In real life, what kind of person has the bleakest evening scene?

Having a deposit is a person's self-confidence. People are old, penniless, and have no self-confidence in life. A few days ago, I accompanied my aunt to the hospital to get cold medicine.

I met an old man in his seventies, standing on crutches in the hospital payment hall to wipe his tears. It turned out that he had tuberculosis, but he had no money for treatment. His wife, who accompanied him to the doctor, also burst into tears.

The doctor told the old man that if there were more than 20,000, the disease could be cured, and the problem was not big. But more than 20,000 is an astronomical amount for the elderly.

My aunt said to me, "I know this old man. When I was young, I didn't study well, and I spent money ...... a lot"It turned out that the old man was the manager of a factory when he was young and had two houses in the county seat.

Later, he mortgaged all his houses and lost his job because of gambling. Now he has a retirement salary of more than 2,000 a month, but both husband and wife live on their own salaries, which is very difficult.

When people are old, they will always suffer in one way or another. If they are penniless and do not get time**, they will live in misery. And people can't borrow money when they're old, and others are worried that you can't afford to pay it back.

Sooner or later, evildoers will be rewarded. Many people, when they are young, live a day with nothing to do. When his parents were old, he ignored them and ate and drank outside.

People who are not filial to their parents feel good when they are young, and they will be rewarded when they are old. His children will also "follow the trend", have a bad attitude towards their parents and will not take care of them. A child's upbringing is greatly influenced by family style.

For example, a child sees his father and says to his grandfather, "You old thing, don't come to me for dinner in the future." After a while, the boy learned his father's words and said to his grandfather

Old thing, let me go. ”

People who are truly happy in their later years are very filial to their parents and have a good personality. Inspire your children through your words and deeds and establish a good family image. If you are not filial to your parents, don't expect your children to be filial to you.

When people get old, they can't walk, and children don't care anymore. Life is bleak.

There is an old saying in the countryside: "The eaves of water, little by little." That is to say, when it rains, the water on the eaves falls slowly, and no matter how strong the wind is, it will not fall very far. For example, a person's words and deeds have a great impact on the people around them, and no matter how far they go, they can't do without their family.

Most of the people who are miserable in the night scene have disharmony in their families, have no money, and even live apart. If you want to enjoy your old age in peace, you need to prepare in advance, earn more money, and love your family more.

Personally, I think that in real life, people who are reckless and arrogant when they are young, have no children, no savings, and no relatives have the most bleak evening life. Because these kinds of people have no one to accompany them in their old age, and there is no way to live.

The old age of a lonely person is the most miserable, because there is no one to accompany him, and no one cares about him when he is old, and no one has to support him, which is very pitiful and pathetic.

A lifetime of laziness and laziness, do not like to go to work, unkempt, speak without thinking, do things extremely, always offend people, have no tolerance, and treat children and lovers very badly.

When people reach old age, their children are not around, their wife has passed away, they are still sick, they live alone at home, and there is no one to take care of them, so this kind of old age is the most bleak.

If he doesn't seek to be motivated, he didn't create a world for himself when he was young, and when he is old, he will definitely be completely desolate, and it will not be good for his children, and when he is old, his children will definitely not care about him.

Personally, I think it's those who don't have children and are lonely, because such people will be very lonely and envious of others when they get old.

People who are stronger in real life have the bleakest evening scene because they don't want to show weakness. Perhaps the children feel that he does not need to be accompanied.

For what kind of person has the most bleak evening scene, you will definitely think of people who have no wife, no children, and no income The most desolate evening scene. But I often think that my old age will be bleak. <>

Although I am not currently in the range of having no wife, no children, and no income, I will definitely not be happy in my old age.

My wife is my wife, and in order to preserve the intact home, in order not to harm the growth and happiness of the children, the relationship between husband and wife without emotion has been maintained for nearly 40 years. Now and my wife have entered the old age, but the long-term accumulation of contradictions has not been resolved, the couple has almost no language communication every day, not the last resort to say, will not be easy to speak, really have to say something, but also have to think twice, otherwise, this sentence as soon as you come out, if you follow the other party's taste, you can avoid strong listening, not according to the other party's taste, either contradict, or the wind and wind sarcastic you a few words. It hurts more than a knife to hear.

It is difficult to communicate verbally, and usually only silence is used instead, and both sides treat each other as strangers. Such a husband and wife relationship neither thought of leaving, nor could they live like husband and wife, which is really rare. It is said that young couples come to old companions, and we are husband and wife who live together in name only, except for living in a room, we can no longer see the relationship between husband and wife.

People are getting old day by day, and what they are waiting for is the day when they will go west. I usually think that if my wife leaves me first, I still have to do my best, and when she can't take care of herself, I will do my best to take care of her. If I leave before her, I don't know what that day will be.

I have no savings, I can't afford to hire a babysitter, and I live on a little pension. I hope that I will not be sick for a long time, and once my body fails, I will end my life one day earlier and be relieved.

Old age is not bleak, and it is natural to think of children. Children are filial, of course aging parents don't have to worry, I don't have this blessing. I am an only daughter, but the only only daughter lives a not happy life, I have no job after being laid off, I don't want to look for a job, I divorced after more than a year of marriage, I live with my parents with a child under the age of one, and I rely on my pension to support the whole family expenses, which brings me a lot of pressure financially.

