I m trying. Why is there nothing now

Opportunities always belong to those who are prepared, and only those who always know what they want may meet the opportunity when they are ready, knowing that being stunned by a pie falling from the sky may never befall you, so quickly delete it from your dictionary"The aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys"Otherwise, you can only wait for your fragrant wine, and when the guests come, maybe your fragrant wine will be guarded by you as stinky wine. Listen to Li Shaotang's advice and hurry up"Three bowls are not enough"The guise of wine.

Chinese culture has always advocated subtlety, restraint, modesty, and conservatism, and for thousands of years, the words flamboyant, wild, proud, and change have never received a good face, and most of the people who love these words in history and practice them have not come to a good end, and in their hearts, any Chinese will be proud of the broad and profound culture created by their ancestors. But in today's environment, we need to learn to look at it and dissect it. The Chinese civilization is a typical agricultural civilization, and it is the agricultural culture bred by the most well-developed agricultural society.

The social structure of the agricultural society is stable, the production activities are single, the labor place is fixed, the pace of life is slow, and the social atmosphere is conservative, so it produces subtle, introverted, and conservative"Perfect"Personality is inevitable. Looking at the present day, human society has transitioned from an industrial society to an information society, and the perfect personality and work methods formed under the agricultural society no longer meet the requirements of the times. Therefore, there is a way to deal with the world, which cannot be rigid and dogmatic.

To change, it must change. The people who have made great achievements in Chinese history are all reformers, from Shang Yang to ***, without exception. Moderation and conservatism are advocated by Confucianism"The golden rule"But Confucius, the founder of Confucianism, was a great changer, and he was the first professional teacher in Chinese history"Doctoral supervisor", the first educator, unprecedented.

So Confucius was definitely not a man who ate the past, and if he lived today, he would have advocated for change as well. How to change, Confucius said: If you want to succeed, be brave and knock on the boss's door.

Confucius also said: If you don't want to succeed, don't knock on the boss's door. Jokes are jokes, but Li Shaotang is indeed a changemaker.

He has changed his methods, but he has not changed his roots. Honesty, diligence, bravery, and good thinking have not changed, they have changed"The aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys", became"Be brave enough to knock on your boss's door"。

As long as you work hard, there is no impossible"、"Chances are self-inflicted"、"You can only rush forward"It is Li Shaotang's quotations, I believe Li Shaotang's"Be brave enough to knock on your boss's door", can give you great inspiration in life.

Life is controlled by oneself, happiness is a day, sadness is also a day, why not live happily?

Glad to answer for you, you should be able to feel your helplessness and powerlessness through the screen by now, right? Because you feel like you've put in a lot of effort, but you still can't get the results you want, you're going to be very tired, right? Many times I doubt myself, I feel that I have no hope in life, and many times I want to give up, right?

Although I don't know what kind of work you are engaged in, my advice to you is to ask those successful people around you how they are successful, first learn their advantages, and then imitate, and finally to implement, more people think and practice is equal to the way of living, for the time being, you have to find your own reasons, I hope it can help you.

Most people are prone to fall into the trap of focusing too much on introverted growth and ignoring extroverted growth.

Introverted growth is a growth activity that revolves around oneself, such as waking up early, running, reading, etc. That is, it focuses on internal input and habit formation.

Extroverted growth is the growth activities around the outside world, such as writing, publishing books, lecturing, etc. That is, exporting and building skills.

We wake up early, run, read, study, and are on the road physically and mentally, so busy that we move ourselves. However, these activities are internal cycles and cannot be directly externally produced.

So sticking to these habits will only make us better people, not great people. Therefore, where there is an input, there must be an output; Once you have a habit, you must improve your skills.

As a result, you will get all kinds of positive feedback, feel recognized, encouraged, needed, and even monetized, and there will be good jobs or cooperation opportunities that will come to you. It is only in outward growth that you will feel the hope of working hard and be willing to do it with pleasure.

Maybe what you think you pay is not proportional to what you get, or maybe the world is not fair, and some people can't earn the money of a rich person for a meal after struggling all their lives.

Salarymen are like this, it's your own choice, you don't need to complain, entrepreneurship is to make a lot of money, there are also losses and failures, so people choose the path to accept fate.

A lot of people are asking,"I'm trying so hard, why can't I? "Actually, I think that God will not be kind to those who work hard, but pay attention to this"But"It is very important that Heaven does not have compassion on people who are falsely diligent.

So what is false diligence?

There are 4 characteristics.

1. Do things that should not be done, especially things entrusted by relatives and friends.

The principle is to distinguish which problems they can solve on their own, which ones they need my help, and which ones that I can help with.

We live in the world to be a useful person, not a good man.

2. Like to process tasks in parallel.

Parallel tasks are only suitable for simple, brainless things, and most things cannot be used at the same time.

3.The mentality of heart failure before aging.

Reluctance to accept new things.

Use tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness. We often say that if you go in the wrong direction, the harder you try, the more troublesome you will be. Because every little effort we put in, we get a little farther away from our goal.

4.Believing that you can find shortcuts that others can't find, you can't calm down and improve yourself.

In many cases, we should learn from Zeng Guofan's hard village to fight a dumb battle, step by step, and take the road under our feet in a down-to-earth manner.

