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It's normal. Loneliness is a moment that everyone will have, learn to accept it, digest it.
When you are lonely, you are also free to do whatever you want without being disturbed by the outside world. We can go to see a good book, experience a movie, learn some skills, etc., and take the initiative to find things to do at these times, then it is not lonely.
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I feel too lonely, I don't even have someone to talk to, then I think you must be your own feelings, there must be relatives or good friends, you can tell them what is in your heart. They will surely comfort you.
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If you have time, you can raise flowers and plants at home, find a job and earn money while chatting with colleagues to see if you can talk, so it is easy to find friends.
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What do you want to say? I can talk to strangers, I have no interests, and I can talk to you from the truth.
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It's normal to feel like you have no one to talk to, and to feel lonely. I also often feel lonely. In fact, loneliness is a compulsory course in our lives, and we always have to learn to be alone.
Because no one can accompany anyone forever, as the saying goes, there is no banquet in the world. We grew up with our parents, who grew up with us, but one day they will also leave. When we were young, we also had a lot of friends who played well.
When we were young, we were carefree, and the relationship between children was very simple and beautiful, without any interests. But we will also grow up, and our former friends will all have different circles and have their own new lives.
In fact, sometimes I am very envious of others, envy that they can have so many friends to play with, to play games together, to go out shopping together, to eat, drink, buy and buy. But as I grew up, I found that it was rare to have one or two best friends in my lifeThese best friends don't have to talk to each other every day, but they can help you when you need them. So don't feel like you're unaccompanied, and if you need new friends, you can also open up and get to know a few more friends.
The most important thing is not to fall into the trap of having no one to accompany you and no friends.
Life is inherently lonely, and when you feel that you have no one to talk to, you can go out for a walk and let nature ** your lonely mood. In addition, you can also devote yourself to reading, in fact, reading a few more good books is not a kind of silent communication? It is also a good experience for you to feel the author's mood in the book and find your own solace in the book.
As long as you learn to get along with yourself and know how to use your time, you will not be afraid of loneliness, and you will be stronger. In fact, your alone time is also very leisurely, you can use this time to develop your hobbies, or you can do what you like. It is very rare to have a confidant in life, so you don't need to pursue the company of others too much, and you must learn to solve problems by yourself.
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At this time, you should go out and take the initiative to chat with friends, and then let yourself watch some comedy movies, so that you can get rid of loneliness.
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You can do something you want to do, you can go to a book, you can meet some new friends or go to a party can change that.
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Now there are not many sincere people in this society, everyone has their own thoughts, you may treat people sincerely, people may be behind you, there is really nothing sad about it, it may just be that you haven't met people like your magnetic field Learn to integrate into them or no longer get used to loneliness, watch some funny shows, and enrich your life. I think when people are lonely in general, it's when they don't have anything they want to do or what they want to do. Also, when you are good enough, you will be surrounded by equally good people, and you may not be so lonely at that time.
Probably because I grew up, first, I must know more, and in many ways, I will inadvertently converge; Rather, friends will also have a circle of friends, for people who are not sociable Circle of friends.
It may only be a few people, but if your friend is sociable, you may be one of her many friends.
If you are the type of person who has difficulty digesting or controlling your emotions, it is recommended to communicate with your parents, friends, siblings. Listen to the opinions or ideas of your elders and peers, they enlighten you, or if there is nothing to say, you can also care more about them, I myself often tell my parents what interesting things I encountered, ask my brother if there is a call, what policies are in his hometown, or what tips he has learned recently, you can talk about it from all over the world.
You should believe that the world is beautiful and that it will be kind to those who are optimistic about him. If you don't have friends, you should get out of your closed circle, go out and walk around more, participate in various activities, and meet all kinds of people. Don't talk to anyone first, care about others first, listen to others, help others solve problems like a sincere friend, learn to socialize, have what you are good at and love, and look forward to anything that is coming, and then you will find that the world is still beautiful, and there are still many people you can socialize.
Be optimistic, it's not that you don't have friends, but you need to be happy, communicate with them more, and play together, so that others don't think you're indifferent.
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I think you should try to go out as much as possible, make more friends, this loneliness will slowly move away from you, you can go to play some small games during the holidays, and you will meet some good friends.
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I think you must first understand that loneliness is the norm of a person, and it is also the only way to go in life, especially as you get older, the more you can experience this loneliness. You need to find an outlet to solve it, such as meeting more like-minded friends, doing interesting things together to make yourself happy, and you can also develop hobbies and communicate with the outside world.
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I think you can chat with people online, and it's easy to find people to chat with online.
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Hugging, feeling lonely and helpless are common emotions for most people. In life, people face various challenges and difficulties, and these emotions and feelings are very normal. In this case, it is recommended that you can try the following:
1.Seek professional help: If you feel like you can't cope, consider seeking help from a counsellor or doctor who can provide more professional advice and methods.
2.Find social support: Try participating in social activities, such as volunteer activities, sports clubs, interest groups, etc., to connect with people and make new friends and increase your social circle.
3.Cultivate your own hobbies: You can find some hobbies that you like, such as reading, painting, **, etc., to keep yourself busy, and at the same time, you can also relieve loneliness and anxiety.
