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Everyone's upbringing is different, so you can understand others. What do you think about this matter?,If you think on the bright side, it's still a good man who will live a thrifty life.。。

I think it's because you subjectively don't have a good impression of him, as you can see from your description of him.

If you really don't like him, you might as well separate sooner. You have to know that if you really love someone or like someone, their shortcomings will also become strengths

I feel that it may be the reason for the older unmarried people, and because I have been working hard in the society for many years, I know that it is not easy to make money, and frugality in life is a virtue.

It's quite a man who is suitable for life. He saved a little, maybe to buy a house and a car or something. It's impossible to keep money in a coffin, right?

Oh, there's another possibility that he's not interested in you.

A good man, if you get along with other aspects, you should be a good marriage partner, and the family will accumulate a lot of money in the future. And what has accumulated belongs to you ...

I think this is also a manifestation of the Gu family.

Although you said that he has worked in a state-owned enterprise with good efficiency for five years, the salary is not low. But that's dead after all, no matter how much salary he can have.

I think he's good.

This person is good, and he didn't hide it at the beginning, which shows that his love doesn't need to be disguised, he is talking about the freedom of love and doesn't want love to restrain himself. And maybe this kind of love will last a little longer.

I'm also disgusted with this, and you won't be able to stand it in the future, so let's do it yourself.

You need to stay calm at all times and do what you can when it comes to spending.

College students fall in love, I think what should be consumed is still consumption, usually when the girlfriend celebrates her birthday, Valentine's Day still has to give gifts, you can not give particularly valuable, because college students have no financial ability.

Introduction: The love of the student era should be very simple and very beautiful, but there will also be some consumption during this period, this consumption must be taken care of, after all, you don't have a real job now, you don't have an economy, all the consumption is** to your parents, so you can choose the AA system, don't feel that you are a boy and have to spend all the money, if this girl loves you very much, they will not spend a lot of money, but will cherish you more and will help you save money, And they will buy something that is not very expensive and will not make you feel unaffordable.

There will definitely be consumption in love, but for students, this relationship is very beautiful, very innocent, and very worthy of liking, but it also costs money in love, whether it is to eat or what, it must be to spend some money to make him feel your love, I hope you can also change your concept, if you really have no money, there is no need to force yourself to buy him a lot of good things on the basis of no money, You are still a student and there is no need to spend a lot of money to maintain your relationship, if it is maintained by money, it means that your relationship is not so innocent and may be more materialistic.

Consumption is essential, you can choose AA, you can also choose to buy something less expensive, girls she will not always ask a man to buy her things, because he will not feel good, and you are just a couple now, not to the point of marriage, excessive spending of boys' money will only make themselves look very cheap, and will not be cherished, so it is recommended that you make it clear to your object. Be sure to consume within your own ability, after all, there is no job now, there is no economy, all consumption is to the family, don't let the family burden too much, and the main task in the student era is to learn to fall in love, but not to delay your learning.

At this time, two people should be chosen to consume together, and the AA system must be chosen, so that two people can feel particularly equal.

Consumption in love should be handled correctly, and the AA system should also be chosen, and the expenses of two people should be shared equally, and the other party should not be taken advantage of.

I think that in love, we should go both ways, and at the same time, two people should bear the consumption in love together, not always let boys consume, or don't always let girls consume.

College students are at a special age, living in a specific environment, and their understanding of society is still in a hazy stage, which is inevitably influenced by society and forms a wrong view of love consumption. This paper investigates and analyzes the love consumption of college students in the form of questionnaires and interviews, further analyzes the problems existing in college students' love consumption from the perspective of ethics, and explores the ways to help and guide college students to establish a reasonable love consumption view. The first part of the article first defines the relevant concepts of consumption and love consumption, and points out that both love and consumption are a kind of social activity of human beings and the embodiment of human social attributes.

