Why do so many couples who seem to be in love suddenly want to divorce?

First, because many emotions are invincible to reality.

As I said above, many couples love each other at the same time, even though they seem to be in a very good relationship. But because there are many practical problems between two people, the most typical problem is economic problems. If the economic conditions of a family are not good, the husband and wife will quarrel over various trivial things, and the quarrel will consume the patience of the two people very much, and at the same time, it will further affect the emotions of the two people.

When this happens too many times, the two people will suffer, and this time it will end in divorce. It's not that two people don't love each other anymore, but because the lives of two people make it difficult for two people to get a normal lifestyle.

Second, many people will also blindly marry for the sake of feelings.

Falling in love and getting married are two different things, and feelings are definitely not the whole of life. Some people never think about practical issues before they get married, such as the family match we often mention. When falling in love, feelings seem to occupy an absolute proportion, but when two people really enter the palace of marriage, real life is the main factor that determines whether two people can be together.

When our expectations for the future are getting higher and higher, our lives are getting worse and worse, which will inevitably cause people to have a psychological gap, and feelings seem to be less important in front of marriage.

It is not surprising that couples who seem to be in love suddenly divorce. Such couples are generally good at pretending to be affectionate in front of outsiders. Husbands and wives do not treat each other sincerely, in order to hide people's eyes and ears, each has their own hearts, and over time, conflicts erupt and cause the relationship to break down.

It seems that affection may not want the outside world to find out for various reasons, and it may be some kind of community of interests that maintains a precarious marriage. Sudden divorce may be that there is no interest in it, or it may be unbearable.

It may be caused by long-term disappointment, as well as small things that slowly accumulate.

It seems that affection is deliberately created by the characters.

1.Whether the shoe fits or not, only the foot knows.

2.What you want to see won't let you know what's behind it.

3.Contradictions are accumulating, but they have reached a boiling point.

4.There are always things in life that are caught off guard.

God has his own arrangement, and it is not up to anyone at all.

Some couples obviously love each other very much, why do they want to divorce because the husband and wife have no feelings and no love together, and they don't have a common language, although they love each other very much in their hearts, but it's not that kind of love, two people don't have a common language together, or the other party has no money and no ability to make money, and can't satisfy their lives, so they want to divorce, and there is no way that two people are no longer suitable...

There are a lot of such situations, obviously they love each other very much, but if they want to divorce, it may be because there are too many family conflicts This is the advantage of being the right person, the other party's family situation does not allow this person to stay here, even if they love each other very much, but there is no way but to choose divorce.

Some couples love each other very much, but they still choose to divorce. The main thing is the divorce filed by the other party. Although he loves each other very much, the other party has filed for divorce and has changed his mind. So they had to agree to the divorce.

will obviously love each other very much and want to divorce because there is a problem with the way they get along with each other, and there is no way to stick to it anymore, and some people's feelings are not back to the time when everything has changed, it is better to let go as soon as possible, so that life may become better.

Some couples obviously love each other very much, but it was only before marriage, and then, their relationship faded, or broke down, or they no longer had any feelings for the marriage, and they would go to divorce.

Although some couples obviously love each other very much, the reason why they want to divorce is for the sake of face, and generally couples feel that they can't get over face after quarreling, so they will insist on divorce

Husbands and wives originally loved each other, but many people eventually came to the point of divorce, mainly trivial things, and they refused to give in.

This is because although these couples love each other very much, they do not have a good way of getting along with each other, and there is a run-in between the two people, so they still have to divorce.

Marriage is not a matter of one person, marriage is a matter of two families, sometimes the husband and wife have nothing to do, but the other party's family members give the two of them, causing a bad experience, which may also lead to divorce.

Because there is a problem in the life of two people, or the direction of development is completely different, there will be some differences, so they will choose to divorce.

It may just be that you see them love each other on the outside, but in fact, they don't love each other, so they divorced, and you are surprised and think it's impossible.

This kind of person is an impatient person, a person with strong self-esteem, who is in a hurry to quarrel and divorce when he encounters a little trouble.

Maybe those loves are just love on the surface, and there is not much love in the heart at all, and everyone can't see it clearly, so there is such an illusion.

In fact, everyone hopes that their marriage can be happy, and even go to the end of their life with him. In fact, there must be some very loving couples around us, but they suddenly divorced one day, and even many celebrity couples are the same, they used to be called model couples, but in the end they also separated, why is this?

For outsiders, in fact, what we see is just what they want us to see, that is to say, their affection is likely to be just acted, and in fact, there is no love between the two of them. So at this time, the love between the two of them will become a doubt in our minds, obviously the two of them were so affectionate before, why did they suddenly divorce. If they just want to maintain the image of a loving couple in our hearts, it makes sense.

In fact, it is very likely that the love between the two of them behind this is already rotten, and the two of them can actually come to the step of breaking up and divorce a long time ago, but the two of them still want to try again, and go a little longer, will it be different? I think most people may have this kind of luck in their hearts, but at this time, most of them have no effect, and two people who want to break up and want to divorce will not, because they will fall in love with each other again and go on with each other again after walking for a while.

