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Preferring to be alone is a sign of a greater yearning for freedom.
A person likes to be alone, it does not mean that he is withdrawn and unsociable. Enjoying solitude is not a mental illness.
It's a kind of physical and mental freedom. To put it simply, being alone is a wise choice, and what is the psychology to talk about? I think that first of all, people who are alone are psychologically unhealthy.
Secondly, it cannot be said that people who are alone are not sociable. Again, it can't be said that people who are alone are not confident enough. On the contrary, I feel that I am very confident that I don't need to care about other people's affirmation, let alone other people's opinions.
I'm just reducing ineffective socializing, it's not that I'm not social, it's not that I'm not good at socializing, and when I need to socialize, I'm still very generous. In my opinion, being alone is a person's choice, choosing a way that is more suitable for oneself and fulfilling and enjoyable. Solitude is not a psychology, but a choice.
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In this society, there are many people who express an indifferent attitude towards many things due to their personalities. And often like to be alone, including doing things, I also like to be alone. At this time, many people will feel that this alternative is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence.
In fact, people who like to be alone do not necessarily have low emotional intelligence, and a large part of them have a strong heart and a rich spiritual world. It's just that I feel that some of my ideas are different from others, so I don't want to communicate, so naturally I live a happy life by myself, and I still enjoy this free lifestyle very much.
However, this kind of person who is alone can express their point of view more clearly and accurately if they encounter something that needs to be expressed.
People still need to communicate more with each other, so that they can share their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and life can be meaningful. If you like to be alone, when you're feeling down, there's no one to listen to you, no one to help you out, and no one to share with you when you're successful, then there isn't much point in these successes.
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People who like to be alone may have an introverted personality, they prefer to be alone and like to do things and think alone. This type of person is usually more withdrawn and less sociable, and they prefer to spend time alone, reading, writing, listening, etc. In addition, these people may also be shy and not good at coping with the stress of social situations and strangers.
However, liking solitude does not mean that the person is not socially competent or able to get along with people. In fact, many introverts are also very good at socializing with people, they just need to take some time to relax and get used to it first.
In conclusion, liking solitude does not necessarily mean that there is a personality problem, it is just a personal preference and personality tendency.
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I like to be alone, that's because I have experienced the benefits of being alone, such as doing things more easily, only thinking about my thoughts and feelings, doing what I want to do, and eating what I want to eat, such a person, he has become his best friend, so being alone will be happier.
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The first point is that such people are basically very independent and have their own ideas, and the second point is that they have their own style and are very confident and charismatic, and the third psychology is that they are basically people who have their own careers and are very successful.
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This kind of psychology is that I don't like to communicate with people, I don't like to deal with people, I am afraid of socializing, I may have a little autism, and I don't like to contact with the outside world, this kind of psychology is relatively normal.
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Always like to be alone, this should be a personal problem, this person should prefer quiet, it is a matter of personality.
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I should enjoy this situation very much, feel more comfortable, quieter, no one disturbs me, and I can easily solve some things.
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Everyone is different, and everyone's personality is different. It's good to be alone, and it's also a character.
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Social phobia.
If it is severe, it will develop acquired autism.
It is different from congenital physiological autism: congenital beings live in their own world since childhood, and their response to the outside world is almost zero, and they are happy. Acquired autism is because it was once active in the population, which is not a psychological problem.
It shows that your ideological realm has reached a certain height, and in today's society, whether it is between relatives and friends, or colleagues, when they interact or contact together, they are basically perfunctory, and there are really few of them.
When people are young, they like to be lively, like to eat, drink, and be merry, singing and dancing. Every three or five in groups, have fun until dawn. When I was in my thirties, or in my forties, I gradually liked to be alone, and I would go home after work and not go anywhere.
Generally, a person is looking for a quiet place, a colorful life, and complicated interpersonal relationships.
The fast-paced lifestyle has been running for most of my life, and I am physically and mentally tired, getting older and older, and I can't do it. You need to calm down, relax your emotions, adjust your mentality, and change your living environment and way. So choose to be alone.
Now the society is complex, most of the interactions between people have a relationship of interest, I am also used to being alone, I don't like to drill into the pile of people, many people are talking in front of people, talking nonsense after people, I have seen too much, so I slowly have social phobia, this is not a psychological problem, but to prove that your heart has become strong, in fact, I think everyone should gather the ability to be alone, because life in the world, there is not much to accompany you to the end, I like to be alone.
A person's preference for solitude is a habit, not the same as being withdrawn. Today's society is too impetuous and noisy, if you can be quiet and alone, enjoy yourself, enjoy yourself, and enjoy yourself, it is good to be alone. So-called"Socialize"The ancients Zeng Yun"Gentlemen are not gregarious"In today's parlance, it means giving up useless and boring socializing, of course not.
Growing your preference for solitude proves that you are becoming more mature and stronger. The ultimate happiness in life is to be able to live in harmony with oneself, and the more spiritually self-sufficient a person is, the more abundant and lasting the happiness he experiences.
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This is a very normal psychology, many people want to have their own alone space, which is an idea that a normal adult should have.
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In fact, I am such a person, I believe that most of the people who like to be alone like me are very lonely, have low self-esteem, and don't want to communicate with too many people.
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If you like to be alone, it may be a personality problem for you, because you don't like crowds, you think it's complicated, so you like to be alone in one place.
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This is a psychology that enjoys solitude very much, and such people tend to be stronger in their hearts, and they can also learn to be alone with themselves.
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Such people are very lonely at heart, like some quiet places, and they think about some problems differently than most people.
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I like to be alone, because being alone is so free.
If you haven't been alone before, you can try it, and it may be difficult at first, but you will like it more and more.
1. Go shopping by yourself, go to which store to try on what net clothes according to your own heart, don't think that there will be companions in the Qin Hall who are anxious or need to wait for you, and you don't need to consult others, so as not to embarrass others, and sometimes she feels bad, you may like it very much, so you can buy or not buy it.
2. Watch movies by yourself.
The first time I watched it myself, I needed to complain, and my self-suspicion was to solve it by talking to myself. You don't have to wait for the end of the movie to go directly, do whatever you want.
3. Eat hot pot by yourself.
It's good to eat a small hot pot by yourself, but it's just a little lonely. However, it is much more comfortable to eat Haidilao by yourself, provided that you do not queue up.
4. Visit the attractions by yourself.
You can go as far as you want, stay in one place for as long as you want.
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Hello dear! People who like to be alone are his personality, but they are not the same as solitude. It does not mean that he is introverted, on the contrary, he is very stable in his heart and has a clear attitude in life and work.
Know how to work and live. There will be no loneliness, and there will be no need to waste the peace of mind gained by useless socializing. People who are alone have a good mental outlook and a sense of satisfaction from self-pursuit.
I like to do my own beneficial hobbies and things. So their hearts are calm and happy. The so-called extroverts are prone to feel empty and lonely, or have nothing to do, and need to gather people to pass the time, and get a sense of stability through communication with others.
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