What grievances have you suffered when you are alone abroad?

It's sometimes sad to sign up for a group tour alone, trying to remember to call the early time, but still make a mistake. Egypt time at more than 12 o'clock in the middle of the night can not sleep, a person's room, a person's loneliness, very afraid of missing the meeting time, can't sleep to get up to take a bath, pack luggage, look at the time is still early and rest for a while, unconsciously fell asleep, suddenly woke up and found more than 5 o'clock, why didn't call early today, remember to call early at 5 o'clock, eat at half past five, leave the hotel at 6 o'clock.

In a hurry, I packed my luggage in a hurry, locked the door of my room, and walked in the darkness. The hotel is very large, pitch black, quiet and mysterious, the sound of chanting in the distance, high and low, it is difficult to describe, the hall does not know where it is, suddenly there is a person in front, hurriedly asked, where is the hall, I can't find the hall, he said in English, only to find out that it was a foreigner, I also said in English, he saw that I went in the wrong direction, led me to turn left and right to the hall, the hall was empty, I thanked him, asked the front desk to see us Chinese? He said no, I thought it was definitely in the restaurant, and hurried to the restaurant, I was the only one in the restaurant, and I asked the waiter if he saw my Chinese friend?

He said that maybe they were still sleeping, and at the same time he was still making movements, and he was anxious about me, did they leave, ate some fruit indiscriminately, and were just about to leave, and when I saw the Egyptian tour guide, I hurriedly asked him what time to call early, what time to meet? He said that he called early at 6 o'clock, ate at 6:30, and left at 7 o'clock? Sky!

I definitely tried hard to remember, I tried hard to remember, or wrong, the room was also retreated, no matter so much, I took out a makeup bag in the restaurant to make up my makeup, and dressed myself up again, and the friends in the group came one after another, but I didn't feel it in my heart, but I was fortunate to sit in the restaurant and write down the mood at the moment. It's really old, it's not okay to not accept the old, and the memory is not as good as before.

In fact, the matter of being wronged will appear in **. It's just that because the environment is different when you are alone, you may feel it more deeply. Being wronged is not necessarily a good thing, and it can help you grow.

When I went abroad to Japan 20 years ago, I was 15 years old, and now I think about it like yesterday. In the third month of Japan, I started working in a Chinese restaurant, and although my parents did not approve of it, I was curious about the unfamiliar environment and wanted to experience it. I still remember the first day of work for 4 hours, I didn't sit down, I went out of the store and walked to the **kiosk to give my grandmother in China a **, and the moment I sat down, my legs immediately cramped, and it lasted for a long time.

At that time, I just felt pain, and when I stood up after the pain, I felt as if I had suddenly grown up a little, but in fact, this is not a grievance, this is an experience, an experience that must be experienced on the way to growth.

After that, school started, and I also went to school during the day and worked at night, because most of the Chinese in Japan at that time came over like this. If you want to talk about the grievances you received in Japan, it may be that you couldn't communicate normally because of the language barrier at the beginning, because you didn't speak well, you were ridiculed, you were ostracized, and you were misunderstood because you couldn't communicate normally, and you must not face these things negatively, because it will only get worse. Find a way to change yourself and integrate into the new world.

It's interesting to look back on now, and I'm grateful for these experiences. Because after experiencing the difficulties at the beginning, I can face life better. Therefore, all grievances are only temporary, and you should cherish these small episodes that have brought you troubles.

I believe that those of you who are unwilling to admit defeat will overcome everything!

3 All are currently working in Shanghai, and one person, over time, will get used to ......During the Chinese New Year, I have to go to my hometown for a few days and come back to live my life! In fact, when being alone becomes a habit, everything becomes natural.

Once upon a time, you were a fish in an opaque fish tank, not knowing how big the outside world is, but living comfortably in your own little world. Later, you are thrown into a transparent fish tank, and you see that the outside world is so big, and you desperately want to swim out, but you can't swim out.

Some of the things I summarized myself:

1. Learn to regulate your emotions by yourself, many times when you encounter problems and feel depressed, you will solve them by yourself, and you don't want to trouble your friends.

2. I always report good news and not bad news with my parents, and every time I will say that I am doing well, I have enough money, and I don't want them to worry, but my mother is still not at ease, and she will call me from time to time.

3. Insist on exercising, the most feared thing in the field is to get sick, go to the hospital alone, inject alone, it is very troublesome to think about it, so do half an hour to an hour of exercise after work every day.

4. Sometimes I can't help but miss my hometown, and several times I come home from work alone, and when I meet someone who speaks my hometown on the road, I feel like a relative, and I want to talk to him. Watching the ** reunion of the circle of friends, I will still be a little lonely and sad.

5. Plan your future life, think about life in the dead of night, plan your life in the next few years or even more than ten years, and then overturn it, re-plan, and then cycle.

6. People always need to be brave to survive", bravely take a step to have the next step, work hard and then meet the bigger world.

People who are alone are somewhat unconvinced and arrogant in their bones. After reading a sentence, I was particularly heartfelt: "The most difficult thing you have to face is not a monster with any superpowers, but the frustration and guilt when you can't do anything." ”

Dream about being alone in a foreign country :

Explain that there will be losses, and there will be opportunities in front of you because of certain things, but if the stability is very strong, then it will definitely be negotiated.

An unmarried person dreams of being alone in a foreign country:

It is a good idea that there will be a new beginning, and the problems that have been bothered before will be solved, and it is a good dream overall. Big Close.

Scholar dreams of being alone abroad:

I will interact with them, so as to learn that there are few things in imitation pants, and my lover has some complaints about you, so it will affect the mood of these two days!

A person who starts a business dreams of being alone in a foreign country:

Explain that in the negotiation with customers, you will show vitality because of your persistence! It is recommended that you can stick to yourself me.

Worker dreams of being alone in a foreign country:

I got a lot of new investment information from other people's words! Because of the absence of the people around him, you Zhao Jian must temporarily go into battle to deal with him.