Love problems, come in and help me with some advice

It's not me who strikes you.

If you don't stay together for a long time.

It's hard to keep the relationship going.

Buy her a computer, or change to a phone with a good signal! But it's also possible that she has changed her mind, be careful! ，

As a girl, I think you've been separated for a long time, and you've been away from your girlfriend for a long time. It can make her feel insecure. Moreover, she talks to you for so long every day, and she still has to pick it up downstairs!!

So, it's possible that she will want to break up with you. However, there is still a way. It's best to help her change to a phone with a better signal first.

I have time to see her. Buy small gifts, flowers, 、、、, etc. The best thing to do is to get married as soon as possible and live together.

In fact, there are many ways and means of communication and advice between two people who love each other. When you want to raise your expectations of others, you must first consider the following questions. It will be natural when you really want to know how to quickly dissipate a few points and apply them to your life.

One, both sides are equal in each other's hearts.

First of all, you must maintain an equal position with your partner. This does not necessarily refer to the identity or financial income of two people, but to the identity of the heart.

Because he won't listen to your heart, you can't communicate effectively. At this time, you need to exercise yourself, adjust yourself, and maintain inner equality with your partner.

Second, think from the perspective of others.

The first thing to do is to establish a good counseling relationship, rather than expressing your own opinions and suggestions first. Only then can I be accepted and recognized, otherwise others will have a voice in their hearts, but you don't know how to receive love. What qualifications do you need to guide me?

The core is to think from someone else's point of view rather than your own, and say some of your requirements and expectations. These are your needs, not your partner's needs.

For example, if you want your husband to stop competing, but he thinks it's good, and you ask him to stop competing, which he thinks he's been competing for a long time, is he willing to accept it? So, he needs to put himself in his partner's shoes and think about what makes him think this game is good, and he needs to find his own psychological motivation to do it.

Then it might be better to sympathize with him, understand him, accept him, see the bright side, and then talk about it again. Let him think about how to receive love from a higher point of view, so that he will not only contradict him, but also approve of him, and he will be more willing to listen to you.

Have you ever thought about the person who is going to hit him, first of all, his defense, you know him, sympathize with him, accept him? Will he defend you and be more willing to accept you? What about making a suggestion?

Three, if you want to change others, you must first look at yourself.

I want to get the first position. Honest people should first be kind to themselves and see how they behave. They are asking for others. People with double standards are not good at demanding of others. Others will think that you didn't do it yourself. What do you want to ask me for Mu Chong's clan?

For example, you're playing drama every day, and your partner is playing the game every day. However, one day you will find this kind of game boring. If you want your partner to put down the game to accompany you, he will think that you haven't watched the game and come to me.

Fourth, the early match has been matched.

In the process of getting along with two people, you must also have a good side. If your partner has the ability to work, then you must also have your own advantages. For example, you are very sociable and talkative.

Think about it. If you're a college student, but a kid who has just started elementary school, can you listen? No!

Because you think that elementary school students are worse than you, but if this person may not have gone to college, but has worked for many years and has a lot of work experience, will you listen? Maybe.

If you want to accept love, you must strive to adjust the mentality of self-balance and filial piety; If you want to make it easy for the other party to accept some suggestions, you must pay attention to your own tone and attitude, express understanding and respect for the other party's suggestions as much as possible, and put forward some guiding suggestions tactfully, so that the other party can accept them.

When you are in love, you should pay attention to your personal image, control your spleen and pretend to be angry in an appropriate amount, and try to discuss with the other party when you encounter some regrets, so that he can easily accept it.

I think you should still find someone who suits you, and then you will be more comfortable when you fall in love, and you can give the other party some of your own ideas when they are happy.