4.Accept your emotions: Don't deny or run away from your emotions, learn to accept your emotions and feelings, and also learn to deal with and cope with your emotions positively.
Of course, it may just be that you are unwilling to take that step, for fear of being rejected, go to Regret Zhenqi to take the initiative to chat with someone, and maybe there will be an unexpected enthusiastic response?
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Oh, so sad, what can I do for you? You can find some friends to chat with or do something fun with your family.
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Are you still afraid that no one will talk on the Internet?
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Summary. I also often feel like I'm lonely. A lot of behavior is determined by personality.
So you can't learn your best friend, you just have so many friends. But that doesn't mean there's something wrong with such a life, or how bad it is. A group of people has the emptiness of a group of people, and a person has the satisfaction of a person.
When you feel the need for someone else, it's the time when you should learn to be alone. Shopping alone, solving one's own troughs. So when you can live yourself well, you don't need anyone else anymore, and you're full.
How lonely it is to not even have someone to talk to.
I also often feel like I'm lonely. A lot of behavior is determined by personality. So you can't learn your best friend, you just have so many friends.
But that doesn't mean there's something wrong with such a life, or how bad it is. A group of people has the emptiness of a group of people, and a person has the satisfaction of a person. When you feel the need for someone else, it's the time when you should learn to be alone.
Shopping alone, solving one's own troughs. So when you can live yourself well, you don't need anyone else anymore, and you're full.
After that, something magical happens. You become rich, and you are willing to go shopping with others, not need. You are willing to make friends, not need.
This attitude of not forcing everyone will be very comfortable, you will have more friends, and you will get along better with friends. You do lack a lot of love right now, but this feeling is very subjective, and one day you change your mind, and you feel that you are not lacking, you are not lacking. The solution to loneliness cannot be to be accompanied by someone, and no one will always be with anyone.
Once the person accompanying you is gone, the loneliness becomes even greater. You can only face it head-on until you make peace with it.
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A person will feel very lonely, and this loneliness is because we have no sustenance in our hearts, or we have not calmed down, because this society is too impetuous, and impetuousness makes it difficult for us to calm down and think.
<> when a person is alone, if he is alone, he will feel lonely, so he can only immerse himself in all kinds of entertainment and parties. The loneliness after the hustle and bustle will make people even more lonely, and the reason is that he has no sustenance and no direction in his heart. Confused people are not terrible, what is terrible is always confused people, if you can't accept a person, you will become someone else's foil, you are next to others, you will always be just someone else's foil, or occasionally there will be lights, but it will be dull after all.
Don't be afraid to be alone. Think about your mistakes and the way you behave, what you can improve, what you can strengthen, or what plans you have, or what you want to achieve in life.
Life is not only material consumption, but also spiritual consumption, when you are alone, let yourself become profound, have connotation, let your horizons be a little broader, read more books, see other people's way of thinking and life thinking, and see what is different in the world of reading.
After a long time, the material will be boring, but the spirit will be fragrant. Only by cultivating an interesting soul can we have an interesting life forever. When you are alone, you should have a sense of ritual and delicacy.
Don't be afraid of difficulties. When you are lonely, be responsible and don't be afraid to give. Loneliness is for yourself, because you are afraid, because you are afraid, because you are not, so you should pay attention to cultivating your self-confidence and calmness, in a person's day, you can see the liveliness of a person, and you can also see the loneliness of a group of people.
There will always be a time in our lives when we need to go it alone. We should grasp and deal with it. This is the opportunity that life gives everyone.
Material things can give a person a certain charm, but the real temperament is when you spit out the lotus, that kind of elegance, erudition, steadiness and extraordinary, this is what we want to improve when we are lonely, no one is born to succeed, they all work hard when they are lonely.
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I think it's mainly because the older I get, the more things I have on my mind, and other people can't understand me, so it's normal to be lonely like this.
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Because we are all adults and have too many responsibilities on our shoulders, sometimes we feel tired and are reluctant to speak.
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Because people have such needs, sometimes we want to be alone and quiet, and we don't want to talk to people.
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People are born with loneliness, especially in the middle of the night. The first is not to be afraid of this loneliness, and the second is to get along with this loneliness, which is to treat this brother's loneliness as a part of life. In the past, when I felt that Liang Min was not lonely, I also wanted to find someone to talk to, but then I found out that loneliness is actually something that everyone has, and the other one I think is that loneliness is like your shadow, it is always there, your loneliness is to show that you are unique and different, some people say that loneliness is a kind of beauty, it is really like this.
If you feel too lonely, you can read a book or do some exercise. Take a walk or go on a trip to the countryside. When I was a child, we might have asked for help from the outside world, but now that I'm older, I'll reconcile with loneliness, and sometimes I'll give myself some time alone to quiet my mind.
As long as your heart is not flustered, it is not a wonderful feeling to stop and feel the passage of time.
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Yes, divert attention, relax, and vent reasonably.
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1.You don't have a true friend, so sometimes a lot of hearts have nowhere to confide in, nowhere to vent2You look down on the world, because the world is full of lies and deception3
You are lost, because every time you move forward, you are wet with coldness and reality, and giving yourself a smile when your heart is empty is also a kind of pride in yourself.
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