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I think maybe you're too careful. Many times after a breakup, they will become very good friends. She went out with her ex-girlfriend and didn't talk to you because he was afraid that you would misunderstand.
More often than not, it's just because your boyfriend and your ex-girlfriend have had a relationship after all, and after being a little unhappy with you, they will talk about some things about their relationship with their ex-girlfriends, and maybe it's just to be better with you that they will ask about some of their ex-girlfriends' feelings.
The main thing is that if you like him, you should believe him.
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I don't know everything about you, but listening to you say this, I feel that your boyfriend must still have something unforgettable about his ex-girlfriend, and when he quarrels and is sad, he can go to his ex-girlfriend to complain? Is this a good excuse? What if I go to find a fight in the future, if it were me, I would be so sad and hurt!
Do you love him very much? Can you be sure that he loves you very much? If you're a little unsure, I think you should make a new one and give yourself some time.
to gauge each other's place in their hearts!! If you love each other very much, then you can give him a chance to behave well! As soon as there is a next time, I will try my best to persuade you not to be with him!
A man who cares about everything is not worth entrusting!!
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Maybe you can divert your attention a little bit when you have more things, this is a hurdle, it looks easy, but it's actually quite difficult, if you really feel that you want to go on with him, you can slowly adjust yourself. Of course, this process will inevitably lead to quarrels and sadness, but believe that some people and some things will always pass.
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If you want to be together, don't ask him what he's done
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The key is whether you really like you.
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Because you like him a little, you will care about his past, otherwise you won't pay attention to it, right?However, his past is really rich, but this does not prove that his character is problematic. Because many things in life are difficult to say, and besides, if you are in love, maybe it's someone else's problem?
He just wants to have a good relationship, but he often doesn't fulfill people's wishes! The past has to be left to pass, after all, we are living in the present. You are the first love, he has talked about it a few times, failed, maybe he knows how to cherish it better, and it is also troublesome if you find an estimate that you haven't talked about it once.
You subconsciously think it's dirty for him to have intimate contact with other girls, but you don't, that's why you feel at a loss, right? In fact, love is a matter of the heart, and then the body, so if you really care about him, don't dwell on the "stain" of his body at the beginning, but observe whether he really loves you in the future, and if you are too, then why not be together? If it's not suitable, you know what it's like to be in love even if you're separated, right?
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Since you mind his past so much, you should let it go. You ignore your own thoughts now and you won't be happy with him.
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If you love him, don't mind his past, but grasp the present, after all, it's over, people want to look ahead, now he loves you, love needs a lot of tolerance, if you can't be sure that you love you more now or your ex-girlfriend, you have to give each other some time, time can prove everything, what will you think from another angle, maybe the feelings are not in yourself and don't know how to deal with it.
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To see if he really loves you, and if so, if you love him too, it's okay
If you're not in a balanced mind, go find a boy who is also your first love, and you don't necessarily like him
Since you care about him so much, what does it matter? As long as he treats you well in the future and dissociates from the previous one
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Embrace everything with true love!
If there is no love, there is no use in saying anything!
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If you like someone, don't care about his past, if you really care, then you should consider whether he really likes you, whether you really like him, adjust your mentality, look at this problem easily, and go with the flow, maybe one day, you will be very satisfied, maybe one day, you will find that you are not suitable, at that time, you will really be relieved, calm down, think carefully, lovers need to communicate with each other, talk about your problems with him, Based on his answers, decide what to do next.
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Indissoluble...
I won't be able to answer this question of yours!
But he's yours now!
You have the right to figure everything out!
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If you really love him, then you have to believe in him, love without trust will not last long, but it is not blind trust, you must be principled, you can tell him the troubles in your heart at an appropriate time, let him know how important he is in your heart, use your love to tolerate him, move him, so that he can not do without you!! Don't overthink it, I wish you all happiness
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Don't feel psychologically unbalanced because you are your first love and the other party has been in love several times, feelings are not equivalent exchanges, you like him, it means that he has something to attract you, but you put your eyes on his former girlfriend, everyone has their own shortcomings, the more you care, the more you can't let go, out of sight. Don't worry about the past.
