliments from others? No matter what others say to you, you should know how to reply. When others praise you, there are three situations, sincerely praise you, praise you, and perfunctory you.

So in the face of different compliments, we should have different responses. The main points are as follows.

The first point is to respond with acceptance.

This method is used when others really praise you, generally, it is to smile and thank you, "You have changed so much, I almost didn't recognize you, you are getting better and better". "Thank you", this method is the most versatile and safest way to reply, no matter what others praise you, you can not go wrong as long as you reply like this.

The second point is to respond with humility.

This method is suitable for those who are usually more low-key. Also, if you meet someone with ulterior motives in the workplace who specifically kills you, you can also respond with this method. Below I have prepared a universal example sentence for you, first, ****, you have won the prize.

Second, I just did my part. Third, thank you for the recognition. Fourth, such a good result is all due to the leadership.

Fifth, ** is my personal credit, which is the result of the joint efforts of our team. Sixth, hey, thank you, thank you, I'm just a little luckier this time.

The third point is to respond with rhetoric.

This method requires saying something complimentary. Universal sentence one, thank you, you can speak. Universal sentence two, thank you, plus others praise your content for rebuttal, I like it very much at home.

For example, wow, your clothes look so good, thank you, the clothes you wore today are also very good-looking, **I bought them, I like them so much.

Fourth, respond with ridicule.

This method is suitable for talking to those who are more familiar with you. Universal sentence one, I love to listen to this sentence, and I will say more in the future. Universal sentence two, your mouth is smeared with honey, so sweet.

Universal sentence three, I'm so happy, I'm not good, how can I be friends with you. Universal sentence four, hey, it's so difficult to be a saint, I still like to listen to sycophants.

Fifth, the topic has been changed to respond.

This method is to meet those friends who are not familiar with you, he is praising you, and there are some situations where he praises you, which makes you very embarrassed and does not know how to respond, at this time, you can change the topic, for example, you at the same time, in front of the whole office, say that you have performed well recently and are about to be promoted. You can say this, thank you for the compliment, you have this beautiful dress on you, **bought? Give me a link and I'll buy it too.

You see, as soon as the conversation changes, you don't have to reply to the content he just praised you, and cleverly avoid the compliment trap of others.

The above is the five ways I summarized for you to reply to other people's praise, accept modesty, rhetoric, ridicule, and change the topic, have you learned?

You've said it's been awarded, and you've won it. ****？

Get the praise and humor of others and reply as follows:1. Thank you, you still understand me, and you really deserve to be my good brother (sister).

2. Thank you, you really have a vision, and I think so too.

3. Thank you for your compliment, compared to you, I still don't have your temperament (charming)!

4. Thank you for being so handsome (beautiful) and praising me, I'm really flattered!

5. I like people like you, who talk nonsense seriously.

6. When I see good-looking people praising me, I am a little floating.

7. Low-key, it's a secret.

8. Because I was praised by cute people, I became cute in my round of rent.

9. Say, is there anything you want me to help with?

10. When I see good-looking people praising me, I am a little floating.

11. Have a vision.

12. Oh, because it's you, the best you can see the best in your eyes.

13、****！Contemptible people have a vulgar face, how can they talk about good looks? It's the elder brother who is a ** person, and La Zhaoshi makes Xiaosheng envious!

14, ****, just grow it casually!

15. Thank you for your compliment, I like your vision more than this.

16. You always make people so happy when you talk.

17. Your vision is so good, you can see my fairy essence at a glance.

18. You are such a beautiful fairy and personally come down to praise me, I am so happy.

19, I was praised by the fairy, so happy.

To reply to other people's compliments, you can try these methods:

1. Denial or self-deprecation. Such people are often afraid of appearing proud, and are unwilling to accept praise directly.

2. There are other reasons for trying to explain. This one is just afraid of being noticed and not daring to let the spotlight shine on him.

3. Immediately like each other. But the real mental activity of this response is that if someone "gives us" a compliment, we must either "pay" the same level of compliment or immediately reciprocate it.

1. You look great today.

2. Elegant manners and good personal character.

3. Quick response and enterprising.

4. I am extremely proud to have a colleague like you!

5. I really admire you for always being able to do things so satisfactorily.

6. You are my role model, and I want to call you a teacher.

7. I hope you have time to take me with me, and I want to find an opportunity to learn from you.

8. No matter how you look at you, you are so energetic.

9. You have a good personality.

10. You have such a sense of humor.

11. What's the matter, you're dressed so beautifully today?!

12. "Your vest today is so beautiful, I like the little flowers embroidered on it." ”

13. "Your earrings look good today. ”

14. Have good and extensive social relations.

15. Able to work under high pressure and time constraints.

16. You look so beautiful.

17. Very energetic! You're very steady! The sense of responsibility is so strong! I just appreciate the energy of your work! Man, it's very generous.

18. Really handsome, cool, and sturdy; You are an honest and upright man; You are a firm and credible man.

19. You have a clean and honest style, are good at listening to opinions, are honest, and have a good sense of humor, and arrange work reasonably and reasonably, do not engage in privileges, and treat us equally.

20. You have an elf mind, you don't care about mud and water, you know how to adapt to changes, you know how to unite, you love to help your colleagues, and you do things in an orderly manner.

21. Stable personality and high sense of responsibility.

22. Ability to work well in different cultural and staff contexts.

23. Proactive, strong ability to work independently, and have good communication skills.

24. Be able to work well with others.

25. Able to work independently, mature in thinking, and strong in adaptability.

26. The work is very organized and efficient.

27. Energetic and trendy in thought.

28. "The color of today's clothes, lining your ** is really white." ”

Others compliment the modesty response as follows:

1. Accept it directly and calmly

If others praise you and you don't know how to respond to them, at least you should accept and thank others for their affirmation.

At this point, you can say "Thank you for saying that", "Thank you for the compliment", or "Thank you for seeing this." At the very least, you should give someone a response, at least let others know that you have listened to his or her praise, and thank them for their appreciation.

2. Respond to each other modestly

If you are usually a more modest person and do not boast when others praise you, you can choose some humble words to respond to the other party's praise at this time, such as "****, this is your award", this response is actually quite good, and people feel that you are more humble and respectful.

3. Respond and praise the other party

If you are more eloquent, you may want to try to make some moderate praise at this time, which can be called "courtesy exchange" in the eyes of Chinese.

For example, if someone compliments you on looking good, you can reply directly with "Thank you." Actually, the shirt you wore today is also very good-looking, I like it very much."

4. Respond to each other with ridicule

If the other party is very familiar with you, and often goes to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing, and she (he) praises you for no reason, you should be vigilant to see if the other party has other "intentions".

At this time, you might as well respond directly and teasingly after the other party praises you: "Say, what do you want to help this time?" or "I won't benefit from your praise."'Yo".

5. Don't be exaggerated

When we are complimented, we will also respond politely, but we must not overdo it, if it is excessive, it will appear too pompous, it will give people a very bad feeling, and it will be better if we praise it in a different way.