Which is the most bizarre love story in Love Defense ?

Love Defense War is an emotional and psychological program, in which the various confusions and contradictions encountered by couples and lovers in the process of love and marriage will be put on the stage, and the two sides will confide their inner incomprehension and confusion like each other through communication, understanding and argumentation. In my impression, I saw a couple whose lovers finally came together through mutual understanding between the two parties, and some of them could not be reunited because of the constant knot.

In the love story, what impressed me the most was that the husband cried that his wife was too domineering, and in the previous interview, the husband said that his life was not bad, but his wife's temper was getting bigger and bigger. The wife said that her husband was too selfish and that she had been suffering with her husband. In the course of fifteen years of marriage, the husband said that the wife was not only domineering to her husband, but also to her father.

Usually counting the husband and the husband's father, because of the trivial matter of buying a house, because the husband's father is unwilling to buy a house, the wife serves the husband's father. The husband's crying and complaining about his wife's voice at home shook the house, because the drinking wife broke up with her husband's father, which also made a lot of people not understand. And the wife dislikes her husband for not being able to give herself a good life, because of the car, the husband and wife do not cook for the husband.

The husband thinks that his wife does not like him and does not like what he does. The host summarized it as the conflict between the wife's increasing demand for life and her husband's reluctance to get out of the comfort zone. The husband wants his wife to change her way of speaking and temper, and the wife wants her husband to change and care more about the mother.

In the final comment session, the commentator also said that the husband is lazy and incompetent and does not seek improvement, but he shows himself very well, and hopes that his wife can not sit as a gentle woman, but not as a roaring woman. I hope that although the husband can't sit with a very capable man, he must be a man who can do his best, and finally the husband and wife will get back together with the help of the guests.

The story is that a man divorced because his new girlfriend looked like his younger wife, which is simply not a good reason.

To be honest, I feel quite weird, and they all look like guests, all the conflicts are arranged by the program team, otherwise who has the leisure and time to tear their faces in front of the whole network, and it is not bitter and hateful.

There is an issue of "Love Defense" that has an age difference of 17 years, the man is 41 years old, is a driver, and his girlfriend is 24 years old, and he is a freelancer. A 24-year-old woman who doesn't know what it means to be married, and hasn't even figured out what love is, says to her boyfriend, we can continue to be in love, and in two years, if I don't get married, I'll marry you. Isn't this clearly telling the other party that I don't love you, but just treat you as a spare tire?

I think it's very strange.

What impressed us the most should be the two of them, Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting.

To become a partner, you have to notice her emotional changes all the time, it is to save face for her in front of outsiders, it is her partner who can't fight back and scold back, and it is the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is willing to give him a child and is ten years younger than him, so he has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blame and suppress the partner, do not respect the partner's right to speak, and remove the partner's face for the sake of his own face.

There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; disliked that he didn't know people, and had such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is reading a love letter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.

At the beginning, I was a big fan of the love defense war, and I especially liked to read it, and I thought that many of Tu Lei's words in it were classic, so I basically read every issue. I once watched an issue, probably about a couple, the man wants to break up with the woman, the reason is that the woman usually doesn't dress up, which makes the man very faceless, and the woman doesn't agree, so she asks the program team to adjust.

As everyone thinks, the girl in the show is indeed very simple, chubby and not tall, wearing glasses and not big eyes, and not wearing makeup at all. The camera also pulled to them in the dressing room, and when the makeup artist wanted to give her a little makeup, she didn't get in the oil and salt, she didn't listen to anything, and she was even more sprinkled on the stage, and she was sitting on the ground crying. At that time, I believed it and thought that there was really such a woman in the world who did not cherish her image.

Tu Lei also commented on her, and I thought it made sense at the time.

Until one day, I watched another show by Tu Lei. It's also a conditioning program, and I can't remember the name. The problem was a mother and daughter, and I can't remember what happened to their problem, but that girl entered the show with a new attitude and a new identity, and in this show she was a gentle woman with knowledge and her own opinions.

It's completely different from the original love defense war.

I haven't seen the Battle of Love since.

First of all, I really love to watch "Love Defense", I know that many people doubt the authenticity of the show, in fact, it is not necessary, we are not watching real events, but how to solve the problem after the incident, many people say:"I've heard a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life. "The purpose of "Love Defense" is to allow us to look at life, treat feelings and marriage from different perspectives, these problems may happen in our lives one day, "Love Defense" does not teach us how to love but tells us how to be happy with examples.

