Can you tell his character from the attitude of the boy who refuses to pursue his girl?

You can still see the character, if the boy is very good, good character, then there will be a lot of girls who have a good impression of him, if he happens to like it again, and at the same time he doesn't have a girlfriend, then he will accept, if the boy himself is not good, but there is little choice, then he has a girl who expresses a good impression of her, but if he doesn't like it, then he may choose to look at the flowers, just to pass the time. But I still hope that every friend, no matter spring, summer, autumn and winter in the future.

Whether you are lonely or not, you will not be disappointed.

You can't see the character, and in general, guys don't reject girls who have a good impression of them. Unless he already has a girl he likes, the girl fits her standards very well. Look at what kind of personality a man has, if he is a very narcissistic boy.

This kind of guy likes the feeling of being surrounded by women. All the girls who come to surround him and have a good impression, he does not refuse.

Of course, the character can be seen from the attitude of the boys, and the bad character will definitely be bad for the girls. If the boy is very good, see if you are the only one who has a good impression of the boy, and if there are competitors, it depends on your comprehensive comparison. In general, girls have a good chance of succeeding in chasing boys, because no matter what, boys don't lose.

If a boy rejects a girl who pursues him, it can only mean that the girl is not the type he likes, and it does not mean that his character must be good.

Depending on the situation, it is possible that the man will not refuse if he is together, and it is impossible to refuse absolutely directly. It's not all, I don't refuse, but I don't want to hurt the girl's heart, after all, I was a good friend before, wasn't it, so I won't tear my face! A lot of boys have good character, but they are embarrassed to refuse, and in the end, both sides lose face.

Men and women are equal, whether it is a boy chasing a girl, or a girl chasing a boy, there is nothing to be ashamed of, but a brave embodiment of taking the initiative to pursue one's own happiness. Many times, if a girl chases a boy, then maybe the relationship between two people will be better, the so-called man chasing the woman compartment mountain, the woman chasing the man, the compartment yarn, this is the truth, so sometimes once you like a person, there is no need. It's good to care about these things and be brave enough to chase them.

It's not shameful for girls to pursue boys, so why can't girls take the initiative? As long as you meet the boy you like, even if you are bold and take the initiative.

If a girl meets a boy she likes and takes the initiative to pursue and confess to a boy, it is normal, which shows that the girl is very brave.

What's the shame of this, do you know that men and women are equal?

For now, I and all the female friends around me think that when we meet someone we like, we will definitely take the initiative. Why, you ask? Do you think it's easy to meet someone you like?

So compared to true love, face is too cheap to even be mentioned. Don't mention these three words to me, you are still alive in the Qing Dynasty, right?

My college roommate is the boy I took the initiative to chase. At that time, she graduated and went to the unit, and there were only two young people in the unit, she and the boy. The boy himself belongs to the more shy kind, but he is a very good person.

Once my roommate had a cold, and the boy bought all kinds of cold medicine and gave it to my roommate in the middle of the night. When I'm on a business trip or something, I naturally take extra care of my roommate. And the boy is kind and honest.

Anyway, it meets almost all of my roommate's criteria for choosing a mate. But the only bad thing is that the guy doesn't seem to be very interested in my roommate.

But my roommate thought it was true love at the time, so she took the initiative. After chasing for almost a year, I finally succeeded (I think most girls don't have this perseverance).

Later, after the two were together, the boy became more considerate, and now the two are planning to get married. How to say? Happiness is always something you have to work hard for.

And then I'm a person, I'm a more passive kind, always thinking about waiting for someone I like to chase after me. As a result, I finally had someone I liked, and then I watched the person I liked confess to others, do you say that you are angry?

So I've figured it out since I went through that with my college roommate. Many times, happiness needs to be earned by oneself. Don't always believe in the so-called fate, what to say, the old man is only responsible for connecting you.

For example, fate allows the two of you to meet, and whether it can eventually develop into the relationship you want is actually artificial. To take the simplest example, you meet someone who is very similar to you, but you are very introverted, and he is also very introverted. Although there may be indescribable feelings between you, because of each other's personalities, you both choose to hide these careful thoughts in your hearts, and you can only miss it in the end.

So my current plan for myself is probably that if I am lucky enough to meet the person I have a little bit of affection for in the rest of my life, I will definitely not be a turtle with a shrunken head. Even if there may be no results after the final effort, at least when I get old and look back on this experience, I will not regret it

It is not easy to meet that "him", and it would be a pity or even a pity to give up the opportunity to meet and know "him" because others think that "it is shameful for girls to chase backwards". Many people think that between men and women, girls should be reserved, waiting for boys to chase, just want to say, now is the era of equality for everyone, is the era of freedom of love, this has nothing to do with who chases who first, the essence of the relationship between the sexes - in fact, by the first party to create an opportunity to know and understand each other, and then please each other, logically upgrade the relationship.

