What are the feelings of Chinese people working, studying and living abroad?

In the summer in Iraq, the outdoor temperature was as high as 50 meters, and our worker brothers had to work outdoors for 10 hours a day under the scorching sun. It can be said that it is not easy for everyone, working hard during the day, due to safety issues, but after work can only stay in the project and are not allowed to go out, the most important thing is to stay away from home, abandon their wives, and some worker brothers do not go home for a year or two in order to make more money.

Alone in a foreign land as a stranger, every festival to miss relatives! There is a big difference in language and habits. Things on the construction site are inherently complicated and dangerous.

I'm not abroad, but I'm on the construction site. I can feel the living conditions of my co-workers. May the relatives in a foreign country live a happy and healthy life with a hot kang as soon as possible!

Life is relatively free, being alone means that I am free, without my wife and parents to control me, I can do whatever I want. But at the same time, you have to endure the pain of loneliness, the need for someone to accompany you, the need for someone to talk to and someone to talk to.

I worked on a project in a northern city in Saudi Arabia for three years, and it can be said that these three years were the most difficult three years of my life, and I regret that I did not listen to my colleagues to work here. At that time, I wanted to make more money, but when I arrived, I found that the salary was not as high as I imagined, but everything I experienced made me regret it at the beginning.

The work is still very fulfilling, after all, working abroad, there are not too many distractions for me, and I don't have to worry about a lot of trivial things in life.

Working alone in a foreign country is more sad than joyful. People are emotional animals, and it is not interesting to live without the nourishment of family, friendship, and love. So, try not to give up the days with your family in pursuit of a high-paying job.

In foreign countries, there is basically no social interaction, except for some work partners, it is basically difficult to make other friends.

I work as a translator in Korea, in fact, as a translator is very stressful, everything needs to be solved by a translator, from eating and buying groceries to project acceptance, everything must have a translator present.

I foolishly told people that I was from China, and I thought they would welcome me, even if it was the least polite. But I didn't expect them to just walk away with a bang, so indifferent, so indifferent that cold sweat broke out on my back.

Almost all Chinese abroad bring rice from China, and what I have seen, whether they have just arrived abroad or stayed for more than ten or twenty years, is still used to eating rice. Half-baked foreign languages + Chinese with authentic Chinese culture can win the interest of Westerners more than people who are fluent in foreign languages but do not know anything about Chinese or even Chinese characters. In the eyes of Westerners, it is attracted by the charm of the other party, not the strength or clothing of the other party, including whether they are handsome or not is not the point.

I saw a lot of domestic news**, men and women with an age difference of more than 20 years can also be together, Han people are outside, when they straighten their waists, sometimes it is necessary to be ruthless, but to win the respect of others. Never rely on the police in the West as an older brother or uncle, and never think how impartial the police in the West are.

Although it is not possible to kill with a stick, most Western police officers will have a strong national color when enforcing the law, favoring their own people.

This is just the opposite of China, the status of foreigners in China is too high, and we cannot help but sigh that Western hooligans are more professional than China.

They are all dressed in suits and play badly, if you are weak, wait to be bullied, Chinese.

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In fact, it is better to say that you are Han and Tang people abroad than to say that you are Chinese.

In the eyes of most Westerners, China is a country where ordinary people can't even afford televisions.

So, be prepared for a psychological blow!

It feels very simple, it is not so much a company in the country as it is a palace. Stance is more important than effort, and being a person is more important than doing things. In addition, I would rather eat McDonald's than eat Chinese takeaway.

After working in Japan for three years, I feel like I don't understand anything! Cashless payment for food takeaways throws them off several streets.

When I came back, I found that I had become stupid. In the past few years abroad, I have developed the habit of doing everything according to the process, according to the rules, and communicating first and reasoning first when encountering any problems. I have almost forgotten all about the domestic set.

After returning to China, I was so stupid that I wanted to go through the process at work and be reasonable. Then, he was pulled off the horse. ‍‍

From helping to hold the door, to greeting each other, to politely dismissing other people's opinions, you can't learn anything. Why should young employees not criticize older ones, and why should leaders put on a posture of superiority? I don't know a certain country, a certain custom, or a certain field, but I seem to be an expert who speaks the truth, and it is indisputable. ‍‍

After 10 years abroad, what is unacceptable when I return to China is that a lot of work data, conclusions, and expressions are extremely watery, and everything must be high-level, not an ordinary make-up. The relationship between the company's leaders and employees is simply a pie that can be drawn, and a pie can be deceitful, and there are no rules at all.

There is absolutely no privacy at all. Leaders and colleagues should add VX to facilitate contact; The situation of the parents, the situation of marriage and love cannot be concealed at all, and all kinds of questions must be answered. There is no efficiency in overtime, and it is usually waiting for the leader, waiting for the report, waiting for the meeting, and ......spent in the middle.

There are many familiar places and many unaccustomed places. You can eat as much as you want, but you're worried about hygiene. It was convenient to be close to home and visit my parents.

You can often interact with your former classmates and friends. Communication with colleagues at work is also more natural and casual, after all, in the native language and culture. What I am not used to is that the car does not let people, or even slow down, and the sound of horns everywhere makes people very irritable.

It's not easy to line up, and there will always be people who stick to you intentionally or unintentionally, which is annoying. It is difficult to get in touch with nature, it is all man-made buildings, there is no place to travel comfortably, it is not too much of a problem to have people everywhere, the most disturbing thing is that there is no rule in the crowd everywhere. In comparison, air food safety doesn't seem to be so annoying.

I myself have only worked in the United States for half a year, and now I work in a state-owned enterprise in Shenzhen, China, mainly doing international business, and I personally feel that there are several aspects. Sophisticated people: Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, how many people and sophisticated people you will come into contact with depends on how much you want to climb up, depending on the fierce competition for the resources you want, and it has little to do with domestic and foreign countries.

Work intensity: It depends on how much you want to climb up and whether there is a platform for you to work at a high intensity. How it works:

It is more standardized, more advanced, and more efficient. Upward path: If it is not a start-up company, the upward path in foreign countries is more standardized, and there is a feeling of "staying up for years", of course, you can also say that "career planning is clearer".

Work is not about dressing and eating, unless I meet customers, I love to cook Chinese food by myself, and I like to wear casual clothes. ‍‍

Both sides have been working for many years. The work is all related to finance and law, one in New York and the other in Shanghai, and they are all industry leaders. If you feel that if you go back to China to go to a state-owned enterprise, you will feel that you are very stupid, not right to people, major projects are to complete political tasks, investment decisions follow the leader to visit the country.

In short, very depressed. When you go to a foreign company, you will feel that China's foreign companies are a combination of Chinese and Western, there will be no fewer fighting people, and there will be a lot of overtime. Finally, I found out that there is definitely a domestic opportunity for entrepreneurship.

It's a part-time job abroad, you say yes, anyway, our line of work is, the resources are in the hands of white people, and no one votes for you if you have an idea. It's a different story altogether in China. ‍‍

Feeling is social, it's important. There is a waypoint.