Then, the theories of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign scholars on the concept of love and consumption are expounded, and the theoretical foundation of article writing is laid. Finally, the intrinsic relationship between the outlook on love, the outlook on consumption and the outlook on life is pointed out. The second part is mainly based on questionnaires and interviews, and analyzes the current situation of college students' love consumption from three aspects: the first and the destination of love consumption and the love consumption concept of college students.

Starting from the current situation of college students' love consumption, this paper analyzes the problems existing in college students' love consumption: first, the excessive pursuit of formal romance leads to the consumerist tendency in love; Second, the one-sided emphasis on sensory pleasure gives birth to the hedonistic idea in love consumption; 3. Blindly attaching importance to face comparison, which promotes the continuous expansion of the vanity consumption mentality; Fourth, excessive emphasis on self-rights leads to a lack of moral responsibility. The third part discusses the path to help college students establish a correct outlook on love and consumption, so as to establish a correct outlook on life and values.

The article points out that in order to establish a correct concept of love consumption, we must first have correct theories as guidance, and we must adhere to the principle of harmonious consumption, moderate consumption and independent consumption in love consumption. Finally, it is pointed out that in order to establish a correct concept of love consumption, college students must adhere to the combination of self-discipline and other discipline, and help college students establish a correct concept of love consumption from four aspects: school, family, society and college students themselves. It is concluded that in order for college students to establish a correct concept of love consumption, it is necessary for colleges and universities to strengthen education, strengthen family guidance, advocate harmonious consumption culture in society, and improve the self-cultivation of college students.

First of all, the cost of college students falling in love should be earned by their own efforts, after all, it is not easy for parents to provide for college.

A truly simple and innocent relationship does not need a lot of money to pile up, and there must be a full sense of ritual and companionship, but a stable relationship is also a responsibility, which needs to be operated by both parties.

First of all, it is linked to the use of college students' love consumption.

Among the love consumption purposes of college students, it includes dining out, communication expenses, shopping expenses, travel consumption and others. It can be seen that eating, drinking, playing, and having fun are the main consumption uses of college students' love. In addition to traditional flowers, chocolates, plush dolls, etc., digital electronic products such as iPhones, laptops, cameras, and expensive gifts such as gold and silver jewelry have also become a trend in love consumer credit.

There is also a bad atmosphere on college campuses that uses gifts to measure the sincerity of love.

How to view the concept of love consumption of college students?

The love of college students is different from the love after graduation and the love after joining the work, mainly depending on whether they are financially independent. During the relationship, because the usual consumption of college students needs to be guaranteed by their parents, if you do it according to the traditional concept, you will definitely need to pay for the consumption of boys, and girls will not spend money. In this way, it is easy to put financial pressure on the man.

Some girls are reluctant to adopt the AA system, and the economic situation of the boy's family is average, which can easily lead to two people to understand, and it is difficult to make a result in love, which is completely different from the love consumption with financial independence after graduation. Secondly, college students' love consumption adopts the AA system, which is a fair practice and easy to respect each other. People who hold traditional ideas often think that love consumption should be paid by the man, because in the end, the man marries the woman home.

However, for college students, they are now generally pursuing equality in social status and gender equality. Falling in love is just a process in which two people get close to each other, understand each other, and have feelings for each other. In this process, the adoption of the AA system of love consumption is completely a fair practice, which is a mutual respect for each other.

Again, many college students' love only blossoms but does not bear fruit, which is another reason for the emergence of the AA system of love consumption.

As for what kind of love consumption concept is in the relationship, most of them can accept it, I also interviewed some boys and girls, and got their real thoughts, and I chose a few more representative. Boys and girls can also take a look at it and get a sense of what people of the opposite sex and people of the same sex think.

1. Boys.

Xiyu: "I think the correct concept of love consumption should be a willing flower, and a blocking flower.

Boys should take the initiative to prepare some holiday surprises or something, but in the usual long-term coexistence, girls should stop some, so that girls can also feel that boys love their hearts for themselves, and boys will also feel that girls are kind to their families, and this kind of love is sublimated, and it is day day up.

