On the question of who pays for a relationship 100

I think, at first she rushed to pay, because you thought it was faceless to let the girl pay, so you paid, and then she didn't pay a penny, maybe because she knew that you love face, so she didn't pay, and she didn't let you buy any expensive gifts, so I think the main thing is that she thinks you love face, so she let you pay, give you enough face. Speaking of which, I would like to give you some advice, since you don't have much money, you shouldn't always plan some activities that require a lot of money, some activities can be romantic and don't need money, and can show that you don't spend money indiscriminately, how good! If you hint at her paying, she'll definitely have a bad impression of you.

So it's better not to hint. Boys should be responsible, travel must be your proposal, so you can afford all the expenses, this girl is very good.

Mine: Tell me how I feel.

I'm a college student, and so is he, and he pays more when he goes out to eat. At first, I was always rushing to pay, because I always felt that I was using my parents' money, but I found that it made him a little embarrassed. So after realizing it, I whispered to him, honey, I just want you to save a little, this time (I pay) may not do very well, next time I will pay attention.

It's hard to balance this relationship. Later I came to the conclusion that it would be better to have someone else to eat with, or to go on a formal date, and let him pay for it.

But it's just that I usually come out to play, or as you said, travel, just balance it out, I, as a girl, can also quietly pay a little more, and the balance comes back When he has a job, he will ask me again, and then let him ask him to do it so that he will work well Hmm).

In response to your problem, I think that humor is the medicine to solve the problem, if she has the motivation to rush to pay in the first place, then she will be a sensible girl, and there will be no embarrassment with her humor and honesty:

1. The woman can pay, like I said, she can go and pay the money when there are only the two of you and come back to admit her mistake (my way of dealing with it - or humorously say "people like to be self-reliant, the food is more fragrant" and so on (- Okay, let you see ...... laugh）

Whether or not the relationship is taken seriously cannot be seen from the money alone, I only know that the details made by both parties cannot be seen by each other, but they can feel it; Basically, as long as you are a woman, you will inevitably attach more importance to feelings; If you really love her from the bottom of your heart, she can feel it, how can she perfunctory your feelings? It's just that when it comes to money, which is an issue that couples will encounter, she may not be doing it ideally.

2. Tell her honestly and generously: Dear, I love you very much. We're going to travel, and I'm going to be very happy to have you on a journey; But we have a bit of a practical problem, you see, I want to make this one-stop service for you to enjoy, but now I don't have a job, there is no opportunity for me to fulfill this promise Ha The travel expenses are a bit big, let's bear it together, okay?

If she agrees with a smile, then you can really discuss how to divide the cost)

If she doesn't agree or has a bad face, then there are two more possibilities: 1. She really doesn't love you enough; 2. She is more delicate, and she may think of other places

In any case, I think honesty is the foundation of love, because after marriage, all problems will be magnified a hundred times, why not expose any problems now, and then determine whether the other party is suitable for you?

Although the conditions of her family are better than yours, so if she doesn't make money, will it be up to you to see if you will save?

No matter how good or bad your conditions are, the money should be spent on the bones, and the money should not be stingy, and the money should not be spent. I think you should check yourself to see if you're spending money again.

Besides, you said that you were going to travel in a few days, and you said that she should be serious about you, so there is no need to say it euphemistically, but to discuss it directly with her, and the problem is not a small problem. 85% of couples have problems because of financial problems, so you must develop a good habit of saving.

Besides, it's normal for girls to spend money on love, don't slap your swollen face and become fat, and your machismo should also be changed.

Again, it must be a boy who can spend money, a boy who can save money, and a boy who can live a life will like it more.

If you think it's a matter of paying for the sake of face, I don't agree. So girls also have to pay, so as not to develop a habit of letting you buy any valuables, you will also buy them. Just tell her that you are still a student and have no stable income; It's nothing more than your girlfriend.

I guess I'm still not very interested in this feeling. (Be patient.) It's easy to be nice to someone, but it's different if you like someone) I sometimes pay for my boyfriend, (well, he still pays for some of it) but I still think it's good.

After all, it's good for the two to be happy together.

This, although it is said that boys should not be stingy in terms of money, but girls can't always be like this, maybe people don't realize this, or maybe they are afraid of hurting you, maybe you should think about what kind of person she is, if you really like you, why not give you some gifts to convey friendship?

You say you're a student, so you can just say it, and it's understandable that everyone is spending their parents' money now. You say it directly to show that you are not pretentious, and you are not a loser, naturally, if you are really in trouble, don't hold on.

On the question of money, I think it's better to have an AA system, because modern society advocates equality between men and women, so why do you have to keep men paying for it? It's so shallow, but it's true.

Women must pay for it, absolutely.

Men shouldn't let women pay for it.

It's normal for men to buy more.,But every time it's a man's money, it's too abnormal.,Women don't invest, so how can they cherish it.。。。

When two people fall in love and go out to eat, who pays is a headache, after all, whose money is earned by hard work.

