How do you get men to reach out to you in your life?

Getting a man to take the initiative to contact you in your life needs to consider these factors.

The first factor, first take the initiative to contact him, chat with him as an ordinary friend, let him know more about himself, be interested in himself, remember to contact step by step, not too often, and when he begins to pay attention to you, appropriately cut off contact with him, the time can not be too long, the first disconnection is about 3 days, and then a few days in a row, the second disconnection is about 7 days, if he contacts you within 7 days here, it means that you have succeeded. But be careful, make sure the other person is worthy of you to do so, and don't waste time for someone who doesn't deserve it!

The second factor, if I really care about him, I will take the initiative to contact him! Then observe his thoughts during the contact process, and if he is interesting to me, after I take the initiative to contact me once or twice, he will definitely take the initiative to contact me and respond to me. If he doesn't take the initiative after I take the initiative to contact him a few times, then I will give up!

The third factor, first take the initiative to attract his attention, take the initiative to contact him, ask him to eat, drink and have fun, you take the initiative to pay, and then take the initiative to find something to let him help, you continue to pay, let him treat your generosity differently, and then gradually when he has a good impression of you, he begins to snub him for a while, let him remember your generosity, remember your initiative, and then you just wait, he will definitely come to find an excuse to find you.

The fourth factor, if you are good enough, how can this man be willing not to contact you, if this man is responsible enough, he will not snub you for a long time. Therefore, this issue should be considered from many aspects.

The fifth factor, the person you are worried about, if you are qualified, you will take the initiative to greet and care, and if you are not qualified, you will turn that concern into a full blessing, and slowly precipitate in the long river of years. The person who really cares about you, you don't need to specifically cause him to connect, your presence can awaken all his feelings, he will contact you when you do something, and he will contact you if you don't do anything.

I think you can post your current bad situation in your circle of friends, and I think you can let this man take the initiative to contact you, and sometimes you also need to release some small signals.

Make yourself better and become the woman that men dream of, so that men can reach out to you.

It depends on your personal charm, pay attention to smile more, so that it looks easy to contact, and girls who love to laugh are more attractive to boys.

Unleash charm on him, indulge in him.

It is certainly a plus for a person to have a good appearance, but it is not enough to rely on the outside, if you are not attractive enough on the inside, then when you gradually go deeper, then he will give up the relationship between you because of your inner superficiality.

When he is interested, you should not agree immediately, and do not refuse immediately, you can keep a little distance appropriately. When he is about to give up, you can let him taste the sweetness, so that in the process of wanting to indulge, you will gradually go deeper. In this way, he will also put his mind on you, take the relationship between you seriously, and cherish the relationship between you more, which also makes good use of the man's competitiveness, so as not to make your relationship no belonging.

The best way for a man to reach out to you is to cool down the love.

The love here mainly refers to your affection, and it has nothing to do with men. Take care of yourself, and then judge and talk about others, which is cultivation and bearing. If you are not perfect enough, but you criticize others, it is often a sign of self-embarrassment, and it is not very convincing.

Lower the temperature of your love, you can not only calm down your lover, but also see clearly why the man responds to the cold and perfunctory, in this process, your gain is definitely great, and you can win all battles with a target, and it is difficult to be unhappy with such a rational lover's attitude.

Reducing affection for a man has such practical implications: first, he will feel the uneasiness of differentiation from his daily habits, and then feel and be curious about you, which he does not like at first, but not necessarily later; Second, an equal and arrogant attitude is the reason why men begin to like and appreciate, and the last thing men want is humble love, but the company of self-confidence and the concept of happiness.

The way to get the man to take the initiative to fall in love with you

1. Smile from the heart.

Your confident smile will always be your tried-and-true killer feature. Whether it's directly with him or with the people around you, show off your charming smile as much as you can. This will make others feel that you are approachable and can also make you feel more happy.

2. Grab his stomach first.

Every day at the end of the day, you cook a delicious dinner for him, turn on the lights in the house, and wait for him to come home late. Men are often able to experience the warmth of home in such situations. If he brings his work home, don't try to divert his attention to himself, just fill his drinking glass with water or make a late-night snack, he will feel very warm.

This is the woman and family that men crave the most.

3. Unconventional, with a maverick personality style.

Women with unique personalities can always easily catch men's eyes, with a capture rate of more than 90%. At the same time, this kind of woman is also the most likely to leave a lasting impact in the hearts of men. From a man's point of view, although women are not required to be very different, they must at least have a bit of unconventional personality.

This is not only a symbolic distinction for women, but also a sign that guides men to chase to the end.