And the one who chases first should not be the most humble person in love. I don't know if you have noticed such an interesting phenomenon:

"Women chasing men" tend to have a greater success rate, but in most cases, the relationship does not exceed half a year. The success rate of "men chasing women" is low, but once they catch up, they can generally serve for more than a year. Why is this happening?

Zhang Xiaoxian has a very good saying: Men are amorous and affectionate, while girls are dedicated and ruthless. "Woman chasing man" In a sense, if he agrees to date you, it doesn't mean that he really likes you.

Maybe it's just that you don't hate it, he doesn't have any white moonlight at this time, and at the same time he enjoys the feeling of being liked. So, instead of having nowhere to spend a long night, it's better to play with an object, in case you fall in love for a long time?At the end of the day, you'll find out:

Most boys tend to be more enthusiastic and dedicated to the "prey" that they actively pursue. But for prey that is sent to the door on their own initiative, even if the relationship is confirmed, it is difficult to stimulate their ability to act.

This is the famous Zegoni effect in psychology - people are naturally limited in their acceptance of a thing, and when their "desire for satisfaction" is satisfied, they will forget what they have fully experienced. And for things that are not enjoyable, things that are obtained by hard work will continue to strengthen their memories in their subconscious, and they will become obsessed with it and want to pay for it. To put it bluntly, both men and women, the more reluctant they are to cherish things that are easier to get.

In my opinion, the best way to pursue a guy is to guide him to interest in your world, but make him unaware that you are chasing him. There is one thing to remember:

Upside down is disgraceful. I just created a chance for each other to get to know each other, and I didn't say I had to. He makes me happy and I can give him feedback on the heat.

When he upsets me, I'll be blunt with him. ”

Just remember one thing: my mother just likes you first, and I have the ability to make you like me. Like does not mean unconditional dedication and compromise, when you do not do well, I also have the right to walk away.

Don't give endlessly, trying to keep this boy with emotion, you can't keep such a boy. I hope that every girl can pursue her own happiness.

There is no shame in girls taking the initiative to pursue boys.

When I see some people on the Internet who think that it is a shameful behavior for girls to actively pursue boys, I think this kind of thinking is very ridiculous, because now after the reform and opening up of society, people's thinking has been significantly improved, and the status of boys and girls is equal in law, and it is also equal in love.

So it's a normal thing for a boy to pursue a girl in the eyes of people, so it's also a normal thing for a girl to pursue a boy, after all, boys and girls are in the same position, so it's not shameful for a girl to pursue a boy, but it's a good thing.

Some people may think that girls pursuing boys are deliberately lowering their stature, and they may be looked down upon to get love through such a means, but I think that the thinking of such people is more extreme, because men and women are equal in love, and there is no need to impose their subjective consciousness on love.

Some people may feel that girls take the initiative to pursue boys and make themselves very cheap, but such a thought will inevitably lead to affecting their own thinking value judgments, and this kind of thinking should be changed in time, and it is important to let their thoughts follow the development of the times, so as to change better.

After all, girls pursuing boys are still a minority in society, because girls may be more shy in terms of personality, and some are not as confident and enthusiastic as boys. But we can't rule out the occurrence of some girls who take the initiative to pursue boys, because there are also advantages in boys to attract girls, and girls pursuing boys can be said to be a brave act of love.

Compared with those girls who just want to wait for the pursuit, such girls are often more excellent and brave than these girls to dare to pursue for their love, dare to face the fear of the unknown, such a life and courage are simply incomparable to those girls.

When many people pursue love, they often have a lot of concerns, because they are afraid that they will suffer the failure of love, and they are also afraid that they will leave a psychological shadow in their hearts, which leads to many people who often hesitate and become numb when they meet someone they like, but I think that such ideas and concepts should be thrown away in time, because such ideas and concepts will affect themselves, and the whole love process will even make them single for a long time.

Therefore, we must abandon such a concept of fear of love, and re-establish a self-confidence in the pursuit of love, so as to pursue the love they want, girls take the initiative to pursue boys is a bold and free behavior, often such girls can find good love, let themselves have a good home.

Summary. Hello, dear, there are two reactions, the first is that there is a great sense of frustration, he is so good, but only in the emotional wall, the heart must be very uncomfortable, the second is that he has not been affected in any way, because he is very good, very confident in himself, the first confession is unsuccessful, and he will confess again.

Hello, dear, there are two kinds of anti-big responses, the first is that there is a great sense of frustration, he is so good, but only in the emotional side of the imitation sock wall, the heart must be very uncomfortable, the second is not affected in any way, because he is very excited, very confident in himself, the first confession is unsuccessful, will be re-confessed.

He didn't confess once and refused his help.

He blocked me. It is possible that he wants to retreat and make you think that he has given up, so that you will be anxious in your heart, and then he will confess.

You have done nothing wrong, if you reject him once, he gives up, it only means that he does not love you enough, and it is likely that it was impulsive.

Believe in fate and go with the flow, it's best. Hope you can be happy. <>