How should we understand that the divorce rate of remarried couples is very high?

Divorced people generally have character defects, their earning ability is not very good, remarriage with a child, the relationship is complicated, the first marriage is their own children or even no children can not handle the relationship well, and the second marriage is even more difficult to deal with. The purpose of remarriage is too strong and there are few feelings, marrying a man dresses and eats, he is slightly dissatisfied, and he leaves as soon as the enthusiasm passes, which proves that he has already left once, and he has no fear of the future.

The meaning of this sentence is that in fact, if two people remarry in life, they may both have their own children. So every time there is a quarrel over this matter, the divorce rate of the last two people will be particularly high, because remarriage and divorce are not the same.

The choice of second marriage is also small, which is equivalent to the people who are married and have picked a wave of leftovers, there must be some problems, but if you can get married, you will not leave, and then the older ones are also left, and the second marriage has children more difficult to manage than the first marriage, plus the quality of the elimination is poor, and the marriage is definitely not easy to manage.

The premise of second marriage is to be able to have a common direction to "give priority to and effectively deal with the problem of children", but the reality is that many second marriages often attribute the conflicts in life to the children, thinking that the children affect the world of the two and create conflicts.

It can be understood that such couples are not particularly familiar with each other, and they are married for the second time, so it will lead to an increase in the divorce rate, which will lead to their inability to continue to live.

Trust is the foundation of a long-term relationship, and it is difficult for a person who has been hurt to trust others completely, and suspicion is like cancer cells that can easily spread and cause the trust relationship to collapse quickly.

Because they have a lot of concerns, they need to face a lot of problems in the process of getting along, and there may be disagreements in these issues.

Both people have a lot of concerns, and slowly some quarrels will occur, which will eventually lead to a breakdown of the relationship. This is quite normal.

I don't know, I haven't remarried, but it's better to make more money and have a chance to have a few children.

The marriage of a man and a woman is a combination made in heaven, and marriage entrusts all the beauty in the world. But for various reasons, it still can't stop the beautiful marriage from falling apart.

It is not uncommon to remarry after divorce and divorce again after remarriage. According to social surveys, the remarriage rate of both men and women in China after divorce has reached 60%, and the divorce rate after remarriage is as high as 80%!

For people who have been divorced many times, most of the reasons are attributed to their own reasons.

1. Too hasty to remarry.

Most divorced people will have low self-esteem, pain, isolation, remorse, and hatred psychologically. After divorce, many people do not adapt to a person's life, are afraid of other people's fingers, and are afraid that as they grow older, they will have less and less capital to remarry. Especially divorced women are very cheap, this is an undeniable fact.

So at this time, they will be yelling and thinking about remarrying. The lack of in-depth understanding of the remarriage partner leads to various life inadaptations after remarriage, and the new appointment may not be as good as the predecessor. As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.

As the saying goes, if you want to hurry, you can't reach it. However, those who are divorced because it is difficult to adapt to a person's life for a while, and they are afraid of facing other people's pointing or afraid that it will be difficult to remarry when they are older, will completely ignore such a law, so it is inevitable to eat cold tofu after remarriage. After ending an unhappy marriage, people who are in a hurry to remarry, before they reach the other side of Xingtuchafu, are very likely to fall into the sad Pacific Ocean again.

2. Being too nostalgic for the previous marriage.

People who divorce for the first time often have inherent flaws in their personalities, and may be too willful to tolerate each other's shortcomings. But in principle, the first marriage is the result of my free marriage choice, and I still have some nostalgia, and I can't get out after remarriage, and I always like to compare my new appointment with my predecessor. Especially when the new appointment is not as good as the predecessor, there is often the idea of divorce again.

Some people in the relationship, after going around and around, will still choose to come back, divorce and remarry, and finally be the same person at the beginning.

3. Have a spiritual cleanliness for marriage.

Marriage is clean because it does not stand up to any emotional blemishes and stains. Both men and women in marriage should have a good sense of proportion, and overemphasizing the purity of marriage often backfires, and it is not a relief to properly accept each other's imperfections. It is very dangerous for a person who has no sense of proportion to enter into marriage, because he (she) may detonate the fuse at any time.

Whether it's a man or a woman, please grasp this sense of proportion.

According to social surveys, the divorce rate for remarriage is 80%.

In fact, even though it is after the divorce, there will still be some feelings between the two people, even if the two people are divorced, they don't even have any feelings, and they haven't seen each other for a long time.

But in his heart, he can't erase his ex, there will always be a shadow of his ex in his heart, and many times some of his habits are also developed because of the other party.

Therefore, between second-married couples, if they can't tolerate this, they are destined to quarrel because of this.

Whether it is a man or a woman, they will be very protective of their children, especially women, and sometimes they will even regard their children as much more important than themselves.

Many second-married couples will bring their children to their second-married families, but to a certain extent, this becomes a barrier between two people.

After all, the other party is just the child's stepfather, or stepmother, and many things are actually taken into account in his heart, and he will always be separated by the bridge of his heart.

It is precisely because the previous marriage has failed, so everyone will be hit a little bit, and they will see through a lot in terms of marriage, so when they remarry, they will actually have some reservations.

will no longer be like the first marriage to pay for each other without reservation.

Many times, for people who have never been divorced, divorce may be a terrible thing; But in the minds of many divorced people, divorce is an option that can be considered and enforced.

1. The situation faced by remarriage is often more complicated than that of the first marriage, first of all, the psychological shadow caused by the previous marriage, and the psychology may be more defensive; Secondly, there may be problems with children, ex-wives (ex-husbands), and parents who will test their marital life.

2. In the end, the remarried parties often do not realize that Gao Qin recognizes their own problems, and rashly chooses to divorce, and continues to have the original wrong ideas and practices in the new marriage, which leads to the recurrence of the problem.