Why am I growing up so slowly? Why do some people grow so slowly?

Your question is relatively long, but after a brief look, the main problem should be that there are some problems in the way and method of your work, because if you have been working for two years and have not figured out the basic operation routine of this company and the relationship between departments, then it may be that you have some small obstacles in personal communication, and it is recommended that you communicate more with your colleagues and carry out more activities with your colleagues. To put it bluntly, it is to go to drink, eat, and there are a lot of things on the table, and they will confess to you, and of course you will learn more, and they are not willing to tell you things.

This situation is actually quite common.

A few points can be inferred from your description:

1. You've been working for two years. But it seems that I haven't learned anything in practice, maybe there is no one to train, or it may be that I haven't summarized it in my actual work.

2. As soon as you ask for advice, you are said? And then usually you are in a situation where you are scolded and counted.

Based on the above two points, there is a high probability that your unit is snubbing you and forcing you to resign voluntarily.

If you have always wanted to improve yourself but can't find a way, you can learn through relevant professional books, or go outside to communicate and learn from seniors in the same industry; But this doesn't seem to be reflected in your description, nor does it say what your job is.

But more importantly, it is very likely that your current employer does not need you (if your work is important, no one will count you down all day long, scold you and not give you training), I suggest that you find other jobs that you are familiar with as soon as possible, and go to other places that are friendly to you to learn and improve yourself.

But then again, if it's not for the above reasons, then you have to reflect on whether there are problems in your usual behavior, work attitude, work completion, etc., which causes everyone to hate you?

You have been working in one place for two years, and you have to learn to judge if the job is right for you. Either you don't know how to look for other resources outside or don't have the way to find a channel, so you can only work in this place; Either that, you think the job is promising.

On the other hand, your description is a bit vague to be honest. Neither your work nor your specific situation is reflected. Is there something ambiguous about your expression? You need to find out for yourself.

It's not that you're slowing down, it's that you're not finding the right way to solve problems. No matter what work you do, there will always be someone who will do it, no one wants to teach you, you just secretly observe and learn, study more things that others do, learn more about this knowledge, you can also communicate with others more, and if you have the opportunity, you can invite familiar teachers to eat, let them impart experience, and there will be fewer detours. There is nothing difficult in the world, just be afraid of people with hearts, be a person with a heart, and your difficulties and problems will be solved gradually.

It's because you haven't had someone or something that has made you grow, which is not a bad thing, and it means that you have been loved and pampered.

Growth takes time. But it doesn't mean that you will be able to grow as long as you put in the time and effort, and the growth is simply a comparison with yourself, something you wouldn't have done before. It will be now, what has been done before, can be better done in the future.

Some people don't grow, not that they don't have the ability. It is also possible that the chosen profession and oneself are not suitable. One should strive to understand oneself objectively.

Be sure to figure out where you are. Don't be blind and keep being small. It's a process of growth.

01.Disguise. I don't realize that sometimes I or the people around me are unwilling to expose their ignorance, or they are unwilling to admit their shortcomings, and find all kinds of excuses to disguise themselves, never looking for reasons in themselves, but looking for reasons in people outside, such people slowly become old fritters, because they disguise their ignorance, they are also afraid of being hurt, and their inner lack leads to such a result

02.Because. Because they just want to be a powerful person in the eyes of others, a person with a high level of awareness in the eyes of others, they seek outward rather than inward, so they are all floating on the surface and not internalized in their hearts.

03.Admit. Admitting one's ignorance is often the first step in seeking knowledge, daring to face one's own shortcomings, asking others for advice or self-study to read books and read courses, will make oneself grow faster, and continuous reflection is the ultimate in one's growth

Growing up is a long process, some people grow up very quickly, understand the world very early, life is like a fish in water, some people grow very slowly, and may not be able to live and understand in their lifetime. I am the latter, I have passed the age of standing, but I am still very naïve, I still live a difficult life, and I am still felt by many people, including myself.

I've been looking for where to go, but I've found nothing so far. I want to change myself, change my temper, change the way I speak, change my inertia, change my cognition, and learn more about the world. But progress remains slow.

The road ahead remains a blur.

There was a feeling of suffocation all the time, as if the fish had been thrown on land, or in a pool of water that was about to dry up. I have been struggling to find a water source and let myself breathe freely, but when I look around, there is no trace of the water source at all, I am afraid, I am at a loss, am I just suffocating to death?

No, I can't go on like this, I must find my own water source, live freely in Li Kuan, and appreciate the beauty of the world. I can't survive in this pool of water that is about to dry up. I'm going to break through the mud and find the creek, the river and even the sea.