It's nothing, the only daughter is still uncomfortable, often losing her temper in front of me, either because the food is not fragrant, or because she didn't help her take care of the children, so angry that I almost feel hopeless about life. The only daughter doesn't communicate with us all day long, as if I have added to her burden. Such children are no different from families without children.

When it comes to the economy, I'm even more worried. The life of the family, relying only on my little pension expenses, has little left, no savings, moonlight. My wife's salary has not been taken out since the day I got married, and I have been responsible for the family expenses for decades.

This only daughter doesn't work by herself, and she drags a granddaughter to raise, how can she save money. The old wife who doesn't get along with each other, the only daughter who is ruthless and unjust, and I have no savings, what is the situation of the evening scene? You can imagine it.

The lonely and widowed elderly, as well as those whose children are not filial, have no life, and their later life is the most bleak.

Both children are complete, but no one is filial, no one is happy on their knees, a person is lonely, and the evening scene is bleak.

People who are selfish and mean, who cannot treat their children well, who are unable to work when they are old, and who cannot get along with their neighbors.

Those who are physically ill, who do not have basic living guarantees, who do not have hobbies to pass the time, and who do not have their own lives.

For most people, the standard of a happy life is nothing more than to rely on old age and eventually have something to support. The reason why many parents are so keen to urge men and women to get married early and have children early is nothing more than worrying that their children will be lonely when they grow up, and when they die as parents, their children may become bleak. But in fact, it is not that people who do not marry and have children will have a bleak life, nor that people who get married and have children will be happy in their old age.

People who are really bleak at night have the following characteristics, and I hope you don't have any of them.

1. Poverty and destitude.

Many people choose to be single, but they have a good job, enjoy all kinds of rights in society, are financially rich and rich, and can fully support their life in their old age. There are also people who have children and grandchildren in their later years, take their meager pensions, travel everywhere to eat, drink and have fun, and such people will not have a bleak night. And a person who is really desolate in his evening will definitely be a destitute person, who has lost the right to earn a living in his old age, but still has to live and wander around, or the days when he has eaten the last meal without the next meal, wearing single clothes in winter, and his family is surrounded by walls.

Such a poor life is the truest manifestation of a person's bleak evening.

Second, lonely and miserable.

People who have been single all their lives are not necessarily still lonely and lonely in old age. Although many people are single, their financial strength for many years can still allow them to live in a good nursing home, and they can talk and laugh with many other elderly people in the home, and they are very happy. And even if some people give birth to so many sons and daughters, when they are close to their prime, when they reach the age when they can't take care of themselves, there is no one to take care of them, and even they will not come back to visit you once for a long time, let alone pay to send you to a nursing home.

Such a family doesn't know how to describe it, and such an old man can be regarded as a bleak evening.

3. Sickness.

Whether it is young, middle-aged, or old, you don't want to have a sick and unhealthy body. We often say that the body is the capital of the revolution. No matter what you do, a good body and a healthy posture are very important.

However, after many people enter old age, their bodies will unconsciously expose various problems, and various unhealthy signals appear in the body. For us, a happy old age is definitely not spent in hospitals and intensive care units, and most people who are happy in their later years have a healthy body. Therefore, most of those who are miserable at night are old people who are sick.

First: Marriage teases and loses one's lover, the older you get, the more lonely you are, the young don't know how to cherish it, people are old, they have money or no money, they don't have a lover by their side, and life is not easy. Second:

When I was young, I didn't work hard to make money, I still loved to spend money indiscriminately, I didn't have savings when I was old, I had savings, and I had the confidence to be a person, and when I was old, I was penniless, and I had no confidence to live, and if I was sick, I didn't have the money to be hospitalized for treatment. Third: the temper is stinky and hard, and their families can not get along, people to old age, should restrain their temper, and live in harmony with their families, otherwise the children are not filial, and the lover will slowly alienate him, and finally end up in a bleak ending.

1.I lost my lover, and the older I get, the more lonely I become. 2.

When you are young, you spend money indiscriminately, and when you are old, you have no savings. 3.I have made a lot of friends, and I don't learn well in my life.

4.He has a bad temper and is hard, and he can't get along with his family.

The bleak evening scene is characterized by being very lonely without friends. There was no place to live, no one to talk to.

Lonely and alone, without children and the company of his wife; Those who have a bad temper and can't get along with their families will become more and more lonely; When I was young, I squandered it and didn't have any savings.

First of all, they don't have good living habits, and there will be some bad living habits in life, which can make them live very badly, and then they don't have a lot of income or don't have a lot of savings, and their life will definitely not be particularly good, and the evening scene will be bleak.

Generally, when they are young, they are more profligate, do not pay attention to frugality, do not leave any property for themselves and their children, and have a bad relationship with their children, and their later years are more bleak.

People who are usually very proud and look down on no one may be more desolate in their old age, because they have no friends around them.

Introverted and short-tempered, not easy to fit in, can't think about many things, mainly due to intolerance and intolerance caused by personality.

People who have no sense of responsibility, who only care about their own time and drink, and ignore their wives and children, are easy to end up alone.

People who are particularly prone to sentimentality will feel desolate as soon as they see the sunset.

A family that has no family background of its own in his life is the most prone to a bleak evening, because this kind of person is also a person when he is old.

That is the person who has a particularly big temper, and then when he is young, he will do whatever it takes to benefit himself.