21 years old, I haven t been in a relationship yet, I want and I m afraid

Got a job at 21? It's not simple. 21 is still early. However, when you meet the right one, you will shoot when it is time to shoot, brother, rush.

Introversion can be cultivated, don't lock yourself up, it's time to talk, it's time to laugh It's all people who have worked, and what are you afraid of When it's not necessary, you can read more books on communication

If you like it, confess it, not to mention that people have hinted at you, what are you afraid of Just like the first floor said, try it, and when you meet the right one, you will shoot when you should shoot

Since someone is willing to pave the way for you, you should have enough courage to go down. Let's reach out to women. In this way, you can understand women better and find your other half.

There is nothing wrong with a single-parent family, as long as there is love, you can still live a very happy life, I am a single-parent family now, but there is nothing unhappy. Remember, a two-parent family is not necessarily happier than a single-parent family. Mothers don't represent all women, so even if you have a mother, it doesn't mean that you can understand women, don't keep giving yourself this box, use it to step out!

Be confident! It's good to feel like a big man in front of a woman! Choose a girl you like, have more contact with her, and go with the flow! Another point is not to be shy with girls, be bold and thick-skinned!

Go ahead boldly! Believe in yourself, you can! Treat others with sincerity, and you will surely be happy! Don't have any shadows! Believe it, tomorrow will be a beautiful day!

I think you haven't met the person you really like yet, but when you meet the person you love the most, I don't think you will feel scared!!

21 years old still said early, I came out to mix at the age of eighteen, the boy was three years old and set at eighty, give yourself more confidence, don't be afraid, the man can afford to put it down,

Slowly, you will meet the people you love.

You should try to get in touch with the opposite sex. Learn about the opposite sex. Most of the people who have this kind of thought are men who are not confident in themselves, or even have some low self-esteem, and the way to help them solve the problem is to let them go out and communicate more, so that they can become more cheerful, confident, and no longer have low self-esteem.

I think you can slowly try to fall in love with the people around you, maybe you won't be scared, you will slowly enjoy this feeling, it's really just a process.

To dare to take the first step, there is nothing terrible about falling in love, you can only know the joy of falling in love if you have tried, and those experiences that make you laugh and suffer are to be experienced.

If you haven't been in love in your 20s and are afraid of love, you should first let him make friends with people of the opposite sex, so that he feels that the opposite sex is not so terrible, and she will slowly fall in love.

Wait. Don't find 1 person at random for love, what you can do now is to improve yourself first, become excellent, let you enjoy love, and no longer be afraid of love.

You should try to get in touch with the opposite sex, and slowly believe in the opposite sex, so that you will usher in love, and you should respect each other in love.

Then try once, try to fall in love once, taste the taste of love, and have a good attitude, maybe this can eliminate your fear of love.

Of course, you should be brave enough to start a relationship journey, experience what love is, and don't be afraid, because life needs to be experienced to grow.

In fact, I think that everything needs to be tried, since you are eager to do it, then give it a try, maybe you can succeed, and even if you fail, you can learn from the experience.

From a psychological point of view, a person's stable trait determines the experience of a relationship, which in turn guides one's words and actions, and all the reality of the relationship is presented as the truth of one's own heart.

The way you treat yourself is the way you are with your friends and romantic partners. If you love yourself, you will find that you are being cherished, and if you do not accept yourself, you will find that you are always given up by the other person.

Therefore, many reasons for being afraid of falling in love are that you don't believe in yourself, you don't know how to love yourself, and then you can't fall in love.

Freud, a master of psychology, said: We will only meet the person who already exists in our subconscious. The way we treat our partners is exactly how we relate to ourselves, and intimacy is like a clear mirror that reflects the parts of our subconscious that may not be aware.

Therefore, love does not need to be imagined too much, it does not need to be perfect, and it is not always the best way to get along. More than that, we just need to love ourselves, be kind to others, and find the people we love and love us. At the same time, in the process of falling in love, we can constantly revise ourselves and improve ourselves, which is good.