I have always felt that I am a hard-working person, studying hard, studying hard, studying hard and going to university However, I have always asked myself, why am I studying so hard, I am still not as good as others, what is the use of studying hard, what is the use of being a doctor, tired of being a dog, and the treatment is still so little, the industry says "I make money selling cabbage with the heart of selling white powder", why do I work so hard, and my life has not changed for the better?

Remembering what I had done before, writing notes on the goals I made: a long list of books, the books I bought back, and I haven't opened them yet; shouting ** and exercising every day, the yoga mats and sports equipment bought back have become children's toys; I told the world to learn to swim, and I bought a swimsuit, but I only went a few times and stopped ...... for various reasons

I've worked hard. Why don't you have a good life?

It turned out that I was just—intermittently complacent, constantly eating and waiting for death. The so-called hard work is obviously not doing anything, but indulging in the self-touching of hard work. How terrible it is.

Actually, I seem to be working hard lately. Sometimes I am afraid, will these efforts also be self-moving?

Scared and anxious, but you must continue to do it, such as making a one-month special study, sorting out the training materials of the water cream group for a week, etc., instead of filling your mind with all kinds of unrealistic fantasies. Boss Pei said that learning does not make you rich, only by constantly sharing the content of learning and practicing can you become rich.

Acknowledging and accepting that I am an ordinary person, rather than complaining that no one has discovered their talents or abilities. Through the screen of the mobile phone, if you want to seek encouragement through the lives of others, you should actually turn off the mobile phone, and what should you do.

When I was a child, I always thought that I could get ahead as long as I worked hard, but when I grew up, I realized that I had done my best just to maintain the level of ordinary people.

The world has never been fair. It's better to accept this reality and stop complaining. Jack Ma once said: When people complain, they are losing opportunities, and their minds are clouded by complaints. When does the opportunity arise? Opportunities arise when others complain.

Life is like a game of fighting monsters and upgrading, hard work is not the result, just the ticket to the next game. And fight monsters with goals, look at the road under your feet, persist selectively, and work hard efficiently, so that you can continue to upgrade!

When you come to this world, everyone actually has desires.

I hope to be able to live in a better place, to live in a better environment, to be able to afford beautiful clothes, good cosmetics, and to be able to travel around and witness the most beautiful scenery.

When I fly, I also hope that I can be in a better position, go to a concert, and I also hope that I can be closer to my idol.

All this, if we don't work hard at all, and only receive a salary of 3,000 yuan a month, of course, it will only be a fantasy. At that time, just supporting ourselves, we all felt very difficult and very difficult.

I can only always eat the simplest, use the cheapest, have too many things to want, but simply can't afford it.

When buying something, I often only look at the ** first, and what I want will only make myself give up altogether.

If we repeatedly suppress our desires, we can also live it, but that kind of life will eventually seem a little unsatisfactory.

And when we are not satisfied with the status quo, we can really find a direction, work hard, and make more money, as our ability becomes stronger and stronger, with more money, we can really get a lot of what we want.

The world is never fair, and no matter how hard we work, we will be as special as possible, and we can better fulfill ourselves.

The more we grow up, the more we will really find that people are often divided into groups.

Basically, what we can get is only what we can afford, and what we can get in touch with will only be people who are similar to ourselves, and it is difficult to touch a good circle.

In this case, in many things, when we are average in all aspects, we will not have many choices at all, we can only choose the lower end, find a partner, and we can only find a condition similar to our own, or even inferior to our own.

And when we compromise with such a fate, live such a life, and enter into marriage with such a person, our life will not be good at all, and our marriage will not be very good.

Not only do you need to make money together to support your family, you need to deal with your relationship with your in-laws, you need to carefully maintain your relationship with your husband, you need to clean up your home, and you need to bear all this while giving birth to children and raising children.

Even if you work hard, you may not be able to get the slightest recognition, and you can buy something for yourself as you like.

Many times, being poor will really be pitiful, it is really the original sin, and it will limit one's life.

Whether we want to have a better choice in our career, a better choice in marriage, or be able to follow our hearts in many things, we often need to be able to improve ourselves first and make ourselves good enough.

will live a more fulfilling and rewarding life.

In life, we need to work and deal with a lot of relationships, but all this may not bring us much good feeling, and often only make us feel lost and numb.

Doing an unchallenging, low-paying job, every moment, just a repetition of yesterday, that one.

Hello, dear, 1There is no good plan People who have a lot of dates early on are not willing to give themselves a plan, or have a plan, but in the process of action, they are attracted by other entertainment, resulting in low concentration and forming a false effort. 2.

Efforts to pursue results People with weak action will have a lot of thoughts before working hard, such as whether the prospect is good or not, if there is no return on the effort and other objective factors, inadvertently tied themselves to a self-trapped pressure, you must know that it is useless to think too much, only to do, to act will have results. 3.Excessive low self-esteem Excessive appearance anxiety, worrying about bad teeth, spots and blemishes on the face, embarrassed to communicate with others, can be alleviated, such as taking pro-erythrobutyric acid if there are spots, and wearing braces if you have bad teeth.

4."Time is the only most far-fetched fairness in this world. "Only people who work hard to manage their time will not regret it.