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It's okay if you have love!
It's no good to think too much!
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This is really a psychological effect, what happened before it belonged to him, what do you mind about, who you were with him at that time, what does his business have to do with you. Why are you so calculating, if you keep drilling this bull's horn, then you are really asking for trouble. If you love him, or if he loves you now, don't talk about the past, it's not interesting at all.
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That's your own inner demon, and besides, other people's ex-girlfriends don't have anything, what do you mind? If you really can't let go, then break up, after all, you can't change his past.
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Obviously still in love with her, that's for sure, but are you sure she loves you too? This is a very important thing, but also a very dangerous thing, if one day, his ex-girlfriend comes to him, he may not do anything excessive? In fact, it can't be said that he is too scumbag, because loving someone is involuntary, but he is indeed excessive, please think twice.
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As long as he loves you now, then don't take it to heart, otherwise you will always be jealous and it will backfire.
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Learn to understand and be tolerant, everyone has an ex, and caring too much about your boyfriend's ex will only make your current relationship worse and worse.
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For the past, you always have to give him time to forget, do you want your boyfriend to be an ungrateful lover, then he will treat you like this one day. That girl had an abortion for him, what a great sacrifice, he has a concern in his heart, it is natural to feel guilty, love him, you will learn to be tolerant and understanding, love, has a deeper meaning.
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Do you still love him? To love him is to embrace everything in his past, only care about your present and future, and don't care about the past, if there has been anything before, it is only before you appear in front of him, if you are together, he is still like that, needless to say...If you love him, don't care about his past, it's just the past, forget it.
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Everyone has their own past, and the more we care, the deeper we will hurt.
What we should care about is the present, not the past.
You can't erase the memories of the past for him, you can only use the bits and pieces of the present to make him forget the past.
Since he can love you well, please cherish it!
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Oh my God, everybody's so comforting
All I can say is give him a little time, and if he really loves you, he will slowly let go. As for you, just enjoy the happy time with him.
Actually, I'm very concerned about this, but think more about him. It will be depressing, but think about how good he is to you and hope it will help you
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Rest assured, you'll be the next ex-girlfriend.
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It's not right for you to do this, it's a bit too much, it's too domineering, everyone has a past, and the past has become a thing of the past, memories don't have any effect, it's not easy for a woman to pay for a man like this, do you even have to deprive yourself of your memory, it's too cruel.
If you keep forcing a person like this, you are afraid that you will lose him, the girl should learn to be generous, remember that you are his girlfriend now, and his wife will be his wife in the future, and you will be around you, don't think about anything else.
Moreover, it can be seen from this that your boyfriend has a good conscience.
The sand in the palm of his hand, if he grips it too tightly, he will slip through his fingers... Cherish the present...
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Atmosphere, if you care about him very much.
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In love, we will always have deep hostility towards each other's exes, even if the "exes" did nothing, did not say anything, the word "ex" is like a spell around our ears, hurting the relationship with them, what makes us have such a deep resentment towards the "ex", this time I will talk to you about the "exes".
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Don't be sad, hug, I don't even know what to say.
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Although he is very honest, his past is really unbearable for you, and we don't know what the future holds. Keep your distance and be observant. That's probably the best way to deal with it right now.
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Between couples, it's best not to talk about your past in detail... On the one hand, don't take the initiative to say, on the other hand, don't take the initiative to ask... Everyone has a past, and everyone can have a future ...
If your boyfriend just talks to you roughly, it's nothing, because experience is experience, there is no way to change it, caring about a person will also be curious about a person's past, he may think you will be curious, so he took the initiative to say... If you don't want to know more about this, you can talk to him and he should understand and pay attention ...
But what you already know.,If the content isn't too excessive.,It's nothing.。。。 Who hasn't had a deep affection with their ex-friends, and who hasn't had a few failed emotional experiences? It's not what he did, it's what he did when he met you...