This show is the trump card program of Tianjin Satellite TV,I watched it when I was very young,At first I watched it with a kind of joke and lively mentality,This is the so-called less but not more,When I grew a little older and had social experience and emotional experience,I found that life is really difficult Love is not as easy as imagined,How to live a happy and stable life is a very profound knowledge,The story that once happened in "Love Defense" began to happen to me, People's experience and education may be different, but the feelings are the same, each couple's helplessness in the show may be the helplessness of everyone in our lives, and the guest's comments may not be right, but it is definitely a reference in life, and it is a direction to solve problems, their methods, concepts, and views are based on their own social experience and emotional experience, or knowledge from books, but what a complex creature people are, he is not like mathematics, physics can solve most of the problems with a formula, Her ever-changing, his emotions come from the influence of society, family and even experience, the problems of couples on stage are all real problems, which may not be in your circle, but the comments and suggestions of the guests give the audience a lot of room for thinking and interpretation, which is the charm of this show.

Resident guest Mr. Tu Lei often watches it knows that his three views are really positive, he is as evil as hatred, he hates betrayal the most, gnaws at the old, **, does not take responsibility in life and exaggerates a woman is ruthless criticism, sometimes the words are very heavy, and often can wake up the parties caught in the whirlpool, and also give the audience off-screen a role of alerting, and the host of this show, Zhao Chuan, is also a charming existence, his witty humor and his high emotional intelligence often make people feel warm at critical moments, He can always change his style abruptly when two people are arguing fiercely, and guide the scene with witty and humorous words so that the scene does not get out of control, and his pertinent comments on love are also a highlight of the show.

Emotional problems may occur in everyone's life, because love will have hate, it may also be money, it may also be social relations, when we encounter problems, how to solve them? Many times I get caught in the drama and can't extricate myself, "Love Defense" may not just be a show, he is a lesson for young people with faces, in this class, we can feel what is bad, what is good, what is good feelings, what should be insisted on, what should be given up, people can only live a lifetime, how to live themselves, "Love Defense" may be able to give you a different answer.

"Love Defense" is a program about emotions on Tianjin Satellite TV, which has accumulated countless fans since its launch. The content of the program is mainly to talk about their emotional entanglements, and then the emotional mentor will analyze and guide them, and finally make suggestions and advice.

In recent years, many people have gained a lot through "Love Defense", which has also aroused people's heated discussions and love for the show. Through careful research and summary, it is found that people like the show "Love Defense" mainly for the following reasons:

First, content.

The main content of "Love Defense" is emotional disputes and expert reviews. For modern men and women, emotion is a very important part of life, and getting along is a difficult problem in life, the love defense war through the interview of the guests, the accurate analysis of the emotional experts of the bystanders, and then the deadlock has been solved, so that people's horizons have been expanded, so that everyone can see other people's emotional stories, have a feeling; In addition, you can also summarize your own shortcomings in emotions through the analysis and suggestions of experts, and then move towards a better life;

For everyone, life is a play, everyone is a member of the play, and the play is that you laugh at others, and others laugh at you. In this show, all kinds of emotional disputes not only earned everyone's tears, such as the episode where the girl took care of her paralyzed boyfriend, and the audience was moved to tears; also earned enough laughter, for example, the hot pot restaurant owner wanted to break up with his waiter girlfriend, because his girlfriend always invited friends to dinner, and he disliked his girlfriend's friend and didn't give money, so he was embarrassed to say it, so he could only break up; And no matter which issue, everyone can gain the insight of life in the interesting plot, and it is understandable to like it;

Second, Tu Lei.

Overall, "Love Defense" is a very valuable show, pointing out the direction for many people who are lost in emotions, and it is a normal thing to be liked by people.

Tianjin Satellite TV's Love Defense War is an emotional program, not only I'm watching, but my family has also been watching it, at first I watched the strange emotional experiences of male and female guests, and slowly seemed to see life and see myself. My favorite is Mr. Tu Lei, who always makes sharp comments fairly and justly, and hits the nail on the head.

Many people say that the love defense war is very fake, and it is all performed by actors, but what does it matter? Regardless of the authenticity of the show itself, many of the cases in it are reasonable. Most of the people in the show are students, as well as people from second- and third-tier cities with a low level of education, which I think is also a major feature of this program.

The story comes from life, not everyone is upper-class, and not everyone has the aura of a star, the most in society are these people, these ordinary people who struggle with feelings and life lines, although they are a little weird, but they are real.

The second and most critical point is that everyone has the best expectations for love. Even married people have a beautiful love of their own. Therefore, any behavior that destroys love and marriage causes strong discomfort and criticism from everyone.

When you see someone struggling to protect love, you will want to stand on their side, as if you are jointly guarding the sacrosanct love in your heart. As a bystander, uphold fairness or a little selfishness, to face every love.

What most people prefer is actually the experience of each teacher, who can point out problems and soothe our souls. For example, Mr. Tu Lei is regarded as a love expert, he can always reasonably analyze some social garbage phenomena, analyze the essence of the phenomenon to the audience, word by word, and explain the way of love with each case, which is more profound than those textbooks and propaganda, and even becomes a reference material for his future love and life.

Such a show allows you to understand love, understand love, and protect love, and who can refuse.