So the two of them didn't divorce suddenly, it's just that we saw it more suddenly, and it is very likely that in this married life, there has been the last straw that overwhelmed the two of them. Sometimes, the marriage of two people is just a last-minute life, for the sake of two families and for their children, but in fact, two people no longer love each other. At this time, there only needs to be a small thing that can reveal one of the parties, and then this love will come to an end.

Because their feelings were conflicted a long time ago, there was a crack in their relationship, and it was not a sudden divorce.

It's because they've been together for a long time, and both parties don't chat, they don't care about each other's thoughts, and they don't maintain their feelings.

Because in fact, they are just special love in front of outsiders, and there have been many problems in their relationship and marriage, but most people don't know it.

The common people widely believe that women should be obedient and smart to be liked by some people, and it is also stipulated that women should be willing to dedicate and open-minded, only such a woman can have a better marriage and future. But I don't know that a woman who grows up in this kind of traditional family will subconsciously please her marriage after getting married, give to her lover regardless of gains and losses, and slowly become a victim of marriage.

Originally, many women looked very good to others, and they were very good to the family and their husbands, and there was almost no quarrel between husband and wife, and in the end men would still not hesitate to break up and complete this kind of marriage that seemed to be very happy and harmonious. That's because of this kind of woman, this kind of marriage can cause a very big sense of oppression for men. Two people are together in addition to the trivialities in life, talking about children every day, talking about oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, for a long time, no one can stand such a boring marriage.

I once asked a male friend if he would like to accept a marriage where there is no quarrel and the couple's life is very simple, and he did not hesitate on the spot. He feels like a couple of sex.

It's okay to work hard, and there's nothing wrong with being bland. But there is no quarrel between the couple, and it is abnormal when they hear it.

But the most important thing is whether the relationship between husband and wife can resolve the conflict and turn the conflict into happiness in life, only such a marriage will be more interesting. Women who do their best in those marriages will make men ignore you even more. Marriage requires fairness, justice and tolerance, and only by giving and tolerating each other can we be happy.

If one person is willing to give, and the other is accepted as a matter of course, then the marriage has no meaning.

A hard-working marriage can only give a woman an inexhaustible heart, a face that is becoming yellower and yellower, and hands that are getting rougher and rougher. It is worth mentioning that some women will also be diligent in trying to keep their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after having a child.

between husband and wife, I didn't see the man's contribution.

At this stage, social development is strict enough for women, not only requiring them to grasp their careers and families, but also making them work for all kinds of daily life. Especially in solving these problems, if there is a slight mistake or omission, they will be reprimanded in various ways, causing them to have a negative and pessimistic attitude. A happy marriage is not about changing the status quo for the other party, but only about making yourself happier because of the other party, which is the essence of a real marriage.

Only by allowing yourself to live well and be your true self can men see your temperament. Only when the self-confident charm is released can a man be attracted in marriage. What a woman needs in the process of marriage is not to make concessions, but to be cumbersome and complicated in the daily life of marriage.

The main reason for the most wild celebration is that these husbands and wives are together completely for the sake of the children, and the eldest has already had very serious problems and conflicts with each other, but they just endure each other.

Couples make up their minds to be with their significant other, usually because they love each other, understand each other, and are able to work through difficulties and challenges together. Some common causes may include:

1.Emotional traction: Couples may have a strong mutual attraction and emotional pull that makes them want to be together.

2.Career and family support: Both parties support each other in professional and family life, motivate each other, and overcome difficulties and challenges together.

3.Trust and respect: Couples build strong trust and respect, are able to be open and honest with each other, and understand each other's needs.

4.Common goals and values: Both parties share similar or identical goals, values, and philosophies of life, so they can share life and dreams.

For couples who are determined to be with their significant other, it is recommended that both partners maintain good communication and respect in the marriage, learn to be honest with each other, share thoughts and feelings, and support each other's needs and dreams.

When faced with difficulties and challenges, we must deal with them together and support each other. If there are conflicts and disagreements between husband and wife, you can try marriage** or seek professional help. Most importantly, both partners need to do their best to maintain a healthy, long, and happy marriage.

In addition, couples should also maintain mutual understanding and tolerance, and try to avoid blaming and attacking each other. They can listen attentively to each other's opinions and opinions, communicate and explore solutions to problems.

At the same time, they can also choose some meaningful activities and projects to spend quality time together and enhance their bond and sense of interdependence. Creative joint activities, such as practicing yoga and learning a new language or skill, can strengthen the bond between couples.

Finally, in order to maintain a healthy and long married life, couples need to manage themselves, such as maintaining a healthy lifestyle and actively managing stress and anxiety. This will make them not only more emotionally connected, but also more confident and purposeful in life.

In addition to being based on love, marriage must also have children as a bond in order to be more stable and stronger. Except, of course, the Dinks.

I'm not saying that having children makes a marriage necessarily indestructible and unbreakable. But with children, both husband and wife will have a greater sense of responsibility, more attachment to marriage and family, will not be easily lost in the emotional world, and will take care of children in everything they do.

In life, some couples don't want to have children so soon, but they get pregnant unexpectedly and have to enter the role of father and mother in advance. And some couples want to have children very much, but they can't conceive anything, so they look for doctors everywhere for secret recipes. People dig out their blindness, and it is really difficult for each to do it.

Yesterday I talked to a reader, she told about her emotional experience, and she really felt sorry for her after listening to it. She just got married and never got pregnant.