Why is it that most men are affectionate in relationships, and it is always women who are hurt?

This is because men are relatively rational and women are relatively emotional, men are not easy to reveal their emotions, and women are often lackingA sense of security, men are firm-minded, women are delicate.

Men and women are born different, whether it is for feelings or for life, their thinking is different from women's. The reason why we find that men are too ruthless in a relationship is because these have a lot to do with their thinking and expression of emotions, so they feel that women are always hurt more when they break up.

Men are relatively rational by nature, whether they are facing their own feelings or facing the problems they encounter in life, they will go through their own thinking logic.

To solve such a thing, it will not be too emotional, that is, it will not be emotional. Men think that love is love, then it is simpler, it is enough to be together, if you don't love, it is good to separate, there is no need to continue to entangle, and it will be more ruthless about this. Then when there is a problem in their relationship, they will leave very decisively, and women are often too emotional and will be immersed in pain, so they will feel that it is always themselves who are hurt, in fact, men will also be hurt, but they are not good at expressing it.

It's the same thing, there is a very big difference between a man's performance and a woman's performance. Men will think that they will take the responsibility and will not drag the mud and water, so they will be very decisive when it is time to make decisions. Women are often prone to insecurity in relationships, this is because they are too dependent on this man, and men understand that they have more responsibilities and must be strong, so they don't have too many emotional things.

In the face of such a situation, when breaking up, men will appear more unkind.

In this regard, I personally believe that if a woman wants not to be hurt in her feelings, she must learn from men, learn to protect herself, and have a very firm belief. Don't rely too much on men, otherwise it will hurt more, we are very delicate and delicate, but it does not mean that we can be indecisive.

Women are more emotional, they pay more in the relationship, men are more rational, they care more about some interests, so only women are hurt.

Because men are very rational, women are more emotional, women pay more attention to whether men love themselves, especially love men, and generally men rarely think about such issues.

Because men and women think differently, men are more rational and women are more emotional, so most of the people who are hurt in the relationship are women.

The man who loves you will not lose his temper with you, will not murder you, and bully you as a soft persimmon. The man who loves you will not accuse you for no reason, deliberately find fault with you, and belittle you to nothing. Since he fell in love with you, he will let you, get used to you, take the initiative to admit to you, and you have become his greater weakness.

The most obvious change in a man who loves you deeply is actually three words: "cowardice", "softness", and "warmth".

I won't believe in love, I'll live a good life, I'll work hard, I'll learn, I'll improve my ability, and I'll have these performances in my treatment of women and life.

They will have a certain fear of girls, and they will involuntarily have an inferiority complex in front of each other, and they are always very cautious in life and unwilling to deal with girls too much.

Some men, whose emotional intelligence is too low in marriage, obviously have some wrong behaviors, but they don't realize it at all, and they have let their behavior break women's hearts. So what are the behaviors of men that make women's hearts chill?

1.No comments.

Marriage is a woman's second life. It can be said that in marriage, men are a woman's greatest support, not only financially, but also spiritually. When things happen, men can take on the role of pillars, and women will feel safe.

But some men have no opinions about marriage at all, and listen to their mother's words, they are often called Ma Baonan. I don't know how everyone feels about this kind of man. If her husband is such a person, the woman will find it very hard.

2.Quarrels never make a woman.

When you see this, what words come to mind to describe this kind of man? Narrow-minded, low-key, etc., in fact, this kind of man can't make close friends in life, let alone the relationship between the family and his wife. Couples often quarrel with each other.

Some men may be silent, while others may admit their mistakes as soon as possible. However, even if such a man is wrong, he must argue hard, be aggressive, and have the upper hand. It seems that only by beating his wife can he guarantee his status in the family.

And they don't realize that this kind of behavior will chill their wives, and even take it for granted. Otherwise, how could there be a husband at home?

I don't know if there are any men with these two behaviors, but many fans privately message that their husbands are like this, which is too machismo. In fact, women give up a warm family, give up the meticulous love of their parents, choose to live with you, help you take care of the family, and honor the elderly, because they love you, so men should be generous, take family responsibilities well, and don't regret it until they lose.

If a man is not considerate enough, it will make a woman regret marrying him After marriage, he will pay more attention to his career, treat one day as three days, and do not want to delay every minute. In my spare time, there is less and less time for dating. Even when I get home, I hide in my bedroom after eating and study the big things to make money.

But not only does the woman not understand, but she will also quarrel with her husband and regret marrying him. Not only would I tell my parents about these things, but I would also bother with my divorce. So, it's because women aren't sensible enough to establish communication with men.

I didn't go into a man's life, I just complained that my husband was inconsiderate and didn't accompany him. The more such a marriage comes to an end, the more contradictions there will be, and you can only break up and let the two settle down.

A woman's mood will often be ignored. Even if a woman is very sad and you don't care, then it will completely break the woman's heart.

Knowing that you are not like that and hating that, he still insists on saying that you are particularly disgusted, you are sincere to her, but she says that you are for his money, or for her interests.

1.Men are very perfunctory to women, for example: women ask me if my lipstick looks good today, and men don't even look at women, so they reply: Well, it's good-looking.

2.Men are indifferent to women and don't care, for example, women say I accidentally scratched my hand today, and men say, "Oh."

3.Men don't care about women's affairs, for example, women ask men to buy something back, but no matter how many times they remind them, men end up forgetting about them.

4.Men don't mean to introduce women to their friends or newcomers.

5.Anything is more important than a woman

These things will hurt a woman's heart, specifically: ignoring it, not caring about it, followed by not contacting after work, not going home, going to nightclubs and other places, and forgetting to give her gifts on various festivals and birthdays.

If a boy often perfunctory to women, often lose his words in the face of promises, and have a very perfunctory attitude towards girls, or even very cold, I think it won't be long before more enthusiastic girls will be heartbroken.

Machismo, too strong, and wanting to control women is often the easiest to hurt women.

has no responsibility, evades by herself in case of trouble, and lets women face many problems.

It's so lazy to do it, and it's still messing with flowers and grass outside.

Good at gambling, good at drinking, never knew how to accompany his wife.

1. Hit a woman, a woman must remember to stay as far away from him as she wants after meeting this kind of man. 2. Cold War, this practice will make you feel helpless. 3. Misbehave and engage in ambiguity with other women.

Don't communicate with women, dislike women, feel that women's level is not worthy of themselves, have violent tendencies, two people together is to communicate with each other more, love also needs to have preservatives, if you feel that some aspects of women are too wide, you can go out to see the world in your spare time, and the harm of general violence to women is the most.