If the boss is suspicious all day long, what s going on?

If you didn't take his stuff, the less you know, the better......

Opportunities always belong to those who are prepared, and only those who always know what they want may meet the opportunity when they are ready, knowing that being stunned by a pie falling from the sky may never befall you, so quickly delete it from your dictionary"The aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys"Otherwise, you can only wait for your fragrant wine, and when the guests come, maybe your fragrant wine will be guarded by you as stinky wine. Listen to Li Shaotang's advice and hurry up"Three bowls are not enough"The guise of wine.

Chinese culture has always advocated subtlety, restraint, modesty, and conservatism, and for thousands of years, the words flamboyant, wild, proud, and change have never received a good face, and most of the people who love these words in history and practice them have not come to a good end, and in their hearts, any Chinese will be proud of the broad and profound culture created by their ancestors. But in today's environment, we need to learn to look at it and dissect it. The Chinese civilization is a typical agricultural civilization, and it is the agricultural culture bred by the most well-developed agricultural society.

The social structure of the agricultural society is stable, the production activities are single, the labor place is fixed, the pace of life is slow, and the social atmosphere is conservative, so it produces subtle, introverted, and conservative"Perfect"Personality is inevitable. Looking at the present day, human society has transitioned from an industrial society to an information society, and the perfect personality and work methods formed under the agricultural society no longer meet the requirements of the times. Therefore, there is a way to deal with the world, which cannot be rigid and dogmatic.

To change, it must change. The people who have made great achievements in Chinese history are all reformers, from Shang Yang to ***, without exception. Moderation and conservatism are advocated by Confucianism"The golden rule"But Confucius, the founder of Confucianism, was a great changer, and he was the first professional teacher in Chinese history"Doctoral supervisor", the first educator, unprecedented.

So Confucius was definitely not a man who ate the past, and if he lived today, he would have advocated for change as well. How to change, Confucius said: If you want to succeed, be brave and knock on the boss's door.

Confucius also said: If you don't want to succeed, don't knock on the boss's door. Jokes are jokes, but Li Shaotang is indeed a changemaker.

He has changed his methods, but he has not changed his roots. Honesty, diligence, bravery, and good thinking have not changed, they have changed"The aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys", became"Be brave enough to knock on your boss's door"。

As long as you work hard, there is no impossible"、"Chances are self-inflicted"、"You can only rush forward"It is Li Shaotang's quotations, I believe Li Shaotang's"Be brave enough to knock on your boss's door", can give you great inspiration in life.

If you're a branch manager, you'll often get your boss during non-working hours**; If you are a grassroots employee, the old manuscript board will always express your boss-like concern to you; If you are the right hand of your boss, then every detail of your work should be reported to him in detail......He is afraid that his subordinates will make mistakes in eliminating pants and filial piety, and paying too much attention to details will make the boss in your eyes suspicious, and the direct performance is not easy to trust others and subordinates'There is always a lot of dissatisfaction at work.

In fact, such a boss is best to deal with! They often believe that "rule by man" is more important than "rule of law", coupled with huge psychological pressure, their emotional defense line is the easiest to break! It is recommended that you not only report to his work according to his requirements, but also develop a personal friendship with him!

You must know that people with stress are often lonely, and when you step into his interpersonal space, it is equivalent to opening a bright window for your professional career! ;

On the one hand, as a netizen said, you may not be very confident, and you may be a little mentally sensitive, your mind and vision may not be broad enough, and you are easy to be too rigid and concerned about some things.

This requires you to improve your realm and broaden your horizons, including more outdoor activities, sports, interpersonal communication, including reading more inspirational, literary and historical, and social books, instead of always fixing on and entangled in something.

On the other hand, sometimes, skepticism is due to insufficient cognition and lack of understanding. This requires you to investigate, ask, recognize, and grasp it in a practical way, rather than just thinking about it yourself.

If you don't get in touch and don't understand, it is easy to cause misunderstanding and misunderstanding. You have to pay attention to that. In normal times, we should not do reasoning and judgment without factual or scientific basis, and we must be scientific, rational and wise in our thinking and way of thinking.

This situation depends on yourself, suspicious is a bad mentality, thinking about some simple things is very complicated, heart disease also has to be cardiac medicine, your own mentality has to rely on your own adjustment, only you know the root cause of your disease.

It shows that you are not strong enough and not confident enough.

1. I always feel suspicious, and I can use the following methods to adjust: First of all, we must actively divert our attention, especially to do what we should do, go out for a walk more, chat with good friends to increase self-confidence, you can make yourself more and more confident, and interact with people at the same time can solve the sensitive and suspicious problems that arise because you are not confident or have less contact with people than leakage.

2. The time of its sliding swim, we must appropriately increase our interaction with people, increase our interests and hobbies to make life full and happy, not always immersed in suspicious, sensitive and suspicious problems and cannot extricate ourselves, and even affect their own fortunate letter search and blessing life, no matter which method must be actively adjusted.