Is it better for a divorced woman with children to remarry or remarry?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-27
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If it were me, I would think that it is not good for a divorced woman with children to remarry, and it is even worse to remarry, and it is better not to get married. Because a woman still has children when she divorces, there are only two reasons, one is that she likes children very much, and she is worried that her children will suffer if they stay with their fathers or be abused by their stepmothers, so they can do without anything else, and they must have children. The second is that he doesn't really want to keep the children, but if he doesn't agree to take the children away, the ex-husband will not agree to the divorce, and in order to get rid of this hated marriage, he has no choice but to agree to keep the children.

    If you are a divorced woman who likes children very much, then most of the children are the whole of her life, if she remarries, how do you know if her future husband will like this child? What if the remarried husband also has children of his own? How can this bowl of water be served flat?

    From ancient times to the present, let alone a remarried family, even if it is the original parents, it is impossible to treat all children equally, let alone children who are not related by blood. So, since no one can guarantee that after remarrying, they can still feel sorry for their children as always, so why remarry? Of course, if two people are just angry and divorced for some small reasons, then it is still okay to want to remarry after careful consideration.

    If it was a divorced woman who had to leave her children behind in order to get out of the nightmare of marriage, I would not recommend remarriage or remarriage. Marriage is a gamble, how do you know that you really met your lover when you remarry? If you don't meet a lover, you may get divorced again and leave one more child.

    If you meet a loved one, you may feel that the child is a burden, and you may abuse the child you don't want with your lover, so that the child will live in a deep and hot life for a long time, and there have been several cases of this. So for the sake of the child, such a woman should not remarry! Even if you don't have much love for your child, at least you can let your child live safely.

    Not to mention remarriage, since it is a marriage that wants to break away from everything, then there is no turning back.

    Of course, I am not saying that a divorced woman with children must not remarry or remarry, in today's society, women have their own piece of heaven, do not have to rely on others, and have the ability to support themselves and their children. What you need to choose is a lifestyle that makes you happier and happier, rather than choosing a marriage and living in pain for the sake of the so-called face. Children are actually very smart, and his perception is also very keen, not to say that if he is given a sound family, he will feel happy, as long as he feels enough care and love, even if he grows up in a single-parent family, he will still feel very happy.

    If you have to choose between remarriage and remarriage, I think as long as the woman who chooses to divorce is not because of domestic violence, it is better to remarry, because how many of the current marriages are really together because of love? It is better to choose an unfamiliar person to live with than to get old with a familiar person, at least two people have a common child as a twist.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's hard to say, in fact, as long as this woman is good enough, then it should be easy to find.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For the sake of their children, many women would rather choose to stick to a marriage that is nothing but a fictitious marriage and suffer a lot.

    There are also people who, for the sake of their children, will remarry even if they are divorced.

    Do you think you should remarry for the sake of your children after divorce?

    Do you think you will be happy after remarriage? What should I pay attention to when remarrying?

    After remarriage, will the children be happy? Actually, I don't think there is a standard answer to this question. Matter.

    If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place. You have to think about why you got divorced in the first place.

    If you choose to remarry just for the sake of your children, I don't think it makes much sense.

    If your essential problems are not resolved, you will still be unhappy after remarriage.

    An unhappy marriage is harmful to the growth of children. I think that regardless of whether you remarry or not, the most important thing is how much love a woman is willing to give to her brother! A discordant marriage is not conducive to the growth of children.

    And some will also bring a shadow to the child. This is a particularly heavy topic! If you love your child, guide him correctly, tell him how much you love him, and care about him all the time, you need to do a lot of it, and you have to think about whether you can stick to it.

    Many people may be mistaken, the best love parents give their children is not to give him a seemingly complete family.

    Only when your husband and wife have a harmonious relationship, the family will be warm, there will be love in the family, and the children can get better physical and mental growth. A real complete family is not renting Minxi's parents are there, but that parents love each other.

    Saying that blindly remarrying for the sake of the child will bring more serious harm to the child.

    The growth of children is inseparable from the love of their parents, but it is also inseparable from the surrounding environment. Endless bickering, frequent cold violence, stranger selfishness, and more! Regardless of the environment, it will change the fate of the child, and become extremely selfish, irritable and withdrawn, and inferior and cowardly.

    Therefore, children are one of the important factors that need to be considered in the matter of remarriage, but they must not be the key factor in remarriage.

    The most tragic kind of remarriage is none other than this one. chose to remarry for the sake of the child, but after remarrying, he not only ruined himself, but also ruined the child.

    In a sense, the harm caused to the children by an unhappy family is often greater than the harm caused by divorce.

    After a divorce, can a husband and wife remarry for the sake of their children?

    You can choose to remarry, but not just because of or for the children. It should be because they still have each other in their hearts, and they still want to maintain that home, and finally give their children a truly complete home.

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