Obviously not in love, not divorced, who is more tragic?

I think both husband and wife are losers, there are no winners, because a marriage that has lost love is purely a promise, that is, it is wasting time, and like chicken ribs, it feels uninteresting, and both of them have wasted their good time.

I think it's the women who are even more tragic. After all, a woman's youth is limited, if she doesn't love it, then leave as soon as possible, at least her youth is still there, she can still stand the toss, and she can find someone to love.

Obviously not in love, unwilling to divorce but consumed, the really miserable and tragic is always the weak side. Since there is no love, then leave happily, without entanglement and consumption. Loving yourself well is meant to last a lifetime.

In this way, we can fight against the sorrows and sorrows in life.

In real life, there are many couples whose relationship is already in name only, and they have a lot of concerns about each other and want to divorce and dare not pay for practice, but there are still some people who think that the other party has paid themselves and don't want to make each other feel better. In their hearts, they just want to consume each other, and they want each other to understand the fate of offending themselves.

So, if there is no affection between husband and wife, who suffers the most if they don't divorce? The answer is not necessarily, the specific problem is analyzed, I will share it with you here, if there is any supplement, please leave a message to discuss.

The woman suffers

I don't want to divorce and keep consuming with men, so I can only let myself fall into passivity, and when I am old and decrepit, Fanghua has passed away, I can't make up for it, and it's too late to regret it.

Men suffer

Men love women and don't want to divorce women but keep consuming, which will only make men fall into the whirlpool of feelings, which will only make women hate men more and more.

Whoever has more possessions and who has more ability cannot afford to spend it

Not divorcing will give the other party a sum of property. If the other party is very strong and can't get married, you can only watch half of your property go to someone you don't love. Probably his losses were the greatest. This is called "losing the wife and breaking the soldiers".

Both sides lose, no one has an advantage, and the two are dragged until they are exhausted and scarred

And this spiritual wound is very difficult**, they are full of fear of love and marriage. If two people do not divorce because they are dragging their feet, it will be difficult for their children to be caught in the middle, and it will also affect the inner development of their children.

In fact, if two people don't love each other, they will divorce, and let him go. Consuming each other will only make the two people grudge deeper.

Letting go is rebirth, maybe letting go of this tattered relationship will usher in the brilliant sunrise of tomorrow.

In fact, for both parties, divorce has a certain harm, even if one party drags on not divorcing, the harm caused is mutual. At this time, the party who is resolutely divorced can end this life through litigation divorce, and generally speaking, if the court finds that the relationship between the parties has broken down, it will support the divorce.

The relationship has come to an end, and many families have chosen to divorce, but we don't want to see it this far. Today's couples are generally younger, and most couples divorce because of emotional impulses and misunderstandings and blind spots in their own marriages.

The divorce rate of the post-80s generation is high, and sometimes one or two sentences of quarrel will make a fuss about divorce, and some even bring children to handle the divorce, which makes people feel sad, divorce for young children, their fate has taken a major turn.

If this is a war, then no matter what, there is only one ending in the end, and that is to lose both. If you can't fit together, it's better to divide it well.

There is no point in not getting divorced and not being able to afford it.

It's a kind of torture for both parties, since there is no love, then leave happily, without entanglement, without consumption. Love yourself well, only in this way can you fight the sorrows and sorrows in life.

From the perspective of fertility, men can afford it more. Man is a rational animal. They can stay in the same room as someone they don't like.

They don't say they can stand it, but women are different. Women are even more stingy. It's uncomfortable to breathe the air of a place with someone you don't like.

They are often angry with themselves. People often get angry and get sick easily.

If there is no need for this marriage to be maintained, it will not benefit either of us. Although we can't continue our marriage relationship, it's better not to be enemies!

Not getting divorced, of course, is good for women.