At the age of 20, it is a good time to improve the quality and study hard, and it is a bit of a luxury to spend the good time on falling in love. Afraid of falling in love, it may be because you don't want to waste your time, or you may be afraid that you don't have enough ability to distinguish between good and bad red men and green women, and you are afraid to hesitate. There is also a situation where friendship is taken too seriously, for fear of hurting others and hurting oneself.

Isn't it normal to not be in love at the age of 20?

Probably didn't meet me, hahahahi.

20 years old have not been in a relationship compared with people of the same age who have been in love is not too different, it is possible that you have an upright temperament, only think about studying hard or work is important and busy improving yourself, and have no time to fall in love, this is the orientation of personal values. If you really want to have a quiet relationship with a certain man, and you are afraid of hurting yourself and others, which is related to your original family or you have encountered a heartbroken scene because of love, your heart has been hurt, causing you to talk about love now, and you are afraid of it, then you are afraid of what you are afraid of now, face it directly, love boldly, and find a psychological counselor to help guide your heart if necessary.

What is this, you will know it when you talk about it, one is born, two times cooked, and three times you go to the church to get married.

If you have psychological problems, it is recommended to see a psychologist, which belongs to the lack of family education, excessive self-confidence in your own world, and excessive self-isolation in your heart. I always feel that I am beautiful, and I always feel that men all over the world are trying to deceive your feelings because of your beauty?

I'm 21 years old, and I haven't talked about it.

Pick your nose [pick your nose].

I don't want to hit you either, so express it with a gesture.

Psychoanalysis: Hello! From your description, I feel the anxiety, irritability, and boredom in your heart.

At the same time, I also feel that friends occupy a very important place in your life, because you said that after your friends have been in love lately, they don't rely so much on you, and you feel very uncomfortable. It's normal for you to be a little anxious when your friends have their own lives, because your life has changed, and everyone is worried about the change. Next, I give you three tips to help you relieve your inner anxiety for your reference:

First of all, I suggest you think about what you are anxious about. Behind the anxiety, there is fear. You can think about what you're afraid of.

Your friends are in love, and you spend less time with you, so why are you afraid? Is it afraid of losing these friends, thinking that they don't care about themselves anymore, or are they worrying about their love situation, thinking that they are different from them, that no one likes them yet, that they are very faceless, or something else, etc. In short, you have to ask yourself what you are anxious about.

Because only by figuring out what you really think can you really ease your anxiety. Secondly, I suggest that you think about your relationship. You said that you didn't care much about falling in love, but your friends around you are in love, so you're a little anxious.

This shows that falling in love is most likely the cause of your anxiety. Maybe you don't think you're worse than them, too"Yes"fall in love, otherwise you will not be good enough and no one will love you; Or maybe you feel like you're 20 years old, too"Yes"Try to get into a relationship, so, I suggest you think about it. If you also want to be in a relationship, think about what kind of guy is right for you, and then try to reach out to some guys.

Of course, you may also feel that you are not in a hurry, you don't want to fall in love so early, and you can bury your mind together, then you should think about what else you can do, such as work, study, study, fitness, etc., and find other things you care about to do, which will also relieve your inner anxiety. Because having something to do will keep you in balance. Again, I suggest that you recognize the significance of friendship in your own life.

Friendship is only a part of your life, not the whole story, because friends cannot rely on you all the time, nor can they be with you all the time and be on call. True friendship is not necessarily about being together every day, but about the affection that can give you strength when you really need companionship and support. Therefore, you have to find your own life outside of friendship, or love, or career, or others.

Only then will you be able to balance your life as soon as possible, otherwise you will be anxious even if you lose friendship temporarily. In fact, to relieve anxiety is to regain control of your life. When you know what you're anxious about and what you're going to do next, it will bring a sense of stability and control to your life.

Hope mine can help you.