On the contrary, if the boy does not take the initiative and the girl does not know how to stop it, first, the trust in each other will gradually disappear, second, if it is not a very wealthy family, it will not be able to bear such a cost, and third, even if it is maintained when in love, it will not be able to return to the blandness of firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future long-distance marriage, and will eventually go to a fork in the road with each other. ”

Ning: I can spend more, but I can't spend it all.

Weng Xin: I think we should respect each other's consumption concepts, you buy your Hermes, but I still give you what I can do at the moment.

2. Girls.

Qingcai: The gifts are still exchanged, the scene is out of the money boys, and the girls are out in the private and intimate aspects.

For example, when he invites him to dinner, I will buy movie tickets and buy milk tea, and when he travels, he will book the hotel and bus tickets in advance, and then I will come to the daily meal or something, and he will occasionally buy me clothes, and I will usually make up for what he lacks when I see him, and it has been like this almost all the time.

Xingchen: If you are willing to spend money on me, I will definitely not be reluctant to spend money on you. You say I deserve the best, and you want the best. I'm not afraid to spend money on you, but I'm most afraid that you'll tell me that you're poor and have no money.

So what : can't be too clear, can't be too different. For example, if you invite me to eat three meals, I invite you to eat once, you invite me to watch a movie, I invite you to drink milk tea, you buy me a gift, and I will return a similar gift.

In short, you can't pay all the time alone. Of course, the feelings are in place, and I don't bother to score them so clearly.

When interviewing boys and girls about their views on love consumption, I asked a friend of mine who is studying law this question by the way, and he gave me a very interesting one.

He said: The best state is to be considerate of each other, and don't care too much about who pays for consumption. If the purpose is to get married, then it will not become joint property after marriage.

From the point of view of marriage law, he is quite right.

So, I wish you all the best to fall in love with the mindset of managing the future of the common property together.

Love happily, and you can also happily tell each other "your grievances".

After all, that's your joint property in the future.

In love, two people in love are different individuals, each of them has their own ideas and ideas, we can't say who is right and who is wrong, but we can "get together, and disperse if you don't." "You can't be too passive in love, and if you're too passive, you'll lose. Because when you become accustomed to obedience, your life is not controlled by yourself, you will only become a vassal of others, a voice worm.

In love, we must learn to tolerate and understand each other. When you disagree, you can first try to find a way to compromise and find an acceptable concept of consumption that belongs to you, love is a matter of two people, not who can have the final say. If you really can't compromise, it depends on whether you are willing to change for each other.

Not the way he adapts to you. It's the way you adapt to him, but adapting to the other party is not to lose yourself, you have to have your own degree, and you can't violate the principle of self-counting.

After all, love is not marriage, you are still in a state of running-in, stumbling is inevitable, just like the old saying "teeth still touch the tongue", not to mention two different human individuals with their own thoughts! Besides, even if there is a marriage or a divorce, the small conflict is resolved after discussion between the couple.

The most taboo thing in love is to quarrel. The quarrel I am talking about is really noisy, not a quarrel between young couples, waiting for someone to coax. When quarreling, they often don't choose what they say, and they don't know what they say, which hurts people the most, and the hurter doesn't know that he has hurt others, so that the feelings will be exhausted in the quarrel.

Boyfriend and girlfriend are lovers not enemies, there is no need for needles to face Maimang, there is always one party who has to take a step back, too tough will only hurt others and hurt themselves. Therefore, when you encounter a disagreement, you may wish to take a step back when you do not violate your own principles. When you're not so emotional, think about the previous question.

Although it is said that persuasion and separation are not discouraged, some people just can't get through together, and it is a good way to break up. If you really can't keep up with each other's rhythm, separating is also a good way to resolve conflicts, at least you won't even have to be friends.

To sum up, when you encounter a different concept with your boyfriend, you must learn to find a way that both parties are satisfied with, and if you don't work again, you will only break up if you don't agree.