Of course, you know the specific situation best, and you need to judge for yourself what to do...
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The landlord should know that if there is a first time, there should be a second time.
At first glance, a person like him can't look at his lower body, if you can bear it, you can continue, and if you can't bear it, you can find a good one.
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It depends on the circumstances under which he tells you. What kind of expression he looks on determines what kind of mentality he has. In reality, only you know who he is. Think about it before you decide. Wishing you happiness!
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The most paradoxical part of a couple is that they fantasize about each other's future while thinking about each other's past.
Eternal pain in my heart.
Good luck.
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I understand how you feel. In fact, it doesn't matter if they have ever been together, think about it, do you care at all if you are afraid that he has memories of other girls in his mind?
You love Him, so you want to possess Him. I hope he has you alone in his heart.
It's hard for him to forget, they used to love each other. But after all, you love each other, and your boyfriend doesn't want to do that, so what does it matter if he can do it with all his heart and soul towards you? If you love him, I am sure you will want him to be happy and happy, love is great.
But if you really can't accept it, I think it's better to give up, otherwise in the end, you will still be unable to pass, and it will be more painful.
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She is the past, you are the future, what does she compare with you? Women have this common problem, they always want to know each other's past, and they don't feel happy when they know it. The more jealous you are, the more he thinks you're being vexatious.
If you really want to keep your boyfriend's heart on you, don't embarrass him with this kind of shadowless thing, it's already in the past, and he can't change anything.
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Oh, I also mind, the key depends on what your boyfriend does, whether your boyfriend says something bad about his ex-girlfriend and you are happy. That's what I am, if you want me to be happy, you have to do it.
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Wow, you've done a great job! Admire you!
I'm sure I can't do it, although I think it's normal to have a past, but I also have a pimple when I think about it.
But it's okay, like me now, the boat is naturally straight to the bridge. Don't think about anything else!
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I believe that the love between the two of you can last forever! Learn to be tolerant and understanding!
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Think about why you're in this situation.
Are you in relation to his former girlfriend, and you are a bit self-contained in some way?
If not, it means that you have a psychological electrical problem, and it is recommended to find a professional teacher to find information.
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Envy, you can go through this together.
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If you want to open a man, why embarrass a man!
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It's me, and I'll mind.
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I'm the same as you, we're married, but since I saw their past, I have a knot in my heart, I can't untie it, it's very uncomfortable, I can't give up, and I don't mind being together!
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First of all, I want to know how old you are and whether you have a mature sense of feelings, and if you have, then you have to tell him how you feel when you are calm, and there must be communication between two people, and if you don't get it wrong, it will get deeper and deeper, and you will torture yourself more and more, and you will torture yourself more and more, and you will be tormented by yourself in the abyss of cranky thoughts. If he's really what you're worried about, then this man didn't have a formal relationship with you when he started together, because he wasn't ready to take on a personal person, and it would be irresponsible to you, and you don't want such a man.
Secondly, you have to be confident, everyone is different, everyone has their shining points, you are just blindly thinking about what his ex-girlfriend is better than you, and women are sensitive, he and his girlfriend have been together for a long time, and even if they are friends after separation, they are probably good friends, because they know each other very well, and if you talk about it, if you have something to say, it will be much better not to guess there. Sometimes things aren't what you think they are, it's just that you think they are, so you go more and more on the negative side and convince yourself that it's all true, it's not necessary. There are three precious things about getting along with two people: "understanding, trust, and communication".
I wish you happiness But don't forget that you have a woman's self-esteem! There is no ugly woman in the world, it's just that she hasn't found her Bole yet.
From beginning to end, you think that I haven't seen you have a positive tone, could it be self-inflicted? As for the game you said, this one is nothing at all I want to be bad She has no interest in you at all She said that it was good It makes you jealous Don't you think clingy men and women are very annoying On the other hand, men are the same Give both parties more space for themselves It's still a long time There are more women Maybe it's just the first love now so I feel heartache Hey, I'm numb Women don't have a good one.
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Break up, maybe he's just playing with feelings.