1. If two people have not yet determined the relationship, it belongs to the ambiguous period, going out to date and eat every day is a big expense, and it is inevitable that there will be some embarrassing atmosphere in the heart after a long time. Boys will generally rush to pay for it in order to reflect the gentlemanly demeanor of a man, and girls will also rush to pay in order to make a good impression on each other.

Second, if it is the early stage of the relationship, girls want to be equal in their relationship with each other, and when the boy pays a little more for himself, he will want to return it, but pay attention to the method, if the method is not right, it is easy for people to misunderstand.

When two people fall in love, there is no stipulation that the cost of love must be borne by the boy, nor does it say that the girl should also share it. Depending on the situation, the boy's economic strength is good, and the man can spend a little more, if your conditions are good, you are willing to pay a little more for the boy, in the world of feelings, you must accept the other party's contribution calmly, too much care seems to be very raw.

When two people go out to eat, they should also pay attention to proportion, don't ask each other too much, think more about each other, try to go to a high-end restaurant with a lot of money, he invites you to dinner, you invite him to watch a movie, and the exchange of courtesies can also enhance the relationship.

Personally, I think that falling in love is a matter of two people, blindly letting one party pay, such a relationship does not last long, since they are together, they should think more about each other, human nature is greedy, we must learn to restraint, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, only in this way will the relationship be long-lasting and stable.

There is no absolute answer to this question and it needs to be considered on a case-by-case basis. Here's how I see it:

1.It is understandable for a girl to spend her boyfriend's money on a daily date or consumption, which is an ordinary way of attraction and emotional expression, and it also confirms the man's concern for the woman. However, the number and amount of money spent should be appropriate, and the man should not be overly dependent.

2.If it is a relatively large expense, such as travel consumption, buying more expensive gifts, etc., then the girl should express a certain willingness to share. Although the man's contribution can be seen as a kind of romance or responsibility, excessive spending can still give people a sense of material dependence, which is not conducive to the long-term development of the relationship.

A modest apportionment can prove the woman's independence and sense of responsibility.

3.If the girl's financial situation is more difficult and the boyfriend is more affluent, the boyfriend voluntarily helps the girl share part of the living expenses, which is understandable and is a way for partners to support each other. However, there should be no over-dependence, girls should strive for their financial independence, and boyfriends should be more inclined to help them temporarily.

4.If the girl obviously deliberately tricks her boyfriend into paying for her expenses, which is a consumer fraud by taking advantage of the person in the relationship, such behavior should be condemned and will seriously damage the relationship between the two parties.

In general, it is normal to give and understand each other in a relationship, but excessive consumption and economic dependence can cause damage to the relationship. Girls should follow the principle of proportionality and sharing of their boyfriend's money, and excessive use and deception will ruin the relationship. The ideal state is that the two sides maintain a certain degree of economic independence but can be considerate and caring, and truly achieve inner fit and mutual support.

Economic factors should not dominate feelings, and they are more appropriately part of the expression of feelings than the main content.

Therefore, girls should spend their boyfriend's money in moderation, and ideally, the financial relationship of a relationship should be based on mutual understanding and support, rather than taking advantage of it or relying on it excessively. This can make the relationship more pure and lasting. This is also a lesson that needs to be honed by both parties in getting along.

If you spend money on each other during a relationship, if it is voluntary and not in a loan relationship, then there is no way to ask for it back. Therefore, we should choose the right way to get along with each other and consume.

The general pattern of spending money in modern manuscripts in the relationship between men and women.

1) AA system spends money.

The AA system is a very popular concept of consumption, especially among the student group, under the influence of this interpersonal communication model, many students see the advantages of the AA system convenient and fair.

Some time ago, Yanyan told me that she went out to eat with a boy, and after eating, the boy paid first, she thought that the boy was not bad, and she would invite him to drink a cup of milk tea, and the boy suddenly came unexpectedly: "Alipay transferred me 27 yuan for dinner." Yan Yan immediately dispelled the idea of inviting him to drink milk tea.

And the boy has been single.

2) Boys' all-in approach.

When Ozawa first started working, his salary was not bad, and he had a lot of money left after his living expenses and rent, and then he talked about a girlfriend who was still in college.

Girls in the campus stage are relatively simple, not as realistic as girls who are working, so he loves his girlfriend in every way.

As a result, the longer I went on, I found that my economy couldn't keep up, and the monthly love expenses were too big, and in the end, even the rent became a problem.

At this time, my friend realized that in this relationship, the payment of money seems to have always been himself, every time he eats, watches movies, gives gifts, goes out to play, and even a bottle of mineral water is his own money, and he has not even drunk a cup of milk tea from the other party. Such a relationship made him wonder if he was taking care of a female college student.

3) AB system gifts are still exchanged.

The so-called AB system is "you invite me to dinner, I invite you to watch a movie", "you invite me to watch a movie, I invite you to drink milk tea", the man has a little more, and the girl has a little less.

When Xiaowen and Huizi fall in love, they will always go out to eat well, every time Huizi pays for the meal, Xiaowen will take the initiative to pay for the movie, Huizi gives Xiaowen lipstick, and Xiaowen sends Huizi clothes. Definitely won't let Keiko pay all the time.