Why would someone talk to themselves in a public place?

Some people may have been lonely for a long time, like to talk to themselves, or miss their deceased love, and talk to them in a way that talks to them. Or maybe it's a habit of talking to yourself like this a lot. No matter what kind of thing it is, whether I'm right or not, when you meet such a person, you'd better not get angry and annoyed by such things, because there's no need, you don't care about you, you don't care about nothing, the desireless are just right.

Maybe it's more focused, it's easy to forget the surroundings if you're too focused on your own things, and you feel like no one is the same, and you can say whatever you want. It may also be a habit, and you don't realize your behavior at all, just like when you shake your legs, you also shake up unconsciously, and you don't even know it.

There are three situations in which the act of talking to oneself can occur:

1.When you are surrounded by acquaintances or who may be under notice.

2.When you are doing something alone.

3.When you're alone and don't need to do anything.

I'll try to express how I think about self-talk in different contexts.

1.When you are surrounded by acquaintances or who may be under notice.

At this time, the meaning of self-talk is mainly to explain and explain one's behavior or situation to the people around you.

For example, when I fell in the crowd, passers-by looked sideways, and some onlookers inevitably had some doubts in their eyes.

At this time, I would get up and pat the dirt on my body, complaining that the ground was too slippery, the ground was uneven, and my shoes were uncomfortable.

Or at least it hurts to say that I fell to death.

Passers-by were relieved or sneered, what should they do.

For example, I have an idea, but the plan is a little imperfect, and the brain will produce two or three directions of perception to calculate the pros and cons of the planned direction.

Normally, I would talk to myself to hide my embarrassment. For example, if I'm standing alone in a place and someone is passing by and looking at me, I'll say, "Why haven't you come yet?" "Then people will think I'm waiting for someone.

Because she wants to say it but doesn't dare to say it, you can propose to her with righteous words, say it to her face if you have anything to say, say it loudly, don't mumble behind your back, that's not good, that is, it can't solve the problem, and it will hurt the feelings of both parties.

When my father-in-law is drunk, he can talk to himself anywhere regardless of the venue, basically reminiscing about who is sorry for him in his life, or looking forward to the future, when I am old, you will definitely not raise him, I might as well save some money to live in a nursing home or something, I think he has a delusion of victimization.

One day, I was out with one of my roommates and came back late in the evening, and when we got to the door, we heard another roommate in the room talking seriously, as if telling a story, and sometimes letting out a light laugh. When we went in, we realized that there was no one else in the room, she was talking to herself, and when she saw us returning, she stopped and greeted us. The roommate who came back with me was terrified and asked her how she did it?

And I laughed and didn't say anything. Because, I am also a "fool" who is often immersed in my own world and talks to myself.

Because it's strange to talk to yourself all the time, not to mention that in public places, everyone is more disgusted.

Maybe you disturb others in a public place, don't care too much about what others say, but be careful not to disturb others.

Since you know that if you talk to yourself in public, others will gossip, so even if you like to memorize lines. Don't do that in public. It's really going to be misleading.

Maybe you've made a noise with others, and they're a little angry.

Because it's repetitive all the time, or it's noisy. Everyone else will hate it.

It's normal for people to say you're sick.

It is recommended not to talk to oneself in a place where there are others, but to recite Avalokiteshvara all the time.

Watching TV dramas, there will often be people talking to themselves, few people talking to themselves in real life, and there will indeed be some mentally ill people talking to themselves on the street. Normal people do, but it's rarer. So it does feel strange to see it, if it is acceptable to say a few words occasionally, if you say too much and too loudly, the people next to you will indeed feel very strange and will wonder if this person is mentally normal.

Because in a public place, when you speak, others will hear you, and normal people will take this into account, just think about it in their hearts, and they won't say it, because no one will hear it when you say it. Is it for a stranger on the street? Why do you want to talk to yourself, it is really strange, and it is indeed reminiscent of the mental abnormality of this person.

You need to build self-confidence.

Accept yourself. I don't care what other people think.

Relax. Peace of mind.

On the contrary, you will be able to use normal communication skills.

Caused by a bad mentality.

It's inferior.

Get out and see more and spend more time with friends. Give yourself positive psychological cues, affirm yourself more, and praise yourself!

Morning and evening go to unfamiliar places, quiet places, talk to yourself and give speeches, and then record them and take them home to listen to yourself.

Hello, stuttering is caused by nervousness, which can properly relieve your nervousness. Your social impairment should be related to your stuttering, and the interaction between the two can lead to a vicious cycle.

Do you stutter when you're with familiar friends? If it will, it means that you stutter in front of strangers, which is caused by too much nervousness, and in your case, you can consider medication**, and cooperate with psychological counseling.

In fact, it takes some time to train yourself to take a step forward. As long as you take that step, you will feel the different atmosphere.

It's okay to read more books, take it seriously, and it's done.

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